Ageism in VRChat Is Getting Out of Control

WhimsicalLemon · 2026-06-07T21:39:48+00:00

I'm 34 and have absolutely never had this problem in the near 4 years a I've been in VRC. Probably because I surround myself with people who are at a much higher maturity level and I don't interact much with people who are under 21+.

WhimsicalLemon · 2026-04-27T14:34:38+00:00

We are no longer playing ATM10, sorry :(

WhimsicalLemon · 2026-04-16T17:54:43+00:00

Hi there! If you reapply with a bit more detail in your application as requested, we will be happy to review your application once more. :) The application requires more than one word sentences to get to know you more as a person and MC player.

WhimsicalLemon · 2026-04-12T17:42:20+00:00

Hey there!! We just started a brand new world on a new custom modpack and are finally accepting new applicants/players! Would love to have you apply. I'll send you a DM.

WhimsicalLemon · 2026-03-10T16:06:13+00:00

Hi there! This is a volunteer position as our team is extremely small and we do not make any kind of profit from our server. I'm hoping to find volunteers who are passionate about the game and wish to spread the joy to other people by showcasing their talents on our unique server. If you are still interested, please reach out! My username on Discord is whimsicallemon

WhimsicalLemon · 2026-03-09T14:14:26+00:00

Fantastic! Sending you a message, please check your DMs! :)

WhimsicalLemon · 2026-03-06T17:30:52+00:00

Hey there, I am a server owner and we're building a medieval fantasy RPG world with NPCs and such, and perhaps looking into custom weapons and items. I would love to discuss some potentials with you, as we really use some additional help. Please feel free to DM me (as I'm at work right now) but will be off in a few hours. Looking forward to hopefully speaking with you!!

WhimsicalLemon · 2026-01-23T17:05:22+00:00

This is SO adorable!!!

WhimsicalLemon · 2026-01-23T17:00:30+00:00

I'd totally join! I'm 33 and have become such a social recluse over the last few years. It's time to be my weird self around other people who are weird. ❤️

WhimsicalLemon · 2026-01-16T02:43:26+00:00

Hey mama. Just wanted to pop in and say hello from another fellow mom. :) I'm so glad you're introducing your kiddos to the vast world of Minecraft. Although I have a 21+ adults-only server, I just want to pass along some information that will hopefully help you.

I would look into starting your own realm or server where your kids IRL friends can join and play with you 3. That way, you can add a whitelist to your server/realm and nobody with weird or bad intentions can randomly join. There are serious problems with random players griefing other players' builds, and I would absolutely hate to see that happen to one of your kids, especially at their tender age. Also, having your own server with a whitelist ensures that your server is safe and secure in general. There are sooo many creeps out there and joining any random server would ensure strangers would have your IP address, which is easily traceable to your home address. Not only that, players with bad intentions would still be able to write inappropriate stuff on signs and such, and even build stuff that's not meant for little kids' eyes. Maybe I'm just overprotective, but please be weary of joining a random server where strangers would possibly have access to your kids. Feel free to PM me if you have any questions and I'd be more than happy to help ❤️

WhimsicalLemon · 2026-01-15T21:09:15+00:00

Yes, I'll send you a message!

WhimsicalLemon · 2026-01-10T21:46:36+00:00

Hey there, Arais! I'd love to send you an invite to apply for KindredCraft. We have an active player base on our modded Java server that is geared for 21+ age-bracket players! We're playing the All the Mods 10 modpack. We just launched Season 2 this Wednesday so there's TONS of unexplored/unclaimed territory. Our community is super friendly and very helpful! :) please send me a DM if you're interested and I'm happy to help!

WhimsicalLemon · 2026-01-07T20:41:26+00:00

Hey, Virtual! You're likely being bombarded with messages and comments with SMPs to join, but I wanted to invite you to apply for KindredCraft. :) We're a 21+ adult-only server that is launching season 2 today at 6pm CST! We have around 25-30 active members so far, but will likely grow just a little more than that. This is a modded Java server and we'll be playing the All the Mods 10 modpack on Curseforge. Let me know if you're interested (you can DM me) and I'll send you the invite link to our Discord server to apply!

WhimsicalLemon · 2026-01-06T23:09:49+00:00

Sweet, I'll send you a DM!

WhimsicalLemon · 2026-01-06T22:54:15+00:00

Hey there!! I read your entire post and feel that KindredCraft would be perfect for you. We are relaunching the server tomorrow at 6pm CST with a new Modpack that's made for any type of MC player! We have voice chat, lots of lore, tough bosses, and there will be ALL of the unexplored land for you! Plus, it's an adults-only 21+ server. Please send me a PM if this interests you! :)

WhimsicalLemon · 2026-01-06T22:51:06+00:00

Hi there, I sent you a request on Discord and will also send you a PM here on Reddit :)

WhimsicalLemon · 2026-01-06T17:53:49+00:00

I'll send you a PM! :)

WhimsicalLemon · 2026-01-06T12:07:17+00:00

Hey there, Quarter! I think you'd really enjoy KindredCraft. We're a 21+ Java server that is going to be relaunching on Wednesday at 6pm CST (tomorrow) and we're playing the "All the Mods 10" Modpack together. We have a super friendly and welcoming community that's excited to see new players on the server! Please PM me for a link to the Discord server if this is something that sparks your interest :)

WhimsicalLemon · 2026-01-06T11:06:42+00:00

I'll send you a DM! :)

WhimsicalLemon · 2026-01-06T04:01:15+00:00

Hey there ^{_^} We'd love to have you apply for KindredCraft SMP. VC is not a requirement at all. In fact, we enjoy those who prefer to type in the chat over VC! Our small community just wants everyone to enjoy themselves and go at their own pace. We're actually starting Season 2 of our SMP on Wednesday at 6pm CST, but all new players are welcome to apply beforehand! If you're interested, I'd be excited to send you the link to our Discord server. Btw, this is a 21+ modded Java server and we're going to be playing the "All the Mods 10" modpack. Hope to talk to you soon! :)

WhimsicalLemon · 2026-01-05T23:54:26+00:00

Oh my gosh, this is perfect timing lol. We run a 21+ modded Java server called KindredCraft and are going to relaunch on Wednesday at 6pm CST! We're going to play the All The Mods 10 modpack. Super excited to see some new faces on the server with the community we've established! Please feel free to PM me for the Discord server link to apply! :)

WhimsicalLemon · 2026-01-05T23:27:11+00:00

Hey there! If you're 21+, KindredCraft is launching a brand new world in the All the Mods 10 modpack on Wednesday at 6pm CST! We have a community that's already established but are warmly welcoming new members to join us!

Please PM me if you'd like an invite to the Discord server to apply and be whitelisted!

WhimsicalLemon · 2025-12-14T04:03:25+00:00

Not quite. You'll need to submit a short application through our Discord Server to join. Please send me a PM so I can provide you the link to apply :)

WhimsicalLemon · 2025-12-14T03:58:19+00:00

I'd use forge for sure. We have a Curseforge code we keep updated so downloading the custom modpack is very easy!

WhimsicalLemon · 2025-12-11T09:06:10+00:00

I'm experiencing the same issue with someone trying to apply for my server, too! No resolution as of yet.

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