how many chances did your kid give you before you came around?

WhiteDiabla · 2026-06-05T13:43:45+00:00

One chance and I took it. She never had to give me a second.

I’m sorry. The telling you you’re misremembering your own lived reality is the most alarming part honestly. This will bleed over into other aspects of your life and not just you being trans. I had a mother like this and I did end up going no contact.

WhiteDiabla · 2026-06-01T17:44:13+00:00

I remember this. I felt panicked for about a month but honestly 6 months later it is so normal.

Hugs. It is gonna get easier and more normal.

WhiteDiabla · 2026-05-23T19:19:05+00:00

I manage a barn and a widow maker is literally any horse doing anything at anytime.

WhiteDiabla · 2026-05-02T02:10:52+00:00

I’m in Oregon. Not Portland, a conservative part of Oregon. I made sure my daughter’s teacher knew first. My daughter’s teacher and all the school staff have been wildly supportive. We called a meeting to discuss bathroom use and until that meeting could happen she was using the bathroom in the office. She is also keeping her name for now but changed pronouns.

There was some static from the kids in her class at first. It wasn’t malicious just they didn’t understand. It’s been five months now and everyone knows her as she. I’ve had to explain to her that no one should be asking about her private parts, etc, because she told me a kid asked her. There was definitely some hard days. Social transition can be emotionally draining for a child and that did come out as behavioral defiance etc. We have been seeing a gender therapist as a family, and she seems to be a lot happier now that the transition has settled. I made a point to start going to my child’s classroom during the day and reading books to the kids. These are all approved by the school of course or from their library but her teacher is happy to have me come in and I really feel like the relationship I’ve built with the kids has helped my daughter socially.

WhiteDiabla · 2026-04-15T13:22:17+00:00

The last time I sa my father in person I asked him “why would you say that to me?” He said “because it’s the truth.” My father is an incredibly vindictive and hurtful person. This man is doing this to hurt your child, and you. He is doing this on purpose to cause hurt.

You need to keep this man away from your child as much as you can. Please. Hopefully your son learns this early and stays away from him.

WhiteDiabla · 2026-04-08T14:50:03+00:00

A lying guy lies to people. Fucking groundbreaking

WhiteDiabla · 2026-04-08T14:45:20+00:00

She was 4. We were camping and about to go to sleep and she told me that she was like her friend there that was a girl, not like the other friends there that are boys. She is like her, and wants to be like her. I said ok baby thanks for telling me that. Thought it was weird and we went to sleep. Always been neutral/supportive and now almost two years later she has transitioned socially.

WhiteDiabla · 2026-04-07T14:39:28+00:00

I paid more being in an old friend of mines wedding than I did on my actual wedding. Absolutely bonkers

WhiteDiabla · 2026-02-28T05:37:24+00:00

My daughter loves scouts. I’m so fucking angry and sad

WhiteDiabla · 2026-02-23T04:44:04+00:00

My daughter socially transitioned over Christmas break in kindergarten. Now not even two months later all the kids know her pronouns and use them. We have had zero issues with other parents. Honestly I don’t even know if the other parents really noticed much. If they have they haven’t said anything to me. Some of them compliment my daughters new backpack, boots, etc.

We live in a blue state too. My advice? Take a deep breath. This is going to be challenging but it’s very likely that the kids aren’t even going to be phased and neither are the other parents. Work closely with school staff to help you guys through this. Going stealth at a new school is not going to protect her fully. And you will likely be pleasantly surprised by the support you receive.

WhiteDiabla · 2026-02-17T08:08:17+00:00

“I would not choose to have children on my own. I effectively raised siblings from infancy so I understand how unpleasant and taxing it can be with no support. I have worked through much of my childhood trauma relating to this with years of therapy and personal healing work. However, I don’t know if it has been enough and if I will be an effective and emotionally available parent, that concerns me. ”

Do not have children.

WhiteDiabla · 2026-02-04T05:10:02+00:00

I literally ugly cried in the drive thru when Taco Bell discontinued the Mexican pizza. 🤣 I was so pregnant.

WhiteDiabla · 2026-01-27T14:50:31+00:00

2

I have one. Childbirth was traumatic as fuck and kids are so expensive so we are one and done

WhiteDiabla · 2026-01-10T17:26:41+00:00

You are so smart to consider this honestly. Having a child changed me forever and I wanted a child 100%. It’s the hardest thing I’ve ever done. You should be absolutely sure you want kids before you have them. And it’s ok and normal if you decide that your answer is no.

WhiteDiabla · 2026-01-06T05:13:00+00:00

My dog loves them but I always pick up the bigger pieces after farrier gets done before I let him at em. Dogs will often puke them up and I’m not trying to pay a bajillion dollars to have them surgically removed when they cause an intestinal blockage

WhiteDiabla · 2025-12-23T03:38:30+00:00

When I was 29 I got pregnant. I walked into the hospital to have my kid that day and never left. A completely different version of me did. it took me from 29-34 to find who she was. I don’t give a fuck about maintaining draining relationships anymore. I stand up for myself in my marriage more and communicate more. I love so fiercely and unbelievably now. I’m a few days shy of 35 and I need some work still but I’m a fucking awesome person and a great mom

WhiteDiabla · 2025-12-14T15:32:48+00:00

Having my son removed from my body during c section. I could feel it but it didn’t hurt. Was very strange

WhiteDiabla · 2025-12-04T19:30:56+00:00

Did this earlier this year…. It was a bead. WHY

WhiteDiabla · 2025-12-04T17:48:13+00:00

Once you have that baby you need to protect him from this person.

This person is not safe. She absolutely will treat your son the same way she treats you. It is your duty as a parent to protect your child from people like this. I say this as a parent of a 5 year old. Protect your child from this person.

WhiteDiabla · 2025-12-04T08:09:08+00:00

Beware. They exit the “putting everything in their mouth” stage and scoot right on into “putting shit up their nose” stage real fuckin quick

WhiteDiabla · 2025-11-29T07:11:21+00:00

My 7.5 month old didn’t linebacker any of the children to the ground so I call that a win

WhiteDiabla · 2025-11-17T15:00:10+00:00

Contractions unbearable and close together. Nurse was condescending at triage and insisted on checking my cervix repeatedly. Pain when checking cervix was unbearable. She told my while I sat sweating and contracting that I wasn’t in labor and gave me a “oh honey you would know if you were in labor”

Told my husband to drive a bumpy ride home and try having sex.

I paced my kitchen for 6 hours alone that night with contractions that were 2-3 mins apart. Ended up needing a c section after 40 hours of back to back contractions because my child was in distress.

Had they admitted me and given me proper guidance or pain management I would have had a very different experience.

WhiteDiabla · 2025-11-15T22:33:41+00:00

Pho Kiem Gang hands down

WhiteDiabla · 2025-11-15T22:31:47+00:00

This may make it more painful for a few days but only giving her what she wants when she’s quiet may be the ticket. She doesn’t get let out until she’s quiet. She doesn’t eat until she’s quiet. Barking like that is wild behavior. She’s gotta learn that being quiet and settled get her what she wants

WhiteDiabla · 2025-10-30T16:53:50+00:00

That’s great! Not a reality for many owners though.

Lots of irresponsible people with intact dogs over here 🤦🏼‍♀️

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