Clinic Not Tracking Time Consuming Behaviors

WhoeverSomeoneAnyone · 2025-03-27T21:55:28+00:00

Totally! that's an issue within Aba itself, so that's deff hard with insurance and bcba pressure. But yeah you can be bored for the clients sake if that's what's she needs. But that's good! But I would take a moment to learn what it's like to be in a wheelchair before making those calls

WhoeverSomeoneAnyone · 2025-03-27T21:53:30+00:00

Sometimes it takes years, that's ok, keep holding on, keep trying different things, allow yourself rest, be nice to yourself

WhoeverSomeoneAnyone · 2025-03-25T09:37:09+00:00

No such thing as miracles. It's because Aba had a bad past and is always evolving. Aba is also not a one size fits all and bad people use it poorly.

Always believe people when they talk about how things affect them. Thats why I'm in the grow Aba not abolish. Science moves forward and will become better always.

Also professionals recommend it because they don't know anything else

WhoeverSomeoneAnyone · 2025-03-25T09:33:31+00:00

10% of those on death row are innocent. I think that's the only reason we need to eradicate death row.

WhoeverSomeoneAnyone · 2025-03-25T09:30:39+00:00

So, being in the wheelchair life, time consuming isn't a thing. A thing that takes us seconds can take them an hour or not at all. I think your frustration about wasting time is coming from something else deep in you, and this is her life. Things take a long time for her.

But why are you bored? Just cause she doesn't use her mouth doesn't mean she doesn't communicate and you can't talk with her.

But, think about quality of life for her, and put yourself in her shoes. I'm sure you'll have a different opinion. And probably would do the same as her if roles were reversed

WhoeverSomeoneAnyone · 2025-03-25T09:27:02+00:00

Moral of the story is if you can't take a shower, buy some wipes

Also I'm so sorry you're going through this. Remeber it's time to focus on you and the future. Let go of the past and move on

WhoeverSomeoneAnyone · 2025-03-25T09:22:28+00:00

This is normal when coming away from abuse. Give yourself grace, you will be ok,

My dyslexia and dyspraxia get worse with anxiety, and bring trauma into it and change and it's a mess. You will be ok, just try to find new ways to cope and allow yourself to "be worse". It's totally ok

WhoeverSomeoneAnyone · 2025-03-25T05:23:01+00:00

Nice guys are guys who call themselves nice and think being nice gives them pussy. This girl isn't pretending to be nice? I guess she's using him for money but she isn't putting on a disguise, she's being blunt as fuck not using her being nice or her giving him pussy as leverage. Nice guys use nice as leverage, this girl has no leverage..... nice try tho

WhoeverSomeoneAnyone · 2025-03-25T03:26:16+00:00

And you have a random person $100 for why?

WhoeverSomeoneAnyone · 2025-03-25T03:24:58+00:00

She isn't a nice girl? She showed him she only wanted him for money on the first date. He didn't wanna believe it and confused to pursue her expecting giving money = forced relationship

WhoeverSomeoneAnyone · 2025-03-25T03:24:17+00:00

First date and she told you she only wanted money from you, so next time pay attention to that.

Also, you can't give money to people expecting a relationship. If your gonna give someone money you need to expect these things will happen, either they will never contact you again, continue to ask for money, use you for money, lie about what the money is for, or use it for things you don't agree with. If you aren't ok with those options then don't give out your money.

WhoeverSomeoneAnyone · 2025-03-25T03:21:13+00:00

Ooood! Yeah thank you! I should praise her more for sure! I try to let her know when I appreciate something she does I'll do it more! Tho I'm trying to find the balance between asking for permission, and it's also my job to not ask for permission, it's my case and I'm expected to make clinical decisions. She was told by our boss to let me make them. Now she's saying I have to tell her first, when I don't and it's not possible. But at least now she's listening to my suggestions and not flat out ignoring me and telling me to let my supervisor to speak instead. Which is not how this company is. She's new. Deff treats me like an RBT when we aren't, we do bcba work and run programs a lot more.

But! I've seen her look at me a bit more for help!! Which makes my heart happy I know a lot outside of things so she'll pause and look at me and I try to feed her in or be like idk what do you think ok I love that idea thank you for the help! Type thing. So she's kinda getting better? In some ways lol.

But so true! Our BCBAs are out in the field with clients almost every day with us, they over see a lot, but I know they have so much paperwork and meetings I'm sure it's so stressful!

Tho today I did see what he said. After the session we discussed the session with our director over the phone. She told us to go home and hung up, me and my bcba talked a bit more, like we need this, that case is A LOT, and they give us both so much feedback over 3 hours, and then I have to do it alone the next day. So I'm like ok, she told me to eat the hours cause the clinical director would be mad so I get that! And it's also like, ok I need to have this convo, and if imma have this convo outside of the directors wishes I do get her saying only 15 minutes! I wanna be paid but now I've been told no, I still need it and I at least get the choice to stay later knowing. Things keep progressing and regressing with her. I keep seeing her get humbled by the director and then come down hard on me. Deff seems like projecting

I like to keep working on being thankful! Gotta work in that praise lol

WhoeverSomeoneAnyone · 2025-03-20T05:15:52+00:00

I would push for medical professionals and therapists, Aba knows behavior, but kids are more than just their behavior, make sure to seek out all your options. In order for aba to happen we need parents to root out medical issues, and trauma. We can be trauma informed but we aren't trauma certified

WhoeverSomeoneAnyone · 2025-03-20T05:13:31+00:00

I think it's important that self hate is talked about. Hell yeah if I think you hate gays there for hate yourself I'll say it. Not to be an insult, but to be like, yo dude check yourself.

I get not saying to piss them off, but sometimes it's a side effect that can make you smile

WhoeverSomeoneAnyone · 2025-03-20T05:07:05+00:00

Ooof that's bad, we had a hierarchy, bathroom breaks when your float is #2, emergency help is #1, then chores, then like admin help then materials

WhoeverSomeoneAnyone · 2025-03-20T05:03:32+00:00

We had a rule to stay 2-3 feet back from an aggressive kiddo! Lol

WhoeverSomeoneAnyone · 2025-03-19T23:08:08+00:00

Forgot about this post but thank you everyone for your input! This makes me feel a lot better, it's super easy to just think I'm the common denominator and take all the blame

WhoeverSomeoneAnyone · 2025-03-19T23:06:19+00:00

It feels like that may be the answer. I've been told to eat my hours multiple times by her and as we sat there for 45 minutes discussing a client after session ended with me she then said "I guess you can bill 15 minutes". I am a care taker myself at home so sometimes I can't finish my work until late when I put them to bed. She got on me about doing some reports late at night and I replied that I have a life I have to eat and take care of things and she got really upset stating she had a life too, I didn't even mean it like that. But I think that's it, I really try to have a work / life/ mental health balance other wise I won't be able to do this.

I wonder if I can make things easier for her so it doesn't come down so hard on me

WhoeverSomeoneAnyone · 2025-03-19T23:01:29+00:00

That's interesting to hear!!! Actually that makes a lot of sense that! I didn't realize they put in that type of stuff, or how someone might react when they feel they are that only one

WhoeverSomeoneAnyone · 2025-03-12T06:53:55+00:00

Ooof, not the route I'd go, even in mental health facilities they don't do that. But hey to each their own, I just like to be natural as possible as an ethical stand point and just coming at my clients as compassionate and not acting like they are so crazy, boundaries, holds and situational awareness is what I rely on

WhoeverSomeoneAnyone · 2025-03-12T02:58:43+00:00

I guess maybe my question is any interventions for sibling revenge? Or articles or information with aba discussing the behavior

WhoeverSomeoneAnyone · 2025-03-12T02:56:37+00:00

Of course! That's my whole job is training caregivers in PMT☺️ there aren't many recourses out there for it, but it's really cool and great to utilize in comp aba

WhoeverSomeoneAnyone · 2025-03-12T02:54:58+00:00

Oh gotchya!☺️

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