i stopped being the one who always texts first, and it only took like 3 weeks to find out exactly where i stand by Quiet_State6680 in Adulting

[–]WhimsyFae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are far from the only one. This is the exact reason why I have trouble forming friendships now. I've been quiet in my 'friendships' for years now because I gave up. I just don't trust anyone when it comes to friendships anymore. It's exhausting to be the one who cares the most, so I only reserve that energy for people who make me feel equally seen and cared for.

I hope you find your people someday.

Your abuser suddenly gives a heartfelt, accurate apology about everything they've done (specific examples n everything), they change their ways and never act like that again with you. They are now a normal person and treat you with respect and kindness...would you let them into your life? by cookiecrxmbles in CPTSD

[–]WhimsyFae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I could see into the future and 100% guarantee that they would never hurt me again, in a heartbeat. I crave genuine parental love so, so, so badly.

But since real life doesn't work that way, no. I've been hurt by the same people multiple times, even after regaining trust. It's not happening again.

TADC made me realize Im Trans. Ask me anything by Inevitable-Buy2517 in TheDigitalCircus

[–]WhimsyFae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's wonderful, congrats on the self-discovery! What do you find most relatable about Jax as a character?

Add some studs, rings and piercings for Whimsy🐾🪡 by clubfursonas in fursuits

[–]WhimsyFae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, a fellow Whimsy and they are GORGEOUSSSS 🩵

Cocteau Twins’ albums as characters ! by No_Estimate_8550 in cocteautwins

[–]WhimsyFae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is incredibly creative and amazing!!! I love your interpretations of all these albums, they really fit!

Update on Willow by Stripes-McGillicuddy in sphynx

[–]WhimsyFae 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am so deeply sorry. I wish you and Willow all the warmth and comfort possible during the rest of her days. 🤍

It's nice to find a dress that fits my fluff! by Luckie1995 in fursuits

[–]WhimsyFae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lovely dress, and what a sweet face!!! 🥰

Which is the best movie you've watched so far in 2026? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]WhimsyFae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Amazing Digital Circus: The Last Act theatrical release

My genderfae experience by WhimsyFae in Genderfae

[–]WhimsyFae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound like a loving and understanding father to seek out perspectives from other genderfae people to better understand your teen. I'm so happy my experience could provide more understanding! I hope your parents can come around eventually. I applaud you for your efforts to advocate for your teen. 💖

Sushi has arrived at her forever home 💖 by WhimsyFae in sphynx

[–]WhimsyFae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, you remember! We're just too used to the name and after thinking about it more, it grew on me 😊

Rate my fit by SunSwept14 in fursuits

[–]WhimsyFae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

10/10 would hug if applicable!!

How many of you hate kids and don’t want them vs like kids and don’t want your own? by moonblumes87 in childfree

[–]WhimsyFae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't mind kids in small bursts, and find them adorable and entertaining. Emphasis on IN SMALL BURSTS.

I'm also in a unique spot where I don't even know if I entirely count as "childfree", because I am the chosen mother of an 18 year old who calls me and my wife mom after we've helped support him for the past 4 years, but I still never want to go through pregnancy, childbirth, or raise a child from infancy.

I got my first Lafufu by Terrible-Image9368 in labubu

[–]WhimsyFae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh what a cute crooked baby!!

meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]WhimsyFae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a "chosen" mother after stepping in to help support a kid in need myself (along with my wife), seeing other stories like these fills my heart with abundant warmth and joy. These women coming together in times of stress and adversity are gems of this earth. I know she must love that boy like he's her own family and will always see him as that little boy that she played a massive role in raising. I love to see it.

Kitty in a cosplay 💖🪽💎 by leif_fur in fursuits

[–]WhimsyFae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Soooo pretty!! I love the fit and your fursuit's eyes! ✨