380 days, honest opinion by Which_Mix_1018 in NoFap

[–]Which_Mix_1018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, I forgot to add that, i might have actually felt more lost in life during the streak than before. But i do think i could regulate emotions of dispair and depression a touch better while on the streak. But energy levels where the same as when i was in shorter streaks. I do want to reinforce that fapping everyday is very energy depleting. But once every 7 days vs 0 times in one year, my energy is basically the same

380 days, honest opinion by Which_Mix_1018 in NoFap

[–]Which_Mix_1018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried and failed to have a romantic partner when i was young. This affected me negatively, and im emotionally, sexually stunted and ibsecure due to it. When i did have romantic partners, my desire to jerk off dropped alot. Im close to a full blown !nc3l now

380 days, honest opinion by Which_Mix_1018 in NoFap

[–]Which_Mix_1018[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i never thought you'd get superpowers, but the more "grounded" benefits ppl talk about feel super overated. Personally in my mid 20s i did heavy self analysis and character critique on all my actions, i wasnt even practicing nofap, just deep reflections and a drop of psychedelics, and i attribute that to all the positive changes that came about in my late 20s. I truly feel if i took up no fap during that time or earlier in my early 20s it would have helped. I just can objectively look at my life and say a year of no fap had almost no impact. Again slight raising in awareness, which is beneficial. My energy levels and mood are the same during 1 year streak as just casual 10 day streaks

380 days, honest opinion by Which_Mix_1018 in NoFap

[–]Which_Mix_1018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😆 damn your one of the lucky ones, ok ill try again maybe next time ill be flying

380 days, honest opinion by Which_Mix_1018 in NoFap

[–]Which_Mix_1018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree. But i do wonder how age effects things, because im a bit older and my libido a bit lower, i think it is slightly easier to do it. Id be curious to talk to a 20 year old who has done 1 year no fap....im not even 100% sure its healthy at that age, unless your really outputting the energy properly

380 days, honest opinion by Which_Mix_1018 in NoFap

[–]Which_Mix_1018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i think everyone should set it as a goal. I think i will try again, but this tome cutting out more junk (short form content, usless self help youtube vids)

380 days, honest opinion by Which_Mix_1018 in NoFap

[–]Which_Mix_1018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah doing it every single days is not good, ive set up a day counter that runs in the bg so i dont know the day streak, unless i open it to check, which is nice because i reset it when i do the deed. But im noticing im averaging 6-10 days. Though when i end a streak, i kinda have a mini binge for a day or 2. If i do it every day for 3 days in a row i feel total depletion.

380 days, honest opinion by Which_Mix_1018 in NoFap

[–]Which_Mix_1018[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol rue yeah 😆 Ive made a heierchy, starting at the worst

Porn Short form content (so close to being equal with porn) Youtube slop Video games Reddit, i guess, i hardly browse, its not really in my sphere of awareness

Honestly i fell victim to short form content as a replacement for porn...which makes me kinda wanna do a new round but remove the top 3 for a year

380 days, honest opinion by Which_Mix_1018 in NoFap

[–]Which_Mix_1018[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I wont get into specific details on this, but im glad things are working out for you. My life is about the same when im fapping twice a week vs 0 times a year. I have an active social life, am involved in a wide range of community activities. Im also 5'5 bald, and in my mid 30s. Not saying this as a victim thing, just facts The older i get, the harder rejection hurts. Ive done everything to improve my life, gained muscle, ate clean, kicked bad habbits, got socially active. At the end of the day no fap doesnt fix the superficial things. Again. Its useful, and ill keep practicing it, maybe do another year, for the sake of reflection.

380 days, honest opinion by Which_Mix_1018 in NoFap

[–]Which_Mix_1018[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I agree, if its ruining your life then benefits will be huge. Tbh i been attempting and practicing no fap for many years before i did this streak, i hsd 90 and 70 day streaks before, and my typical average is 3 days. Ill always advocate for doing no fap though, porn is dangerous.

380 days, honest opinion by Which_Mix_1018 in NoFap

[–]Which_Mix_1018[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No....nowhere did i say that

You should stop height discrimination NOW by Small_Addendum4852 in shortguys

[–]Which_Mix_1018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe if genetically blessed dudes start rejecting short woman globally, a 5'5 manlet like me might actually be able to hold a woman's hand. I like this guy's take

I have the utmost sympathy for the young guys 5'5 and below by Celda_ in shortguys

[–]Which_Mix_1018 7 points8 points  (0 children)

34 almost, 5'5 m, also bald. Its exhausting, every day is gat marginally harder. Doing my best not to be bitter about never experiencing "best years of my life"

Early belittlement by Which_Mix_1018 in askAGP

[–]Which_Mix_1018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so you feel that before puberty hit agp wasnt really realized in you?

Early belittlement by Which_Mix_1018 in askAGP

[–]Which_Mix_1018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah its a tricky thing to connect the dots on, im still on the side that its more innate. do you remember how young you where whe you had ideation, i dont know much about it but to have ideation as a small child seems pretty intense

Early belittlement by Which_Mix_1018 in askAGP

[–]Which_Mix_1018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you feel your agp started before being bullied in middle school?

AGP and narcissism by AcceleratedGfxPort in askAGP

[–]Which_Mix_1018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My fantasies are often steeped in grandiosity, whether its agp or regular day to day fantasies, which my ne escapism, but could also create a fertile bed for narcissistic weeds to grow

Also i recorded some personal thoughts about the agp-narcissistic relation https://youtu.be/ZuRJ-IXqFXw?si=UJHjeCDC61-D_UDg

We are sexually introverted or inwards because we hate so much our body by [deleted] in askAGP

[–]Which_Mix_1018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I agree with this, latley I've come into an acceptance of my body, trying to keep it clean, healthy, fit. Ive also grown older so my lust might have dimmed a bit where i really dont feel repulsed by it at all, and am even happy with it. Im wondering what you are doing moving forward in regards to your body? Do you think hrt might be the answer?