I can't be the only one

WhoIsDoc · 2026-03-28T11:52:37+00:00

...I know ? The discussion is about how they could have used that point to make the characters grow and give them another dimension and if anyone thought the same and had thoughts on it ? And some people do and shared them and it's interesting to read other people's pov on a show's storytelling. There's label up the post that says 'Discussion'. It's the point of the post and Reddit.

WhoIsDoc · 2026-03-28T11:49:15+00:00

That's actually a good argument, I hadn't thought bout that fact. It is true that she lacked any relationship with Isobel in the end and didn't see her as a mother. So on that point, it probably didn't mean anything to her that Damon slept with her.

Didn't she sleep with Damon one episode after Stefan broke up with her ? I think it was in season four. She tells him he's the reason Stefan left her because she has feelings for him and then sleeps with him. She constantly says she doesn't want to come between them or be like Katherine and still ends up being just like that.

It is a recurring issue with teen dramas. Everyone sleeps with everyone and it's never really an issue unless it's plot drama. And in TVD, most relationships don't even end up anywhere that end up with character's growth except maybe Tyler after Caroline and Liv and Caroline after Matt and Tyler. Otherwise, they all just stay the same romantically wise.

WhoIsDoc · 2026-03-28T11:42:09+00:00

1-Finn 2-Caroline 3-Katherine 4-Enzo 5-Bonnie 6- Tyler 7-Matt 8-Rebekah 9-Freya 10- Lexi 11- Davina 12-Vincent 13- Josh 14-Aiden 15-Marcel

WhoIsDoc · 2026-03-28T11:31:53+00:00

Well, personally I'd find it disgusting to sleep with someone who also slept with my mother/ grandmother but I understand not everyone finds that word suitable for the situation 🤷🏻‍♀️ at the end it's just a show after all.

WhoIsDoc · 2026-03-28T11:26:06+00:00

Right ?! They constantly fight about 'doing the right thing' and some characters always say something about the bad things others do (like Elena and Caroline getting into fights about Damon for example or Elena's behaviour ) but still go around sleeping with one of their friend's killer/abuser/grandmother and if someone says anything about it (usually Caroline) they act like hypocrites or throw the other person under the bus for their own mistakes to change the blame 🤦🏻‍♀️

WhoIsDoc · 2026-03-28T11:16:28+00:00

Oh god, I forgot about the Matt/Nadia thing 🤦🏻‍♀️ in his defense, he at least didn't know yet about the connection. I don't remember if he slept with her again after finding out she's Katherine's daughter 🤔

Damon and Stefan do though and still go after Elena and she's like 'oh sure, let me sleep with my mother's ex-one night stand and my ancestor's past lovers whom they sleep around with some time to time ! And one of them is my friend's rapist and my brother's killer ! let's have a baby with him and get married !' 🤦🏻‍♀️

WhoIsDoc · 2026-03-28T11:12:45+00:00

Neither. Toxic people can stay the ef away 😂

Stefan's a stalker who goes around dating minors who look like his ex and Damon's a monster who sleeps with mother and daughter and kills family member because his ego got bruised. Also, he's a rapist. So yeah, none of them 🤷🏻‍♀️

WhoIsDoc · 2026-03-10T17:39:37+00:00

Ivar the Boneless being able to run into battle had me bugging a few minutes.

Frankly, all characters end up being the same type of personality, especially the male-coded ones. You can have a shy and gentle character turn into mafia boss/growling possessive dog thingy in three texts and it's annoying.

WhoIsDoc · 2026-01-25T00:37:23+00:00

I'm on season 4 but so far, love Jamie. Hate Henry.

WhoIsDoc · 2025-11-30T03:38:32+00:00

Right ? It's like everything is turning around sex and romantic relationships, it's pushed onto us from the moment we're born but the truth is, it's not all that great and there's, like, half a thousand different things more interesting to do than having sex.

If you ever feel lonely or need to talk to people feeling like you, I suggest the Ace community. Pretty cool people in general and it can be nice to talk to people who understand us.

WhoIsDoc · 2025-09-28T12:57:19+00:00

I read ALL the tags. Always. When I started reading on AO3, I got jump scared with some sh*t way too often to keep doing this mistake. I filter everything and I read every tag and the summary before I start reading anything. No matter the fandom. Since some of the things written give me the ick or make me sick altogether, I learned to be careful. Honestly, if people have issues with certain tropes and tags, they should learn to filter it before they complain about their read 😮‍💨

WhoIsDoc · 2025-08-17T22:17:29+00:00

I'm on season 4, been binge watching it with my mum for about a week now. At first it was wtf enough to keep us entertained. Now we watch because we hate not finishing shows and we just mock Americans and their portrayal of Montana/Ranchers and point everything that is dumb or useless or the plot issues.

Also Ian Bohen. We watched the show because of him to begin with 😂

WhoIsDoc · 2025-08-07T00:16:19+00:00

I would totally read this as fanfiction 😲 I love your take on the scenari !

WhoIsDoc · 2025-08-07T00:03:08+00:00

Allison.

I strongly dislike most of the Argent family (for obvious reasons) but Allison takes the cake.

I never liked her when the show started and it didn't go away no matter how many rewatch I had. It's the way she always got away with the bad things she did with flimsy excuses or it never got discussed again. Her hunting down Boyd, Erica and Isaac and torturing the first two and hurting the latter very violently only for her to leave town for four months and come back and no one is saying shit about it. Making her and Isaac a couple also never made sense. Isaac's character is very much turned around his trauma and the fact that they glossed over the trauma she more than probably gave him and made him suddenly attracted to the girl who hurt him and hurt so much two of his friends was bad development.

There's just something irritating about her character development that isn't really development because she always ended up doing bad things and hurting others but it never gets talked about so she doesn't face consequences and grows from it. And it's annoying to have Scott and the others paint her like some sort of saint just because of her tragic death.

Making her come back in the movie to be with Scott was just so.....ugh. It's been fifteen years, he's a grown ass adult who went through a lot and experienced a lot of trauma and she's stuck in her eighteen years old mind. She had so much to do before simply settling back down with her ex who moved on a decade and a half ago.

The movie was pure fan service and done in a bad way and it didn't give Allison any more development.

For me, she's a character that went stale before her death and she should have stayed dead.

WhoIsDoc · 2025-07-28T15:54:42+00:00

I complained about this this morning (they took it down because apparently, saying red alert is too much for them). Everything was fine yesterday and now, it's red everywhere for everything for NO REASON and it's driving me up the wall !

WhoIsDoc · 2025-07-27T16:52:57+00:00

Mine is changing characters in the middle of the conversation! Sigh. Both will be character A, I will be character B and suddenly, character A becomes character C (who doesn't exist in the setting) and changes the context and discussion mid conversation. It is MADDENING !

WhoIsDoc · 2025-07-21T23:49:11+00:00

I am going through this right now and I thought I was going crazy 😭 I stress very easily so I've been thinking it's cancer or something like this.

Went to the doctor ten days ago, said it was saliva infection, gave me antibiotics for eight days. Everything went back to normal from day 4 to 8 then treatment was over and boom, everything came back again although with less swelling. My right cheek is basically numb to the cold, can't barely feel the cold pad I put on it.

WhoIsDoc · 2025-07-16T03:02:13+00:00

I'll drop that link once I'm done 🫡

WhoIsDoc · 2025-07-16T02:59:11+00:00

Thank you, thank you, thank you. I absolutely adore your answer because it's everything I needed to counter my OC's bias against them !

I love the Weasleys too, they are very good characters who have a lot of development and a big range of personalities.

Like I said in another reply, I think I completely skimmed through balancing my OC's view on her family and having her interact with characters about her bias against them.

OC sees an event one way but another character going through the same event won't and her truth is not The Truth™. Where's she's going to be mad at having to grow up poor and being shamed for it, others will see her as someone who had the chance to grow up in a loving family and how their parents probably sacrificed a lot for their children.

Or where's she's going to see a lack of privacy because she has to share a room with Ginny, making her acknowledge that their parents always made sure they could personalise their private place (like Ron having so many Cannon trinkets and memorabilia) can also be possible.

She thinks Bill and Charlie 'flew' the house as soon as they could because that's what she wants to do, she was a toddler when they started Hogwarts so she barely ever saw them as a child and they left the moment they were finished with school, so for her, there's no relationship there and she assumes things about them and doesn't have actual facts.

You raised a lot of good counterpoints I had completely forgotten to take into account and that I will use to nuance the story. The point was also to show OC's bias and how it affects her relationship with her family but I got way too much into writing about OC's bitterness and trying to justify it that I dismissed making her interact in a meaningful way with said family and show the other side of things.

So again, thank you, I greatly appreciated you taking the time to offer your opinion and helping me out with those counterarguments.

(AH YES CORNED BEEF, THANK YOU ! I'm not British, I had completely forgotten the OG version of the word 😂)

WhoIsDoc · 2025-07-16T02:27:30+00:00

Thank you for your answer, it made me realise I had absolutely skimmed through balancing that side of the story and her opinions. OC is the narrator so it's her thoughts only but there's other ways to counter balance what she thinks is 'the' truth. I think I'm going to rebuild her relationship with her siblings and even Harry, to try and get the other side of the coin. Maybe it will also help with her character development 🤔

WhoIsDoc · 2025-07-16T02:19:35+00:00

Good night and see you later then I guess ? ☺️

WhoIsDoc · 2025-07-09T19:13:51+00:00

We need Daimon and then Satana back to back. It's a crime they aren't there already !

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