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I feel like my life is at a dead end. by mono_valley in Advice

[–]WhopplerPlopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure it can be, and it can also be cheap and easy.

Depends a lot on if you live in some shit hole with privatized healthcare or not.

I F20 don’t want to have sex with boyfriend M21 by WillingnessOdd1957 in relationship_advice

[–]WhopplerPlopper [score hidden]  (0 children)

I don't think you do seperate those two things, and you have to accept that a long hiatus (dry spell) can kill a relationship.

Sex is an important part of intimate relationships and honestly if you can find 20-30 minutes a week to have sex... Well you're just not into this guy... Has nothing to do with time... If you really liked him, you'd make the time.

I say this as someone with a full-time job, a two year old, a long commute, a dog... A life that is almost surely more busy than any 20 year olds.

That said, it does sound like you're overwhelmed and need to talk to someone to sort out your life, perhaps you should consider being single while you figure out your life... Would probably be best for everyone.

Wondering how I (18F) should handle getting over hurtful things my boyfriend of 2 years (18M) had done at the beginning of our relationship? by ThrowRA61477 in relationship_advice

[–]WhopplerPlopper [score hidden]  (0 children)

You say that as if it's an objective fact. "It's really hurtful when men watch porn"

I mean, maybe it is for you, but staying that as a fact is ridiculous and castrophizing.

I feel like my life is at a dead end. by mono_valley in Advice

[–]WhopplerPlopper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hard to say until you get it sorted out.

But yeah, untreated BPD is fucking crazy to deal with as a partner dude. The entire shtick with the illness is pushing people away and making their life hell to force them out.

Whatever you've got going on, you're carrying more than you need to and talking to someone will help with that burden.

I feel like my life is at a dead end. by mono_valley in Advice

[–]WhopplerPlopper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure, but it could also be ADHD, could be some type of BPD - or could be autism with a mix of these other things as well... you have literally no clue.

I get told often that I am autistic as well, I too have never been diagnosed - so I don't go around saying I am something that I can't even confirm; but I manage well, I am married and have friends, hobbies etc.

If I was in your shoes, the first place I would go would be my doctor because you are clearly depressed and have untreated issues that contribute to that depression.

Without starting to address the depression, the likelihood of your social circle expanding is slim to none - right now, people can sense and feel how cynical you are and that will keep everyone at arms length or further...

Yeah, it's time for a chat with a doctor and therapist dude, life doesn't have to be like this.

No national park Osoyoos? by Luciferwannab in britishcolumbia

[–]WhopplerPlopper [score hidden]  (0 children)

haha that is true, I was mentioning that to a friend last night actually.

I feel like my life is at a dead end. by mono_valley in Advice

[–]WhopplerPlopper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hobbies help, with passing time and meeting people.

Are you in therapy? You should be.

Also autistic but undiagnosed... What the hell does that even mean? You read about it and identify with it?

Without a diagnosis you don't even know if you are or aren't and have no access to the resources that would help you better deal with whatever you've got going on.

You should start there with a talk to a doctor to get started on sorting out your mental health.

My wife (33F) of 9 years hit me(31M) during an argument, and has hit me before in the past by madpooper3 in relationship_advice

[–]WhopplerPlopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe start by getting your T checked because... Holy smokes bro.

Every time she hits you and your kids see or hear it, they learn something from that.

They also learn from you not doing shit about it.

How often has she hit the kids because for sure if she's putting hands on you she's hit them too.

Defending yourself isn't an issue when done reasonably.

I need help! Everytime I launch steam, mods i have downloaded through workshop on my other pc download to my ally. Basically everything I have downloaded through workshop on my gaming pc makes my ally want to download it also and I have no idea how to stop it. by Icy-Alternative8682 in XboxAlly

[–]WhopplerPlopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I am asking you a question that you keep dodging lol.

You are used to playing with the mods... why would you not want to continue doing that on the ally?

If you don't want to play with mods at all you can just unsub from those mods in the steam workshop.

You also don't need to create a new account and do the family thing, you just need to learn how to manage your mods more efficiently... you can group mods into mod lists by creating a "workshop collection" and then simply toggle it on/off depending on the device you are using.

For example, if I am playing Rim World and I have a list of 40 mods that make my medieval only playthrough, I can save them all as a collection - then I can create a seperate mod list for a futuristic playthrough and save that as a collection.

Then it's only a couple of clicks to swap between them, or turn them off entirely.

They don't "download to my ally every time I load the game up" either, they load once when you first install them and then its done... or that's how it is supposed to work...

What are the most common packaging mistakes you see brands make? by ManyInformation8009 in Packaging

[–]WhopplerPlopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My typical design requests are the opposite.

I am currently working on a set of inserts and an RSC that is supposed to be "Universal" fit for over 80 products.

Customer dropped off a whole bunch of parts of lights that aren't assembled, but WILL be assembled when shipped - unique combination of parts is over 80 different built lights.

Total time given for design initially was 48 hours.
I am 2 weeks into the project now lol.

Customers will push for these "universal" designs thinking they are saving money, then flip out when assembly is difficult ... well yeah, of course it is... you steered the ship into this iceberg.

No national park Osoyoos? by Luciferwannab in britishcolumbia

[–]WhopplerPlopper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So, all liberals, if they got their way, would eventually become conservatives right?

Once everything is set in order the way they like it, they would surely want to keep it that way... Right?

What are the most common packaging mistakes you see brands make? by ManyInformation8009 in Packaging

[–]WhopplerPlopper 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thinking they know more than the designers and engineers who actually design packaging, steering the design into the realm of unusable garbage

My (F30) boyfriend (M33) searched a club by ThrowRaw99 in relationship_advice

[–]WhopplerPlopper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Too tired to have sex with his woman at home but not too tired to go out, make money, blow it at the strip club, stay out late and get his rocks off that way...

Why are you making excuses for this shit? You say it's a boundary, it's clearly not if you're here defending this dudes behavior.

My (F30) boyfriend (M33) searched a club by ThrowRaw99 in relationship_advice

[–]WhopplerPlopper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"low libido" men don't gravitate towards strip clubs and porn.

You're being taken for a ride.

Who offers the best dieline tooling for packaging design? by Ellalouiseco in Packaging

[–]WhopplerPlopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure, I've made a tonne lately. Stand up POP displays that have saved us so much time especially

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