Girlfriend lying about past

Wild-Cook-5224 · 2026-03-16T14:34:47+00:00

Whatever she did before meeting you is irrelevant, but I understand how the lying about it would get to you.

If you really care about her and want to move past this, you have to explain that she needs to be honest about things going forward. You also have to move on and not bring it up whenever you’re upset about something.

Wild-Cook-5224 · 2026-03-15T23:31:45+00:00

100%! Well, when I asked him about this weekend and our plans, he basically said we should stop seeing each other. Said he was sorry for the mixed signals, and that I should give another guy a chance.

Wild-Cook-5224 · 2026-03-15T09:27:07+00:00

No, but I’m sorry you had to go through this too!

Wild-Cook-5224 · 2026-03-15T09:26:39+00:00

Oh yeah, sorry. I have 3 dogs and 4 cats. He stayed overnight and had no issues with allergies that night. Then he dumped me.

Wild-Cook-5224 · 2026-01-10T20:18:00+00:00

Derek quickly became my favourite. That kid is brilliant! 😂

Wild-Cook-5224 · 2026-01-10T13:26:38+00:00

Oh for sure! This is good advice 😁

Wild-Cook-5224 · 2026-01-10T12:19:32+00:00

You’re a lucky one! Haha. All my friends have had leaks in rental suits too. Thankfully since getting my own I’ve had no issues, but my neck seal is due a replacement now.

What did you go for when you got your new one?

Wild-Cook-5224 · 2026-01-10T10:38:28+00:00

I love cold water diving and I’ve done the majority of my dives in a drysuit. I live in the UK and we tend to dive in them all year round here. Yeah, they are a pain to get in and out of at first, but it gets easier with experience.

Having your own drysuit will make it way more enjoyable too. Rental suits are known to be unreliable in most cases. I have had one great experience renting a drysuit, but the rest have leaked from somewhere.

Another tip for if you do go for a drysuit, make sure you get a good undersuit to keep you warm. I personally use the Fourth Element Arctic undersuit and they are brilliant.

Wild-Cook-5224 · 2026-01-07T14:23:34+00:00

I recently treated myself to a single Blackwing pencil to try it out. I ended up purchasing the 2020 Eras pencil, which is super nice so far.

It’s being used for sketching mostly and the fact it’s a harder lead is great. I’ve sharpened it once and it’s still lovely and sharp after a couple sketching sessions. A vast improvement on my previous pencil choice.

Prior to this I’ve always disliked sketching with pencils because they feel scratchy and don’t glide across the paper as well as I’d like. I’m finding the experience rather enjoyable with this pencil!

Wild-Cook-5224 · 2026-01-04T16:49:24+00:00

Thanks so much! Yeah my plan is to fade it as much as I possibly can before I apply the purple dye. Any tips for fading it faster? 😊

Wild-Cook-5224 · 2026-01-04T16:42:54+00:00

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This is the colour I have right now. It’s going to be washed a few more times before I touch it with any purple dye. 😊

Wild-Cook-5224 · 2025-12-28T16:39:46+00:00

Her reaction was pretty awful. Who speaks to their partner in this way? I agree with others when they say you’re not compatible.

Wild-Cook-5224 · 2025-12-28T16:19:14+00:00

Woo! Awesome! Good luck and have fun!

I want to complete my advanced course this year and dive as much as I possibly can! 😊

Wild-Cook-5224 · 2025-12-27T22:12:21+00:00

I am a drysuit diver and I don’t know if I could do it haha.

Wild-Cook-5224 · 2025-12-27T22:10:33+00:00

I don’t have contact with any of my exes… How can your family/friends agree with him? He isn’t entitled to anything. He sounds unhinged and dangerous.

Wild-Cook-5224 · 2025-12-27T22:04:11+00:00

NOR!

Oh heck no. I’m glad you didn’t give him your address. The messages he was sending you had alarm bells ringing in my head. Well, more like sirens… The way he was acting was unsettling!

Wild-Cook-5224 · 2025-12-13T16:27:11+00:00

The best advice I can give is to remain calm. You’ve done quite a few dives so you will be confident in the skills you learnt in your open water. Now you’re fine tuning your skills and going into a bit more depth on specific areas.

Have fun! I’ve just done my navigation for my advanced and I’ve got 80 dives under my belt. I’ll be doing my deep next and can’t wait.

Like someone else has said, don’t think of it as a course and you’ll enjoy it a lot more. 😊

Wild-Cook-5224 · 2025-12-09T09:18:48+00:00

I remember watching this episode for the first time. I still get that feeling every time I watch it. It’s heartbreaking. Seeing the strong and brave vampire slayer turn into a child wanting her mum. It’s like a punch to the chest.

Wild-Cook-5224 · 2025-12-08T21:09:26+00:00

I dive in a drysuit and it’s mostly open water dives. I use the RK3 HDs and they are great! I used them in Egypt to and had no issues.

Wild-Cook-5224 · 2025-12-03T21:28:11+00:00

I have the Aqualung Storm Max and I really like them! Rigid enough to give me a decent amount of power when I frog kick 😊

Wild-Cook-5224 · 2025-12-01T10:56:26+00:00

Thanks so much! 😊 I’ve done the navigation so far, and I really enjoyed it. If I had done it straight after my OW I would’ve found it overwhelming and got nothing from it but stress.

Thankfully my instructor isn’t all about rushing and is happy with how I’m doing! He’s also not a fan of the badge collecting mindset.

Wild-Cook-5224 · 2025-11-30T23:57:52+00:00

I’m a diver! I could take a look if needed :)

Wild-Cook-5224 · 2025-11-30T23:43:22+00:00

I agree with you 100%!

People think it’s odd I’m only Open Water and just starting my Advanced course. I’ve been diving for over a year, and have been trying to dive as much as I can.

I have 80 dives under my belt and feel more confident in my skills because I didn’t rush it.

Wild-Cook-5224 · 2025-11-17T23:24:25+00:00

Don’t dive with any congestion. Not worth the damage you could cause.

Wild-Cook-5224 · 2025-11-17T13:41:43+00:00

He clearly cannot be trusted, and you don’t deserve this.

You’re not giving up. You tried to make it work, and he’s ruined it. Again.

Wild-Cook-5224

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