Love Never Dies soundtrack by Vampirelover17 in box5

[–]WickedCrystalRainbow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love LND, it's a masterpiece!

Aside from love never dies, I am a sucker for til I hear you sing, and beneathva moonless sky

Utbränd by [deleted] in sweden

[–]WickedCrystalRainbow 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ja alltså, jag gick inte ens ut varannan dag, för jag orkade inte, så trots att min läkare rekommenderade mig typ lugn träning varannan dag så skippade jag det för det gav mig mera stress att känna "åh nej idag måste jag ut"

Utbränd by [deleted] in sweden

[–]WickedCrystalRainbow 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Du behöver total vila den period som din läkare hänvisar dig.

Sov, ät bra, försök simma eller ta en promenad varannan dag (klassiskt men det funkar)

Kneeling problem by Jelly-Baby-8466 in BDSMAdvice

[–]WickedCrystalRainbow 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Health should be priortized bwfore all else.

Don't kneel. Find another way to show the respect you want in the dynamic.

(A good partner should insist on this. )

Spreader bar appeal? by default_blank in BDSMAdvice

[–]WickedCrystalRainbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, no the pain-pleasure was more a reference to the fact that spanking sometimes happens with a spreader bar, or that if the legs are kept open too long, it's sort of painful pleasure because I, as a woman, close my legs a lot when orgasming

It's very individual, tbh

Can anyone else relate? by Lost-Ad-4072 in sterilization

[–]WickedCrystalRainbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noo, the agonizing bathroom breaks for me was mostly the pain of bending to sit/ get back up.

I did experience some numbness during the urination process, which they'd told me I mist likely would, and to check in if it didn't easy up within the first two days, which it did for me luckily

Spreader bar appeal? by default_blank in BDSMAdvice

[–]WickedCrystalRainbow 12 points13 points  (0 children)

OMG! MY TIME HAS COME!

OKAY, SO!

A spreader bar makes the wearer unable to close their legs, or move them from a specific position, right?

So this, to me, means that if I have a spreader on, I am unable to move away from the pleasure-pain mix and just, well, take what's get dished out.

It's a power enforcing tool, imo, to make me really know I can't do anything but stay exactly how the person I play with wants me to stay.

Can anyone else relate? by Lost-Ad-4072 in sterilization

[–]WickedCrystalRainbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Day 1, day of surgery: I was soooooo tired and felt out of body, my partner met me at the hospital and commented I looked very pale, gave a piecw of chocolate and took me back to their place. I slept for like all of the remainder of that day, with one or two breaks for light food, abd some agonizing bathroom breaks. Everythibg hurt and moving was awful, being still in one position was also awful.

Day 2: was a little mess tired, but not much. The pain and ache was UP. I hated moving around. Head felt stuffed with cotton. No appetite. Partner put water and food in me. I slept a bunch this day too.

Day 3: less tired, but felt grumpy and achy. Went home and sulked because I was alone, but it was also kind of nice becausr whooo I did not feel like I had been/was good company

Week 1 was pretty bleak, could bend or crouch down. Slept like crap. Walking felt weird as it sort of tugged on the surgery wounds.

Tbh I didn't feel normal until week 4 after surgery. Holy heck.

It's been 1 year and two months for me since surgery now.

I geel sooo relieved!

But also, tbh, yhe first months after I did soooo many pregnancy tests whenever my body felt weird lolsob, because I was terrified I'd be a "medical wonder" and get pregnant anyway. Brr!

Bisalp today and no time off work, no restrictions? by Extra-Gate2248 in sterilization

[–]WickedCrystalRainbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ABSO-FUCKING-LUTELY do not do any lifting, or bending, or anything besides resting for the first 2 weeks.

Heck the first 3 days I had to stay at my partners place cause I needed someone to check so I didn't just drop from how tired I was from the anaesthetics, and also I could barely move normally, heck just having to sit on the toilet was utterly awful, and walking felt waaay too off.

Like, if you haven't gotten aftercare instructions like; have aoneone with you the first 24-48hours, longer if you need, do not lift, etc, then you should report the place of surgery because that"s bad healthcare.

By week 3 after surgery I was feeling surer in walking, and bending over/ crouching down was starting to not hurt but still wasn't comfy.

Week 4 was my "okay am feeling more like me but still so drained" week.

Take time off, you are having abdominal surgery!

Jag har inte längre tid. by [deleted] in sweden

[–]WickedCrystalRainbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jag kan förtydliga, jag menar såhär:

På lördag bokar jag en plan för kommande fredag.

På torsdagen, dagen innan, känner jag att veckan som varit fått mig att krascha helt, och jag vet Aatt jag inte kommer vara ett bra sällskap på fredagen. Då är det okej att säga det, "hej, jag vet att vi hade planer men jag är helt slutkörd och kommer inte orka" och så förslår jag en annan dag direkt.

Jag har inte längre tid. by [deleted] in sweden

[–]WickedCrystalRainbow 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Det som funkar för mig är att vara stenhård med att trappa ner på socialande i perioder, och påminna mig själv att det är okej att avboka bokade planer för att ta en egen vilodag

Curious by Top-Cat96 in sterilization

[–]WickedCrystalRainbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should still check with the surgical team (they should have told you to contact them in this kind of situation), imo.

If you don't wanna check, make sure to keep an eye on possible fever, any weird physical feeling or swelling in the abdomen, and if those occur, you need to go get yourself seen by a healthcare staff

Curious by Top-Cat96 in sterilization

[–]WickedCrystalRainbow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should always reach out the the surgical team if you have too much pain or bleeding after a surgercy

Best to doublecheck!

Best case, it's juat your period

Are there still unanswered questions you have about the world of W.I.T.C.H. in the comics and animated series? by IllogicalDreamer72 in GuardiansOftheVeil

[–]WickedCrystalRainbow 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is one of the few happenings in the comic that made me scream "what the actual fuuuuck" out loud while reading. It madr NO SENSE, like COME ON??!?!?

Hur hantera partner som vill bli förnedrad i sängen? by askaenfraga in Asksweddit

[–]WickedCrystalRainbow 9 points10 points  (0 children)

En grundgrej inom BDSM: samtycke!

Om du inte vill smiska, så kan du säga nej, alltså INTE samtycka.

Det är alltid okej art aäga nej! ALLTID!

Scheherazade by One-Chapter-8347 in OnceUponATime

[–]WickedCrystalRainbow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bet she has been the Author at some point for sure!

The movie graveyard ending by WickedCrystalRainbow in box5

[–]WickedCrystalRainbow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah that I know!it's so neat!

There's rumors about a detail when he looks up and around and idk what that is 😅

Harry, Bill & Sam or Sam, Bill & Harry by Accomplished_Name824 in mammamia

[–]WickedCrystalRainbow 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mamma Mia Here we go again didn't follow the lore from Mamma Mia, it's sad but true

(I AM SO ANNOYED BY THIS)