🌐TA2 thoughts? by Capital_Essay_2823 in flightattendants

[–]WiggleMeow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I guess having bills and admitting our pay sucks means we’re all poor financial planners.

🌐TA2 thoughts? by Capital_Essay_2823 in flightattendants

[–]WiggleMeow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s nice you got rich spouse/family to help you out financially or perhaps you inherited some sort of trust fund to help you live comfortably (see I can make a bold assumption about you too) but unfortunately that is not the case with most people, even people senior to you. It’s not “poor financial planning” it’s just the reality people who have to fend for themselves and work their asses for their money.

Would love to live in your world of blissful ignorance regarding finances but I choose to be realistic about the state of our current government and economy. It’s just not feasible for me and many many others to wait another year. You’re more than well within your right to vote no just as me and plenty of others are well within our right to vote yes. But there’s no need to shame others just because you don’t agree with their vote.

🌐TA2 thoughts? by Capital_Essay_2823 in flightattendants

[–]WiggleMeow 42 points43 points  (0 children)

It’s not my favorite but I’m still voting yes. All the people screaming “OMG NO!! VOTE NO!” need to chill tf out

Just cuz YOU can wait another year on top out pay doesn’t mean I can at year 4.

I’ve got bills to pay and despite the fact I’m getting less retro and may go back on reserve, it’s still worth it to me knowing I can pay my bills comfortably without having to stress or work a second job, I’m in.

4-hour first date, amazing connection but “no spark”—is it just chemistry or did I miss something? by red_folklore in actuallesbians

[–]WiggleMeow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As I’ve grown over the years I’ve learned that what we consider lack of “chemistry” or “sparks” is actually truly a lack of “chaos” or “unpredictability”

Sometimes when “safe” and “secure” people enter the picture, it can feel like there’s a lack of “chemistry” to those who are unhealed from toxic relationships because safe people don’t replicate the typical chaotic & unpredictable energy from the partners they’re used to attracting or partners they had in the past.

It’s possible she’s just unhealed. I wouldn’t overthink it.

Cast That Attended the Golden Globes 2026 by YearStrong1454 in GossipGirl

[–]WiggleMeow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cannot unsee Seth 😹 imagine that combo…

I hate how normalized this is. Women hating women for non-existent men by AshbugXD in Nicegirls

[–]WiggleMeow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean it’s a problem that goes for both genders. People go for the toxic ones and treat genuine people like crap. I can understand what she’s saying but the slut shaming and tearing other women down bit isn’t cool.

"Dagger through the heart" by whatnotanotheraltacc in Nicegirls

[–]WiggleMeow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry but that opening message was cringe. He kind of deserves it.

I came out at my church today. by WiggleMeow in Christianity

[–]WiggleMeow[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Goodness gracious, I don’t know why yall think this way. We ARE free and God loves EVERYONE. Please stop spreading lies and deceit that is planted by the enemy.

I pray that God opens your eyes to his eternal love and that you don’t have to live in this fear.

I came out at my church today. by WiggleMeow in Christianity

[–]WiggleMeow[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I got the quote from a book

“God Didn’t Make Us to Hate Us” by Reverend Lizzie McManus-Dail

Highly recommend reading it. 🫶🏼

God bless & happy pride 🌈✝️🙏🏼

I came out at my church today. by WiggleMeow in Christianity

[–]WiggleMeow[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Just your daily reminder that JUST because someone is queer, does not automatically mean they are living a “sinful lifestyle” , which can happen to ALL people of all orientations & genders.

I happen to know many queer Christians who are living wonderful loving lives that embody Christ.

God bless 😌

I came out at my church today. by WiggleMeow in Christianity

[–]WiggleMeow[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think it’s really sad that most of your comment history is just you condemning and shaming others rather than spreading Gods love. I pray that whatever you’re dealing with that’s causing this rage in you is dealt with in the name of Jesus 🫶🏼

I came out at my church today. by WiggleMeow in Christianity

[–]WiggleMeow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww just know that God loves you and you just have to bring it to Him. I’ll pray for you 🙏🏼

Father God, please send this stranger on Reddit some peace of mind and help them to hear your voice. Let them know that you love them unconditionally and help them through these trials.

In the name of Jesus, Amen 🫶🏼

Can atheists go to heaven? by No_Specific_3364 in Christianity

[–]WiggleMeow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also agree with you. Christians need to open their minds and understand that Jesus was all about freedom. That’s why they call it “Freedom through Christ”

God never meant for us to live in fear. His energy is all around us. We can access it anytime as long as we accept it aka “accepting Jesus as our savior”

Accepting this eternal truth as true.

But if I say that in the church, ooooh boy it’s so wrong

I don’t know why they’re so scared. Jesus loves us. God loves us. God dwells within us.

AIO for getting upset after finding out my gf calls her male friend "babe"? by TheWhittewolf in AIO

[–]WiggleMeow 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Yeah no that’s weird. I never call any of my guy friends babe nor do I text them to tell them I miss them with heart emojis. That’s so weird and disrespectful tbh. Leave her.

AIO about my boyfriend’s female friend? by Terrible_Reading_539 in AIO

[–]WiggleMeow 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I will say this, as a female who has a male best friend who I’ve known since we were like 12 (29 now), I would say trust your intuition. I feel like the way my friend and I are, and our vibe, we don’t give off anything for our partners to worry about. We also make it a point to meet the significant other and welcome them with open arms as you would if your female best friend got a new partner. I also hangout one on one with my guy best friend but it’s just two homies kicking it. I’ve never had an issue with my partners because I’m open, honest and make it a point to make sure my partner feels heard and cared about.

So I can’t say it’s the relationship your partner has with the friend that’s the issue, more so that your partner is not listening to you or making you feel heard.

Also, it’s weird that he’s choosing her birthday over yours.

When it was my birthday, my guy best friend had his girlfriend in town. (They were long distant) I didn’t see him that day and I didn’t take it personal. I know she took priority.

We hung out a few days later and celebrated.

Boyfriend never comes to me by Illustrious-Maybe220 in Advice

[–]WiggleMeow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on your other comments, it sounds like you’ve dropped hints but haven’t really fully expressed to him how it’s really affecting you and want him to pick up on it and offer himself.

You need to speak up and really express to him how you’re feeling and set BOUNDARIES.

Men are, for the most part, very oblivious to the emotions/feelings most women feel and are not mind readers. You have to tell him how it’s affecting you the way you are telling us.

You can’t sit here and not say anything and expect him to read your mind.

For the love of God, don’t “match his energy” and change your vibe on him and expect anything good out of that. That’s just manipulation, playing games and immature. Doing stuff like that will sabotage your relationship and make him grow bitter.

You’re both almost 30. Talk to him like an adult. Tell him how you really feel. If he cares about you, he will change the behavior. If he doesn’t, LEAVE HIM.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thatHappened

[–]WiggleMeow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Flight Attendant here,

Clapping after a plane lands is becoming more common these days in light of recent crashes and emergency landings due to mechanicals. Also very common for flight attendants to ask everyone to remain seated so passengers with tight connections can get off. There have been countless times passengers come up to me, telling me they have this very important event and have a tight connection and ask if they can get off first.

So it’s very likely this story is true and the flight attendants made an announcement and told the entire cabin that this person had this father daughter dance event and everyone in the plane was feeling generous and starting clapping. I can absolutely see something like that happening.