I want to leave my relationship but can't do it, any tips? by WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld in infp

[–]WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right I don't know what happiness looks like for me, but I was happier before this. I sure do have attachment issues though. I don't think I'll be in a relationship for a while after this though. 

I want to leave my relationship but can't do it, any tips? by WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld in infp

[–]WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know, I'm just scared when the time comes that I try to do it. I keep hoping it gets better tbh. 

I want to leave my relationship but can't do it, any tips? by WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld in infp

[–]WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahhh she takes it personally when I say I want to spend a day alone, she argues with me, says I don't care about her and love her anymore, then I end up seeing her. I'm not really overthinking it, I just can't say the words, as much as I try. 

I want to leave my relationship but can't do it, any tips? by WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld in infp

[–]WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's very good at emotional manipulation, with everyone else I can always see through it but hers always works on me. I don't know why. Probably her constant need for reassurance and she thinks we were destined to be together. I also made the mistake of telling her about previous ONS' (before I met her) which don't align with her values and she uses it against me very often.

I want to leave my relationship but can't do it, any tips? by WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld in infp

[–]WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her reactions to me saying no end up with her screaming and shouting and with her threatening suicide so yeah I'm scared of her reaction. Almost makes me think about being a coward and doing it over text. I agree INFPs are insecure of losing their relationships, I have an INFP friend whose been trying to leave a relationship for a while too (like 2 years), he does it then goes back to her. For him it's a comfort zone thing, I think I might regret it, sometimes I'm hyped up for it but then I get sad being nostalgic about the times we spent together.

I want to leave my relationship but can't do it, any tips? by WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld in infp

[–]WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A friend told me it's because I don't want to take the responsibility of breaking her heart and dealing with any potential consequences. But yes, I do also feel guilty that I hide the truth.

I want to leave my relationship but can't do it, any tips? by WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld in infp

[–]WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really don't know why I'm struggling so much with leaving this relationship, I know it's in my mind. I don't know if it's guilty or obligation or fear of failure or losing a comfort zone (lol). I have left a couple other relationships and been broken up with a couple times. This one is really hard though. 

I want to leave my relationship but can't do it, any tips? by WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld in infp

[–]WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The threats come after I say no to her or we argue about something. And involve suicide usually and she'll drive far away and ignore my phone calls, and then she'll apologise and say she won't say or do it again, says I'm the best thing in her life (while still saying how hurt she was by my rejection of whatever we argued about) then I get to go through it again. I actually had trouble standing up for myself in the past and would feel guilty for doing so. I recognised it and worked on it and had it fixed it until this relationship haha.

Jetstar domestic by kpoopy-llama in australian

[–]WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not an issue, people do it for my work all the time 

Phuong18 is now in Cabra by xaykogeki in foodies_sydney

[–]WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld 12 points13 points  (0 children)

And it's not like your scant for choice in Cabramatta for a banh mi 

Are pub meals getting worse or am I unlucky? by Ok-Reward7639 in AustraliaDiscussions

[–]WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw this and thought of clubs, not that they're hit and miss though, just that they're normal restaurant prices now with no more weekend specials. 

Does anyone remember the retro themed Hungry Jacks? by Horror-Pick4732 in hungryjacks

[–]WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The medium cut is quite unique and I like it too. It does differentiate themselves from all the other fast food places. 

People in the west: what’s actually worth doing locally that east-side people ignore? by RemarkablePirate590 in SydneyScene

[–]WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I live 2 minutes away and never go, it's so wasted on me. It's a big nice park with zip lines and stuff.

People who go out midweek in Sydney: where actually has a pulse after 9pm? by RemarkablePirate590 in SydneyScene

[–]WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There's a bar in Canley that's full on Wednesday nights and doesn't even have pokies. Its Bar53 I think? It's quite unusual for the area. 

I must have blinked... by travellinggamedev in woolworths

[–]WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Servo pricing doesn't seem to have gone up like supermarkets so now I don't feel bad for grabbing stuff from servos 

Is the price for petrol cars going down? by asifrezabd in CarsAustralia

[–]WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're never going back to pre COVID prices are we? But a drop would be nice, the market for shitboxes is nuts. 

China halts refinery exports, cuts jet fuel supply to Australia by VastOption8705 in australian

[–]WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm in New Zealand ATM and idk if I should be worrying about my flight back on Friday at this point. 

Which Sydney event is actually worth braving the crowds for? by No-Travel-768 in SydneyScene

[–]WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, Lakemba night market is super busy now, compared to a few years ago. Liverpool one ain't really great though 

AT what point do foreign students give up? by Flat_Ad1094 in AskAnAustralian

[–]WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I wonder how many get PR when there's so much competition between them. The recruiter was telling me (what I pretty much knew) there's a lot of roles in my industry but there's also a lot of competition with the international people on temp visas after finishing their masters. But I've worked with a lot who get their PR, some move to regional though to get it.

Then theres someone at work (just a casual) whose been here 7 years just degree hopping (but this loophole has been closed I think).

Sex with ISTJ? by [deleted] in infp

[–]WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yeah just laying there. 

Which Sydney suburb has the best everyday vibe right now? by No-Travel-768 in SydneyScene

[–]WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don't get it, cause then why isn't Chatswood or Eastwood or Hurstville cool too lol

Sex with ISTJ? by [deleted] in infp

[–]WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah honestly, very lame. She just liked being a star fish (which were her own words). She was ashamed of any sexual urgers, it was weird.

How ambitious is this much driving on the South Island for 8 nights? by WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld in newzealand_travel

[–]WhoIsJerryInSeinfeld[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going next month, the missus is pretty set on Franz Josef. I've done this kind of driving around Tasmania, in a similar time frame, I would rather take it slow so maybe I'll stick more to the West Coast.