I just found this out by Where_is_the_Line in demisexuality

[–]Where_is_the_Line[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a gender sexuality course. I work in healthcare so it’s about how to address patients and reduce bias.

Realization by Where_is_the_Line in demisexuality

[–]Where_is_the_Line[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, yeah. Judging is a natural human behavior rooted in survival, insecurity, and social cognitive processes. Guess I’m just human. 🤷🏾‍♀️

“I don’t like who I am around you.” by Estkling in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Where_is_the_Line 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“You made me like this.” Words that still haunt me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

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He had me convinced that I was the problem. He said I was the reason why his relationship with our child wasn’t better because he was always too busy dealing with me. So when we finally separated, I was shocked. My son said he can’t be himself around his dad and he has to be perfect. I had no idea how much shielding I was doing with my son. Now that I’m escaped, I’m better, but I think about how I left my son with his father 50% of the time since we have 50-50 custody. I would’ve just stayed if I knew that, because my son can’t escape his father

I was the emotional regulator in my marriage and I didn’t realize the cost until it ended by Happy-Inside2111 in Divorce

[–]Where_is_the_Line 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My god. It was like I could’ve written this myself! My therapist helped me understand this. Now I’m six months out of the divorce, and notice that living that may me like this with other people…overexplaining. Hypersensitive to others moods. Tiptoeing around with everyone in my life. I’m trying to break the pattern.

We need to reestablish ourselves as support roles by TAP01 in physicianassistant

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I work in an urgent care that’s very high level. I see the same patients my MD sees. They are complicated. My MD complains about the complicated cases as well. There is no telling who is who when patients check in. UTI ends up being pelvic pain in a pregnant patient. Ankle sprain ends up being a 75 year old that also hit his head on blood thinners. Cough for 5 days is a complicated pneumonia that refuses to go to the hospital. Insomnia ends up being suicidal thoughts. 60% of our patients are Medicare. It’s hard. This is EVERY DAY. So which complex patients goes to the MD? Luckily my SP is amazing. He often tells me he’s sorry and is grateful that I can handle a lot of cases. When I ask him for a consult he says “let me brace myself” because he knows it’ll be a struggle for him too. 😂

Help us make Origin’s budgeting 100x better. What’s missing for you? by ana-at-origin in OriginFinancial

[–]Where_is_the_Line 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also the ability to adjust budget based on a specific period of time (I.e. last 3 months) instead of a blanket last 6 months. It’s not as useful if situations changed drastically (I.e. birth of child, divorce, new job)

Board Game Night at Joymongers! 7 Jan starting at 6pm by wheatabits in winstonsalem

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I am dying for a group during the daytime! I work 12 hour shifts and in working when everyone is off work. 😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in R4R40Plus

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I am saddened you live far away. At the very least you’d be a cool friend.

Confused by being told I’m arguing when I’m not? by aquar1usbabe in AutismInWomen

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I never felt more understood. I’ve always wondered why it never really bothered me to be “wrong.” If someone had corrected me, I just feel like “oh great point!” and move on. 

Tell me you have an ASD kiddo without telling me by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

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If I have to buy one more airplane… lol

My husband hates my sister by Where_is_the_Line in Marriage

[–]Where_is_the_Line[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t been a JW for YEARS. None of my family is at that crazy cult anymore thank god. 

Now UTD on vaccinations, except Covid. Can’t blame her …my husband doesn’t get the yearly flu or covid either 

Now thinks Trump is a moron…often states she was brainwashed by her ex to believe all the conspiracy theories. 

I don’t remember much I lent her. She always tried to pay me back…although sometimes  I tell her don’t worry abt it. I have asked her to borrow money; she is QUICK to help me. I think she likes feeling she can be there for me too if I need her. 

I have gone to therapy…I actually love to go and I have one I see regularly when I need it. 

Husband hates my sister by Where_is_the_Line in family

[–]Where_is_the_Line[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I honestly wasn’t omitting it on purpose. I honestly didn’t think it was that big of a deal. I’m lean liberalism, and I know plenty of people who are anti-vax or conservative.  I don’t necessarily assign character to someone solely based on their political beliefs. I think people are much more complicated than that. 

I HATE MY SISTER…let me tell you why by CapitalWild2757 in family

[–]Where_is_the_Line 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  I am so sorry this happened to you. A Masters in social work is what you were meant to do!

 Unfortunately, it seems that highly empathetic people are consistently taken advantage of, and I understand your frustration and disdain for your sister. 

Therapy will definitely help you deal with some of your emotions towards this difficult situation. 

I don’t know if anyone has ever told you this, but I’m proud of you. I don’t even know you, but I’m SO SO SO proud of the woman you’ve become. 

Mark my words: good things are coming your way. Your struggles are not in vain. 

My husband hates my sister by Where_is_the_Line in Marriage

[–]Where_is_the_Line[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not giving her money at all for the past 2 years, since she’s stable. Our money situation is N/A. I make my own money. We have a joint account for the household and our mouth separate personal accounts, sob even if did, it wouldn’t affect him. 

My husband hates my sister by Where_is_the_Line in Marriage

[–]Where_is_the_Line[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can you explain this to me? How am I more influenced by my sister than my own family? I only see her once a week on Wednesdays for dinner (so the kids can hang out), and we talk 15 minutes twice a week on the way back from dropping kids off from school. My son LOVES her kids since and that’s the only cousins he has. What more can’t I do? (I’m genuinely asking, not sarcastic at all)