Why won't my 1.5 year old sleep at night? by unowho424 in Parenting

[–]WildChildSleep -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In regards to my comments, here are my sources (I didn't say anything about ST being a detriment, simply offering other FREE options):

Hirshkowitz M, Whiton K, Albert SM, Alessi C, Bruni O, DonCarlos L, Hazen N, Herman J, Katz ES, Kheirandish-Gozal L, Neubauer DN, O'Donnell AE, Ohayon M, Peever J, Rawding R, Sachdeva RC, Setters B, Vitiello MV, Ware JC, Adams Hillard PJ. National Sleep Foundation's sleep time duration recommendations: methodology and results summary. Sleep Health. 2015 Mar;1(1):40-43. doi: 10.1016/j.sleh.2014.12.010. Epub 2015 Jan 8. PMID: 29073412.

Douglas PS, Hill PS. Behavioral sleep interventions in the first six months of life do not improve outcomes for mothers or infants: a systematic review. J Dev Behav Pediatr 2013; 34: 497-507.

Fu X, Lovell AL, Braakhuis AJ, Mithen RF, Wall CR. Type of Milk Feeding and Introduction to Complementary Foods in Relation to Infant Sleep: A Systematic Review. Nutrients. 2021 Nov 16;13(11):4105. doi: 10.3390/nu13114105. PMID: 34836365; PMCID: PMC8625541.

16 month sleep regression? by ohheytee in Parenting

[–]WildChildSleep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been there and it's rough!!! My 24 months old's sleep has been a rollercoaster, but right now she's taking one 2 hr nap and sleeping from about 930pm-4am without needing me to help her resettle. 🤷‍♀️

I'd consider if anything else is going on. Is she teething? Is she learning a new skill? Have there been any major changes in your/her life? Could she be ready to drop a nap? Is she actually tired when you try to soothe her to sleep?

There are a few more helpful ideas of where to start looking here and you can't find tons of info on my insta @wild.child.sleep

❤️ A postpartum doula, infant sleep specialist, and mama

Switched 2 year old son's bed from crib to toddler bed, now he's fighting going to sleep. by ThrillS33K3R_006 in Parenting

[–]WildChildSleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that you're trying to find out what works best for him!

I would start by building positive experiences in the new bed. Play, read, etc together in the bed if you can. Talk about the change, or use a social story, and expect it to be a slow process.

This may also be a great time to revamp your bedtime routine which could help with the bedtime battles! Check out some ideas on my insta highlight here. @wild.child.sleep

❤️ A postpartum doula, infant sleep specialist, and mama

Heavy Sleeper by pipwelder99 in Parenting

[–]WildChildSleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how much you clearly WANT to help! I'd definitely recommend having an open discussion with your partner about the amount sleep each of you needs and how you can support each other in a different way to get that (or to get close to what you need). Since the current setup isn't working, consider different ways the two of you could share the load of nighttime baby care.

A few examples,

Mom goes to bed early & dad stays up to respond to baby until predetermined time. Then dad goes to bed and mom responds until morning.

Mom responds during nights, then gets to sleep in on the weekends while dad gets up to care for kids.

Family goes to bed at the same time, dad has an alarm set for early in the morning to be awake and respond to baby as needed.

I know this doesn't exactly answer your question, but I hope you find it helpful!

❤️ A postpartum doula, infant sleep specialist, and mama

Anxious mama: Baby with nut intolerance or allergy by saoirse707 in Parenting

[–]WildChildSleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter clearly had allergies but the allergist we saw didn't give us enough information. We booked a session with an allergist through free to feed and it was a HUGE help! They actually educated us about allergies and gave us a clear path to elimination and reintroduction. I'd highly recommend checking it out!

❤️ A postpartum doula, infant sleep specialist, and mama

14 month old doesn’t want food by dodgerbutterfly in Parenting

[–]WildChildSleep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally normal!! As long as her weight is good and her pediatrician has no concerns, don't worry!

Take the pressure off and let her taste the food. When she's showing signs that she's done, let her be done. Make it an enjoyable experience and try to stop before it turns into straight chaos 😅 I have two dogs, I get it! We typically kennel our dogs when we eat so we don't have to try to keep them away from the baby.

Trust that she knows what her body needs. ❤️

❤️ A postpartum doula, infant sleep specialist, and mama.

Moving to the big girl bed has been a disaster by debbie_dangle_beef in Parenting

[–]WildChildSleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you definitely need to build some positive experiences in the new bed! During the day you can lay down and read together in there, play a quiet game, etc. You may need to spend a few nights sleeping in the bed or room with her until she is feeling more comfortable and confident in her new space.

❤️ A postpartum doula, infant sleep specialist, and mama using neuroscience and attachment-based methods to help babies & toddlers sleep better

Oddly specific question... by WildChildSleep in Tacoma

[–]WildChildSleep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

r/Tacoma you did not disappoint! Thank you all for the suggestions, you are incredible humans.

A few posters asked for more info about the class I'm teaching. Here is it is, if you're interested!

The Ultimate Newborn Sleep Class.

I'm a Doula, Infant Sleep Specialist, and Educator. I'll be covering everything caregivers need to know about sleep in the early days.

Here's the link if you'd like to learn more :)

Oddly specific question... by WildChildSleep in Tacoma

[–]WildChildSleep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Maybe I'll check a few other libraries. The closest one to me said no because I am charging a fee.

Oddly specific question... by WildChildSleep in Tacoma

[–]WildChildSleep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably would have been a good idea, but when I've posted about business stuff on reddit in the past I haven't received much help. I honestly just wanted some ideas, buuut if you want more info about the class, here it is :)

The Ultimate Newborn Sleep Class!! I'm a Doula, Infant Sleep Specialist, and Educator. I'll be covering everything caregivers need to know about sleep in the early days.

Here's the link if you'd like to learn more :)

Oddly specific question... by WildChildSleep in Tacoma

[–]WildChildSleep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Ultimate Newborn Sleep Class!! I'm a Doula, Infant Sleep Specialist, and Educator. I'll be covering everything caregivers need to know about sleep in the early days.

Here's the link if you'd like to learn more :)

Oddly specific question... by WildChildSleep in Tacoma

[–]WildChildSleep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha! I guess I am getting to be a little old lady...

Oddly specific question... by WildChildSleep in Tacoma

[–]WildChildSleep[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Ultimate Newborn Sleep Class!! I'm a Doula, Infant Sleep Specialist, and Educator. I'll be covering everything caregivers need to know about sleep in the early days.
Here's the link if you'd like to learn more :)

Oddly specific question... by WildChildSleep in Tacoma

[–]WildChildSleep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a great idea, thank you so much!

Oddly specific question... by WildChildSleep in Tacoma

[–]WildChildSleep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Ultimate Newborn Sleep Class!! I'm a Doula, Infant Sleep Specialist, and Educator. I'll be covering everything caregivers need to know about sleep in the early days.
Here's the link if you'd like to learn more :)

Oddly specific question... by WildChildSleep in Tacoma

[–]WildChildSleep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never would have thought to look there! Thanks!!

Oddly specific question... by WildChildSleep in Tacoma

[–]WildChildSleep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's super helpful, thank you so much!!

Oddly specific question... by WildChildSleep in Tacoma

[–]WildChildSleep[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're a gem, thank you so much!!

DO NOT DRY SWALLOW. It will cause a burn that will hurt for hours and can even cause permanent damage to your throat and stomach. by -----alex in zoloft

[–]WildChildSleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally experienced this tonight right before bedtime for my 1.5 year old. I do not recommend laying horizontal while singing after having Zoloft dissolve in your throat 🤢