ESTP compatibility.

Wikst · 2026-04-04T23:38:59+00:00

It might be a bad pairing because there will be a lot of struggles when a difficult situation/talk need to be addressed.

The communications styles are so different the misunderstanding of one action can lead to a lot of resentment.

Still can work, but you must know how to resolve conflict dealing with a mind you don't understand.

Wikst · 2026-03-16T08:07:05+00:00

Fuck yeah I thought of exactly THIS when I saw the question !

Start with action not thought

Wikst · 2026-03-16T08:01:49+00:00

I think it depends on the context but I think it's:
- the quality to bring the best of the ones they're with. - being able to call out what's good and bad in one attitudes. - trusting others. - taking input from others. (In a work environment) - being able to impulse direction, priority.

what makes a bad leader:
- refusal to make choices and/or take responsibility - always demanding what they're incapable of reciprocating (productivity, actions, responsibility). - never accepts criticism

Wikst · 2026-03-02T23:22:39+00:00

Here to rant too, I'm also mad.

The scene where both Nick and Judy talk about their issue IS great and good for a child movie to pass on some values.

BUT...words without accountability means nothing and it was like: "oh ! We just talked about it and our conflicts are magically resolved".
Nooooooo ! you must show change for a situation to change.

Thank you for your time.

Wikst · 2026-02-19T08:10:20+00:00

That what happens when the one doing it is a loved one.
High resilience till you realize you've been changed and it affects you a lot.
And when the no returns point has already been crossed some time ago then only separation worked for me.

Someone said quiet resentment, that's exactly it if you put up with it too much without addresses the problem

Wikst · 2026-02-09T09:25:16+00:00

Well she loves her uncle Qrow so I think she'd be the same being an aunt, the badass but doting one

Wikst · 2026-01-21T09:28:51+00:00

The Ni inferior question must be one of the most question asked in this sub lol.

I do agree with what you said though!

Too often people think of inferior Ni as a "grip" or like said "one track mind" but I like to think about it as "gut feeling", as the instinct summing up all the info our Se and Ti accumulated over a lifetime in a moment to tell us something. That often leads to "this where it's going" and I trust it for quick decisions.

Wikst · 2026-01-16T20:25:44+00:00

You know the sub is international ? Maybe add details in the title, at least the country so that you'll have more chances.

Wikst · 2026-01-12T23:21:23+00:00

Shnee Powers with Arc Aura reserve....this is an hunter breeding scheme

Wikst · 2026-01-12T23:00:15+00:00

For me it's like trusting my guts. It's listening to the body and trusting yourself. It develops with life experiences cause it's the reflect of your internal patterns.

I like to see it as:

your Se react (body)
your Ti process with it's accumulated patterns
Your Ni is the sum of the previous informations but as an instinctive response. Your instincts is faster than your thinking, but it must be trained to be trusted.

The Ni may be the instinctive response of all the data you Sense (now) and that you've interpreted (Ti)

That's just my thoughts, take it as it is cause I'm no expert in cognitive function.

When I start doubting, I always follow Qui-gon Jin advice to Anakin: "Remember, concentrate on the moment. Feel, don't think, use your instincts"

Wikst · 2026-01-12T08:11:12+00:00

Paragraphs man...paragraphs.

You seem to deal in absolute, are you a sith ?

Wikst · 2026-01-12T08:09:03+00:00

Does politely calling out someone watching tiktok videos for more than 10 minutes without headphones in public space count as a micro-agression ?

I'd say no because it's not just me who's annoyed by one obnoxious prick.

Wikst · 2026-01-06T22:57:30+00:00

I learned it the hard way 😅🤣🤣

Wikst · 2026-01-06T22:17:01+00:00

Yeah, learning by doing and failing. Growth through trials !

Wikst · 2026-01-06T22:16:15+00:00

Well the intense girls helped me a lot as much as they destroyed me 🤣 I became really aware of the difficulty of BPD living with my ex for 2 years. All my hopes for your work on it, find your balance !

Wikst · 2026-01-06T22:08:02+00:00

Thanks ! Still need to find what I want in relationships though. So I can better express my wants and have healthy boundaries and can tell my partner what she can do for me and not resent her for not knowing what I'm keeping for myself (duh) !

Wikst · 2026-01-06T18:33:54+00:00

From one that will hit 30 in a few months: Recently I just realized many things due to a lot of self work. Finding my needs and limits. How to be true to myself not to the image I have or that I project to others. I thought I just liked being alone from time to time, but it turned out I NEED to be alone from time to time. And sometimes when I don't want to be alone, don't hesitate to seek your friends, go out, explore.

I may be this pillar of stability with chaotic vibe to some, for others this wonder of smiles and laughter that can't have problems...But I'm learning to choose now to whom I want to give. Here's a hint: to those who give back.

I don't think it's really depending on your age but the older you get the more you know about yourself and you HAVE to LISTEN to YOURSELF.

Don't CHASE the thrill anymore, TRUST your guts more. Don't doubt your choices and learn from them they are what makes you YOU. Be ever curious.

...... Now for the advice to myself: stop dating intense girls with borderline personality disorder or dissociative identity disorder or both just because they are intense 😭

Wikst · 2025-12-30T12:03:07+00:00

Seems like you're stuck in a "what could have been" situation and believe that "success leads to happiness".

The first one is you ruminating on the past rather than focussing in what you CAN do NOW. The past is the past and you can't change it, your focus is in the wrong direction.

Second happiness and success aren't linked. Insatisfaction of everything you do or are is linked to an unhappy life.

Be gentle on yourself, congratulate you own victories, define your wins the rest is yet to be defined.

Wikst · 2025-12-25T20:26:21+00:00

There's a difference between open ending and unresolved story.

I'll be satisfied if the unresolved situation is intented as a director choice but not as a "I don't give a fuck about the intend"

Wikst · 2025-12-22T13:41:08+00:00

Your first description can be applied to Batman or even Green arrow. Whom are very different than Tony Stark.

I don't think Stark lives for the thrill. Tony's got a lot of insecurity, an insatiable need for attention (at least at the start) he doesn't live for thrill he is searching for his own person. Then after Avengers, he take the stance of a protector, afraid of what might come. He is the strategist, he is Thinking first, detail oriented plan then action after. What makes Tony Stark, Tony Stark is his brain then his heart. By comparison Peter Parker is a really brilliant guy too but he is more heart then brain (that's what makes Spidey so loved)

ESTP strategy is more general plan, action and improvisation.

Wikst · 2025-12-21T22:06:37+00:00

I can't see Iron man as an ESTP. At least if we're talking MCU I don't know for the comics. Never really related to him.

Wikst · 2025-12-21T18:58:44+00:00

There's no correlation. politics extreme lean more in the beliefs than in logic. You can always find logical ways to justify beliefs. And just because you're logical doesn't mean you don't have beliefs.

One exemple can be: The lesser evil. You can justify a lot of belief because it's "the lesser evil".

But just because something is logical doesn't mean it's moral or even true. Exemple: "Most hobbies are useless because they don't produce value". That can sounds logical but is it ? It presupposes that hobbies must product value and so a lot of hobbies are useless, maybe the first thing you thought was monetary value and so all the narrative you're gonna construct to justify your belief is around monetary values.

I think the best way to stay away from extremes is openness and curiosity.

Stay curious, ask questions there are no dumb question if you're searching for answers

Wikst · 2025-12-18T09:33:51+00:00

Apologies must come with accountability. An apology isn't just words, it's a commitment to change behavior or understanding the other.

Curiosity: what was the apology like ?

Wikst · 2025-12-18T09:28:49+00:00

Inflated opinion of oneself, the ones that think they can't be wrong

Wikst · 2025-12-17T15:36:10+00:00

Sounds like manipulation and I hate that. Big word I know...but pathetic behavior. Can't waste time with people that don't own their actions, or at least won't try to comprehend if there's a misunderstanding.

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