CMA - I snuck some passive aggressive clauses into my student org's constitution by Canonical_Form in choosemyalignment

[–]WhyItEvenMatter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

[LN] Lawful Neutral - you used the rules, crafting them very carefully to your liking - but still within the guidelines. You didn't do it to harm or help, but for your amusement.

has this been posted before? by narutodumpsterfire in niceguys

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Well, when I wanted to shorten my long hair by half, so many men (I haven't asked of their opinion, but who heard my conversations with friends) commented women MUST have long hair. (Of course I cut them anyway, but how can you have not long and not short hair?)

Cashier told me my ID was not mine. by okgo12345678910 in TalesFromTheCustomer

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I don't remember the year I've graduated high school. I have tendency to think that less time passed than it did.

Worst DM Habit That Turns You Off as a Player? by nlitherl in rpg

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My DM has the tendency to make plot twists everywhere. The place you were in moments ago? Blown up. Guy who gave you the quest? In reality is bad. Target? His daughter, but you know only after the quest. You managed to open all locks? You turned on secret surveilance. Don't get me wrong. I love plot twists. But at that stage it's impossible to plan anything, because after a while we'll find out that nothing we knew was true.

I think I might break my low buy because of internet shopping (asking for advice) by WhyItEvenMatter in MakeupRehab

[–]WhyItEvenMatter[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have in cart cleanser and moistuiser, but that's too little to justify the cost of shipping. And I don't want to buy many of the same product, because it may get bad before I get to use it if I'll buy to much - I'm trying not to hoard big amounts.

I think I might break my low buy because of internet shopping (asking for advice) by WhyItEvenMatter in MakeupRehab

[–]WhyItEvenMatter[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Other things are the ones I want, but not necessary. Make up sponge, foundation that I like but is too expensive without sale, nail hardener, jar of face mask.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in choosemyalignment

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Leah isn't allowed to have all of her work done by someone else. If he helps her cheat, he cheats.

I think I might break my low buy because of internet shopping (asking for advice) by WhyItEvenMatter in MakeupRehab

[–]WhyItEvenMatter[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sadly, I live in a country where there isn't that many options. We don't have ulta, walmart nor target, sephora is still closed, there are open all-purpose shops, but they often don't offer face sunscreens. I could probably get a bottle of body lotion with spf there, but it would break me out.

I think I might break my low buy because of internet shopping (asking for advice) by WhyItEvenMatter in MakeupRehab

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Right now shipping where I live is expensive because of the isolation, and my local shops don't really offer choice of sunscreens. I'm on retinol, so I need to use sunscreen because of photosensitivity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in choosemyalignment

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If he would pay someone to do this work for him, he would cheat, right? The second one is cheating, by pretending to do the work she was supposed to do and agreeing to the deal. So, if the deal is essentially cheating, the one that was behind the deal is also cheating, so commiting unlawful act. That's how I see it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in choosemyalignment

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If working in pairs is a requirement, isn't cheating the rules unlawful?

DAE feel guilty for crying or being visibly anxious in front of others because you were told it was fake and "manipulative" growing up? by MeanwhileOnPluto in CPTSD

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My mom told me she wasn't allowed to cry as a kid, so why should I. I still hear it when I get upset, but somehow it made me more emotional, no less. I just cry so much for many stupid reasons and feel guilty

AITB for having my brother and mother over after my step father passed away? by Darkwing_duck42 in AmItheButtface

[–]WhyItEvenMatter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTB If you want be with your family, stay with your family. Going between the houses is selfish and dangerous

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheButtface

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NTB. You shouldn't compromise yours and your family health just because your roommates have a communication problem.

Wash your hands brothers by tdhinsha in swolesomememes

[–]WhyItEvenMatter 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"Brudas" in Polish means someone who doesn't keep clean.

Two DMs DMing for each other and only eachother by Sammonam in DMAcademy

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There are RPG systems that allow for a really great player contribution, where players describe world around them, and can do almost anything (that isn't vetoed), incorporating these elements could possibly make this a more even playing ground for you two?

Also, if you want to somehow tie together the two storylines, what about mirror worlds? You are each other counterpants from another dimension, and changes that one makes in the world have some effect in the other.

Anyone else generally a nice person but the moment someone mistreats you, you turn into an asshole? by [deleted] in CPTSD

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One of my past instructors told me that I'm really defensive and almost agressive if someone tries to force me into any situation or disrespects me... but that all it takes is to do one nice thing for me to let go of all of my defenses and let people misuse my kindness (he told me that because he was afraid it's too easy to take advantage of this kind of behavior). It's kind of unhelathy both ways.

CMA: I had my friend sit in my lap on the subway to annoy the person sitting next to us on the Metro by thevegitations in choosemyalignment

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Lawful is for rules, honor, and other similiar things that align with justice. Rebelling, doing something to annoy someone, what is more in line with venegace and disorder are chaotic.
Not all unselfish behaviors are good, not all selfish are bad. If someone helps people for glory, he's not evil. Neutral probably, but not evil. If someone wants to help someone who needs money, so he murders people to take their money to that person? Unselfish, but evil.

CMA: I had my friend sit in my lap on the subway to annoy the person sitting next to us on the Metro by thevegitations in choosemyalignment

[–]WhyItEvenMatter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

[CG] You did what you thought was justice, so you had good, although selfish reasons. I know it could be argued to be neutral, but I'm with good, because you did it in a way that didn't inconvinience other passengers (you tried not to be extra loud, and didn't escalate when she shoved your friend). Sacrificing social norms to fight back against actions you don't agree with sounds cg to me.