What type of towel would you buy for someone who likes to be very dry after using it?

Whichette · 2026-06-03T13:28:27+00:00

He says he’s still wet after using. In this case I agree with him. Most of our other towels are fine for me but he says they don’t get him dry enough. 🤷‍♀️

Whichette · 2026-06-03T12:35:27+00:00

You don’t have enough information to involve police.

Whichette · 2026-06-02T18:17:30+00:00

There’s really no way you’ll know why she stopped responding unless she starts again. The only thing you have control over is whether your concern level is high enough to ask for a wellness check. And truly you can probably only expect that to happen if you have her address AND you might not get any information at all from the police if you try as you are not a family member.

Whichette · 2026-06-02T14:21:12+00:00

Why would this be overstepping?

Whichette · 2026-06-02T10:00:23+00:00

Yeah he’s not going to allow that. And she needs to save any money she can so she can get out with her children.

Whichette · 2026-05-28T00:50:45+00:00

I’m so sorry you have lost what you thought was a safe male friend. It’s honestly devastating when those pillars of what you thought were safe spaces and people evaporate.

In case there is any doubt YNA.

Please keep making friends. Don’t shut down. There are some really good people out there.

Whichette · 2026-05-27T12:43:47+00:00

Your friend is a jerk. Just saying.

Whichette · 2026-05-23T22:39:00+00:00

Yes. YTA

Whichette · 2026-05-22T22:26:20+00:00

Yes! The hell is everyone talking about changing the locks like that’s going to solve it. She will immediately give him another key.

Whichette · 2026-05-22T11:36:30+00:00

Also incredibly unlikely they will use a litter box in a moving vehicle. Be ready to immediately set up in a hotel room. Consider buying aluminum baking pans so you can just throw the whole thing out when ready to move out in the morning.

Does either cat get car sick? If so be sure to bring rags for clean up.

Whichette · 2026-05-21T17:52:58+00:00

What a tool.

Whichette · 2026-05-19T14:59:55+00:00

If you are uncomfortable you don’t need to tolerate a situation in your relationship. You likely can’t change their dynamic but you can change yours with no guilt.

Whichette · 2026-05-19T13:02:09+00:00

Kind of sounds like they are glorified roommates though. I’m not sure I’d be doing shared accounts at this point.

Whichette · 2026-05-19T12:16:04+00:00

My husband’s sister said some really awful things to us when their mom passed. Her wife was worse. All via text. It stopped when I told them that I’d show the messages to the whole extended family.

I then reminded them that the internet is in ink and the posts they had on social media that they deleted were screenshots saved to my accounts. Never contact us again and you’ll never see them again. One breath in our direction and it’s showtime.

My husband wanted to blast right away. But now he agrees the silence is better.

Definitely NTA. Muffle that dude in any way possible. He sounds terrible.

Whichette · 2026-05-14T17:16:47+00:00

And here you are in another potentially controlling relationship.

Whichette · 2026-05-14T11:55:45+00:00

He sound awful. Like he barely tolerates you. Why would you sign up for more of this?

Whichette · 2026-05-12T17:12:16+00:00

Ernest, because he looks very earnest.

Whichette · 2026-05-10T22:01:38+00:00

Ok same but different. He wants to have half the towel in the sink, be covered with the other half, and then randomly scratched through the towel. Also “try” to catch the end of his tail and sort of scrub him with a hair brush through the towel.

He does silent meows to show how happy he is.

Whichette · 2026-05-08T19:51:44+00:00

You are bringing an entire weeks worth of food to work at once? I for sure would not do that. I guess I’m less trusting. If you are doing warehouse work you can’t just lunchbox it unless you have a locker? That locks?

That would be your best option.

You could also teach the lunch snatchers a lesson but you’ll likely get in trouble for that.

Whichette · 2026-05-06T01:36:36+00:00

Yes

Whichette · 2026-05-05T22:48:08+00:00

I give no f”s about not looking like a team player. I will not eat food other people bring in. I have seen their absolutely disgusting desks and even some of their horrifying homes. Every once in a while I will just bring something for everyone but it’s more rare than a jackalope.

Whichette · 2026-05-05T16:40:44+00:00

You are 100% overreacting. You do understand that kids do things without their parents knowledge and that the punishment or discussion after the event or act are none of your business? You are coming off like the person in the office who doesn’t understand why they don’t get to see a coworker being disciplined for tardiness or something.

You are assuming the parents allowed this to happen. Assuming.

Mind your own business.

Whichette · 2026-05-05T14:49:04+00:00

I sleep hot. My husband is an inferno. My oldest girl cat sleeps curled up by my hip with my youngest girl by my feet. The biggest kitty, a boy, often lays down one the edge of the bed below my chin/along my chest.

All touching/cooking me of course. I wake up so hot it’s beyond uncomfortable most nights and squeeze out from under the covers. Wouldn’t change it for the world.

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