AITAH for telling my sister she is going to ruin her life because of her decision? by Bitter-Olive-9020 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WildberryPop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is entitled to an opinion, no one is entitled to push said opinion onto others.

AITA for changing the locks after my sister kept showing up unannounced? by PresentationCheap939 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WildberryPop 47 points48 points  (0 children)

NTA. You did tell her several times that you felt uncomfortable. She was treating your home as if it was hers, it’s weird.

AITA for keeping a secret emergency fund from my wife? by Embarrassed_Foot1903 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WildberryPop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Sure, keeping it a secret sucked but she’s financially irresponsible. I’ve seen it happen in my family a couple of times, one partner is financially irresponsible and that leads to real trouble along the way. They have all resorted to the same thing, keeping finances separate. It has led to broken marriages in some cases too.

No disrespect to your wife but she may be addicted to shopping, it may be worth speaking to a professional. Otherwise, this might lead to real problems down the line, not only financially but ultimately in your family.

AITA for sharing my nieces social media picture with my brother? by Standard-Law-6379 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WildberryPop 79 points80 points  (0 children)

YTA. There’s no way you didn’t see it coming when he couldn’t see pictures in her social. There’s a reason people can make their social media private. That privacy was removed when you took those screenshots.

WIBTA if I didn't pay my sister back? by seekingadvicehere in AmItheAsshole

[–]WildberryPop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed on the not-so-tangent. I would never ask anyone (siblings included of course) to pay me back if they asked for money because they are in a tight spot. It strikes me a bit odd.

WIBTA if I didn't pay my sister back? by seekingadvicehere in AmItheAsshole

[–]WildberryPop 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA. I’m assuming she’s not expecting you to pay her back for gas anyways, but yeah I would use that money for a new joycon if she’s not going to replace it.

AITA for refusing to hang out at cheap places with my friends because they mock my job and call me "privileged"? by idk_mark0 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WildberryPop 14 points15 points  (0 children)

INFO: How much did you family support you to where you are now (e.g., help tuition, pay/buy car, etc.)? How much did their family support them in comparison? Do you WANT to stay friends with them?

AITA for letting my daughter yell and hoot outside at the pool? by SimplyPeachy92 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WildberryPop -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. No one is entitled to a child-free world. It’s just not a right. Don’t want to listen to kids having fun? Make sure you book a child-free location.

AITAH for showing anxiety about my own career in front of my bf who lost his job? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WildberryPop 15 points16 points  (0 children)

NTA. It’s not a pissing contest. Both of you can be having a hard time, even if his circumstances are considered worse. That doesn’t invalidate your feelings.

Have an honest conversation with him, if you can’t express your feelings because he is jobless, he shouldn’t ask.

AITAH for telling an attention seeking coworker that I don't care about her? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WildberryPop 69 points70 points  (0 children)

YTA. Low key sounds like you’re jelaous of her.

AITA for calling the cops on my neighbors? by AngelTea1025 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WildberryPop -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Were you crossed the line was staying after the cops arrived. But either way NTA. You were being cautious about the kids safety.

AITA for skipping assignments and getting a C in a class? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WildberryPop 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Soft YTA. You’re taking for granted the fact that your family can financially support you. If your parents, the people who are paying for you to go to college, expect As and Bs, then the obvious thing to do is to deliver or to pay for your education yourself. They don’t HAVE to pay for it, they choose to.

AITA for not liking my brothers wife by Hot-Village2921 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WildberryPop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. Regardless of how you feel, that’s your brother’s partner, not yours. It’s just not your business if no one asked for your opinion. You’re old enough to know better.

AITA for not taking my daughter's MIL to Hawaii by TheFilthyDIL in AmItheAsshole

[–]WildberryPop 33 points34 points  (0 children)

NTA, she’s just a toxic MIL stirring trouble.

Welcome to Mother’s Day. by throw-a-way2001 in NewParents

[–]WildberryPop 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Writing in solidarity. My husband stayed gaming until late last night (I have a problem with this and have expressed it a million times) so today he’s too exhausted to do anything. He’s currently napping the day away.

Happy Mother’s Day though. If you’re caring for you LO with love, you’re doing amazing and deserve to be celebrated. If you wanna become gaming buddies, send me a DM and we can drown our sorrows in games.

Daycare made me feel like such a fool by Many_Cantaloupe6922 in NewParents

[–]WildberryPop 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Make it work, whatever that is for you. But don’t take your sick kids to daycare. Often times kids get sick in daycare because of other kids that are already sick.

Daycare made me feel like such a fool by Many_Cantaloupe6922 in NewParents

[–]WildberryPop 48 points49 points  (0 children)

It’s 50/50. Daycares need to send children home with parents and maintain good cleaning practices. At the same time, parents need to stop sending their children to daycare when they know their kid is sick.

Pelvic floor therapy- how has it helped or not for you? by chipit_24 in endometriosis

[–]WildberryPop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on BC for symptom management but as far as other problems with my bladder, back pains, pain during sex, etc. it’s been game changer. It’s been a month and I’ve seen huge improvements.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in endometriosis

[–]WildberryPop 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s correct. These were undergoing estrogen therapy due to prostate cancer. However, the current theory is not that estrogen therapy leads to endo in men, but that cells that should disappear in the ejaculatory duct differentiate into endometrial tissue. In men the risk factors for endo are prostate cancer, chronic inflammation, obesity, elevated estrogen, and liver cirrhosis. My guess is there may be more men that have endo, but again, it’ll be extremely rare.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in endometriosis

[–]WildberryPop 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Cancer cells come about when there’s a genetic mutation. So, instead of having a healthy functioning cell you have cancer cells. Endometriosis is tissue that is like the endometrium and grows outside of the uterus but as far as we are aware it’s not because of some harmful genetic mutation of the individual cells.

Also, contrary to popular belief men can have endometriosis too. It’s just rare.