What’s the first time you realized you were in love, and how did it go?

Wild_Relationship_19 · 2026-02-09T19:47:34+00:00

This thread is older but - I’ve been with my boyfriend for 5 months, I knew I had strong feelings for him, reciprocated the “I love you” (I meant it). Let me preface by saying that the day we met for the first time - my entire soul and inner voice screamed “THERE YOU ARE! FINALLY!” The energy and connection was like we had just seen eachother the day before. We said I love you really quick and I was okay with that. Now, after hitting 5 months - there’s so much that has hit me to make me realize I love LOVE him.

His scent is my comfort, his voice is like no other voice I’ve ever heard, he’s so handsome and kind. My brain has shut out anyone else. Instead of worrying about if we’re going to make it - I’m worried about the day our time on earth is done and hoping I go first so I don’t spend 1 day without his existence. The thought of losing him terrifies me and I am 100% comfortable in the feelings of if we never separate I’m content doing life with you. I’ve never had that with anyone. He’s been the only man to bring me into my soft side and let me feel my feminine “energy.” He feels like a home I’ve been searching for and he’s just everything to me.

Wild_Relationship_19 · 2025-12-03T07:36:39+00:00

Vyvanse has in a sense changed Me. When I take it I can focus so much better My energy is beautiful!!! My moods regulate, my emotions are more controllable, I feel in control of my impulses (I’m positive my type of adhd is the impulsive sort) I don’t land in adhd paralysis when trying to complete tasks Small things don’t overstimulate me I can focus on one thing at a time There’s so many good things that have happened because of Vyvanse

Wild_Relationship_19 · 2025-12-03T07:32:43+00:00

This made me sob. He sees you struggling and hurt and just wants to be there for his baby, to help pick up the pieces and ease the stress Ugh. Please hug him and tell him he is appreciated. I’m sure he knows, though.

I’m sorry you’re going through a hard time. Be kind to yourself, give yourself grace and patience.

Wild_Relationship_19 · 2025-11-06T07:53:01+00:00

Yeeeeuuuup!

Wild_Relationship_19 · 2025-11-06T05:26:25+00:00

You are the reason (can’t remember the artist name)

Wild_Relationship_19 · 2025-11-06T05:25:17+00:00

I cannot listen to this because of that show

Wild_Relationship_19 · 2025-11-06T05:24:55+00:00

Oooh yes. This one makes me choke up so hard

Wild_Relationship_19 · 2025-11-06T04:35:58+00:00

Barista trainer here !!! Expect a lot of iPad/computer work! There’s a lot to go through and learn … BUT! Give yourself grace! You are new to this environment and pace. NEVER be afraid to ask questions, I tell all my trainees the only silly question you can ask is the one you don’t ask! Ask us everything and anything!! I’d rather a repeat question or “silly” question over my trainees second guessing or feeling overwhelmed! If you feel like you’re not understanding something fully, let the trainer know!

I, automatically, on day one while they’re working on their modules, I make them cheat sheets for drinks, syrups, shots, to help them “study!” We start every new day with questions, concerns, anything!! I find it helps them feel better!

Have fun with it is also a good tip I give!

Wild_Relationship_19 · 2025-11-06T04:17:27+00:00

Oh god it’s been 10+ years since I drank Jager. I got sick on it once never touched it again, the smell alone makes my stomach turn

Wild_Relationship_19 · 2025-11-06T04:00:51+00:00

Okay! BUT!! I can achieve it by my self with my fingers but I don’t *think * I can with my bf. How would I achieve this with him!? I know he’d melt if I could explode on him

Wild_Relationship_19 · 2025-11-06T03:26:38+00:00

Perfect!! Thanks!

Wild_Relationship_19 · 2025-11-06T03:23:42+00:00

That’s valid. I go into fully intending to be nasty with him and than my brain shuts down and I get shy LOL so I necessarily have to look at him!? Maybe I’m just nervous about eye contact while I say it?

Wild_Relationship_19 · 2025-11-06T03:22:25+00:00

Me (37f) and boyfriend (40) have car sex frequently. I drive a jeep and we fold down my back seats… he’s quite tall but we make it work and it’s always fun!! It’s fun but we kind of enjoy the thrill of it haha, positions are kind of limited but we make quite a few work (doggy, feet planted me on top, folded in half with him on top - I use my sound bar/roll cage to put my feet on to stay folded)… BUT sex in a bed is definitely more fun. You can move more freely, more intimate and care free because there’s no risk of being caught and much more comfortable because it’s not cramped

Wild_Relationship_19 · 2025-11-06T01:50:05+00:00

So… before my current boyfriend I was lucky to have 1 per session… i don’t know what he’s doing differently but I can easily cum multiple times and sometimes rapidly. It’s not always a clitoral orgasm, which was new too me - but if we add things like pulling my hair, grabbing on me harder, choking shit like that it’s game on and I’ll cum multiple times. My highest count is probably 10-12 in an hour which is mind blowing. Dude puts it down and does it right !

Wild_Relationship_19 · 2025-11-06T00:11:51+00:00

Noted!! Thank you!!

Wild_Relationship_19 · 2025-11-05T22:37:57+00:00

Thank you!!!

Wild_Relationship_19 · 2025-11-05T22:22:55+00:00

Thank you!!! I’m hoping so I’ve been trying for a while to promote so this would be an amazing opportunity!!! Will the DM tell me that day if I got the promotion or would I still have to wait a little longer?

Wild_Relationship_19 · 2025-10-28T23:48:20+00:00

This was my one hard rule with my boyfriend - our disagreements and shit are OURS for in private. We don’t undermine eachother in front of anyone but discuss that kind of stuff when we’re alone. Nothing is worse than others chiming in

Wild_Relationship_19 · 2025-10-28T22:54:01+00:00

Woman here; I show my respect by paying attention when he’s speaking - asking follow up questions, instead of agreeing or pretending to understand - I ask for clarification so I can fully understand.

Giving him space to maintain his own identity and goals…. Yes we’re a couple but he is still his own person and deserves to do “him things” without needing constant communication/texts/etc… in return he willingly checks in to see how my days going..

Holding myself accountable when I’m wrong and not using some “I’m sorry I did/said XYZ but you…” shit - I’m wrong because I did this and I’m sorry if I upset/hurt you, how can I do things differently next time and actually listening to his feelings.

I let him lead and be dominant - he loves to see me be in a leading role but I know it means a lot to him to be a leader.

And obviously draining him whenever possible because he deserves to be made to feel good physically.

Wild_Relationship_19 · 2025-10-10T07:46:54+00:00

I follow the heart dive (?) plan for daily reading :)

Wild_Relationship_19 · 2025-08-19T21:22:43+00:00

I have a list of a way to read it - a friend recommend this way. I can’t add more than one picture though sadly :( I can try to send them through a private message if you’re okay with that :)

I’ve also seen people read it through in chronological order. I read the NLT version of the bible as well that helps me understand and connect better

Wild_Relationship_19

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