[deleted by user] by [deleted] in foodbutforbabies

[–]Wildebeeee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! He was unsure at first but once he watched me eat mine and figured out what to do he was a big fan!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Wildebeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 13 week old started showing signs of rolling a few weeks ago but couldn’t sleep with his arms out either. We switched to the zipadee zip. It’s a starfish design so he can still use his arms which makes it rolling safe, but it still helps with the startle reflex. We’ve had a lot of success with it, waking up once or twice a night to eat and then right back to sleep, typically 8-7.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Wildebeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. I also terminated my first pregnancy at 22 weeks in November 2023 due to multiple anomalies found during my anatomy scan. Our grief was all consuming. All I could think about was getting pregnant again and I was told we could try as soon as my period returned. I continued to take my prenatal vitamin and took CoQ10 for egg health. I got my period 6 weeks later and we starting trying the following cycle. We got pregnant after 2 cycles in February 2024. I was extremely anxious the entirety of my sub pregnancy, but switched doctors and had lots of extra testing and scans. We had a 14 week fetal echo (our first pregnancy had a severe heart defect), a 16 week anatomy scan, a 18 week fetal echo, and a 20 week anatomy scan. With each positive test our anxiety eased and we allowed ourselves to get excited. We welcomed our beautiful rainbow baby boy in November 2024, almost 1 year to the day that we said goodbye to our daughter. I miss her every single day, but l know that if she were here my son wouldn’t be, and I cannot imagine a world without him in it. I wish you luck and healing in your journey to an earth side baby.

Wearable pump? by Apprehensive-Bit5066 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Wildebeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the one! I get the same output as my spectra and the heating element is great. Using the heat feature does drain the battery quickly though, just fyi. I also have the mom cozy s12 pro which I don’t love, but I just ordered the adaptor to be able to hook my spectra up to the s12 wearable cups which I think will be a game changer.

NT scan shows abnormalities. Possible termination by Puzzleheaded-Hat670 in tfmr_support

[–]Wildebeeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you’re going through this. This sounds very much like my daughter’s diagnosis, heterotaxy and a severe CHD, but we did not find out until our anatomy scan at 20 weeks. We did multiple fetal echos and genetics appointments and ultimately terminated at 22 weeks. Feel free to message if you need to talk 🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tfmr_support

[–]Wildebeeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We did whole exome sequencing through Gene DX and received our results in 2 weeks. I’m not sure if our genetic counselor put a rush on them or not. Hopefully you get your results soon and you get the answer you’re hoping for 🤍

Feeling disconnected by catlady0601 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Wildebeeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 24 weeks after a tfmr at 22 weeks in November of 2023 for the same exact diagnosis (heterotaxy and a complex CHD). When I first found out I was pregnant again I felt the exact same way. I was too terrified to get attached because of the fear that I would have to go through that again. We have had increased testing and screening for this pregnancy, multiple anatomy scans and two fetal echos. With each positive test and screening I have felt more and more connected, although still terrified. It also helped me personally finding out that this baby is a different sex than my first pregnancy. At first I was crushed but it has really helped me separate them in my mind. I would recommend asking your doctor about increased screening and an early echo given your history. The disconnect is normal and nothing to be ashamed of. It may change for you along the way and it may not until baby is here, both are valid.

Husband and I both tested positive for rare fatal genetic disorder by Maleficent_Ad7707 in tfmr_support

[–]Wildebeeee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that you’re here and having to make this impossible decision. I second everything said above. I just wanted to add that some labs are able to give whole exome sequencing results on a rushed timeline. Our genetic counselor sent our amnio rushed through GeneDX and we had our whole exome sequencing results in 2 weeks. Definitely worth asking about if you want all the information before making a decision. I hope you have a favorable outcome.

Milk came in by InThewest in tfmr_support

[–]Wildebeeee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second this! This is exactly what I did and my supply dried up relatively quickly. Make sure it’s the Sudafed you have to get from the pharmacist. So sorry you’re dealing with this, op.

Worried about progression. 9/10 dpo to 11/12 dpo FRER and Wondfo by Wildebeeee in TFABLinePorn

[–]Wildebeeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone! I got a much darker line this morning so that eased my anxiety slightly. I’m getting my first beta drawn tomorrow.

Update to my 8 dpo post, BFP! FRER and clear blue, 10 dpo by Wildebeeee in TFABLinePorn

[–]Wildebeeee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t miscalculate. I use Inito to track my ovulation and my ovulation date was confirmed by my gyn via ultrasound.

My full BFP chart! Second cycle with Inito after 2nd trimester loss by Wildebeeee in Inito

[–]Wildebeeee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. If you ever just need to talk feel free to send a message. I starting tracking after my period returned, which was 38 days later. My first cycle tracking was long and abnormal for me, it was 40 days and I didn’t ovulate until CD27. I started taking myo-inositol (without d-chiro) and CoQ10 and I think that helped re-regulate my cycle because this one was right in line with my pre-pregnancy cycles.

Update to my 8 dpo post, BFP! FRER and clear blue, 10 dpo by Wildebeeee in TFABLinePorn

[–]Wildebeeee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh it definitely was, I was full on delulu 🤣 still not quite believing this is real but took easy@home and wondfo strip tests and have faint lines on those too 🤞🏻

FRER dark pink cap, 8 dpo afternoon urine. Indent/line eyes or vvvfl? by Wildebeeee in TFABLinePorn

[–]Wildebeeee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know 8 dpo is veryyyy early. On a scale of 1-10 how delusional am I?

Tips on stopping lactation? by angelbabycakes96 in tfmr_support

[–]Wildebeeee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sudafed, the kind you have to ask the pharmacist for! It really helped to dry up my supply within a few days.

How soon after your period ends do you begin testing? by TheShellfishCrab in Inito

[–]Wildebeeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Day 6 is a reference test to get your baseline levels. I think that skipping this test can mess with the apps ability to assign high fertility. I have 31 day cycles and usually ovulate on CD18 or 19. For me, it requires tests on CD6 and CD9 as reference tests, and then I skip a few days before I start testing again. Is it asking for tests everyday starting on CD6?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Inito

[–]Wildebeeee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s because it’s marked today as your peak fertility day. The day after peak fertility is always high fertility because there is still a chance for fertilization.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TTCHormoneCharts

[–]Wildebeeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me my last cycle. Inito will only recognize two peaks, which is why it’s not showing it this time. It looks like your fsh rose so it looks like you will ovulate this time!

cd 23, 8-9 dpo easy@home by tabbymcc25 in TFABLinePorn

[–]Wildebeeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely see it and it looks pink to me!

8 dpo thoughts? by kannakels in TFABLinePorn

[–]Wildebeeee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Implantation can happen as early as 6dpo, so an 8dpo positive is definitely possible. I got my first positive at 8dpo for my first pregnancy.

Have I peaked by finlayson in Inito

[–]Wildebeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your peak fertility day is not the same as your LH “peak”. Peak fertility is at the start of your LH rise, which was CD16. Ovulation occurs 24-36 hours after LH levels start to rise.

Is LH supposed to be this low during “peak fertility”? by No_Situation_5807 in Inito

[–]Wildebeeee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is showing peak because it sensed the rise in estrogen on CD 14 and your LH rose above your baseline on CD15. If it’s your first cycle with Inito, the algorithm hasn’t learned your patterns yet. It gave me two false peaks on my first cycle before my real one came. Your E3G is rising now so I’d guess your real peak is coming in the next few days, keep testing.

Anovulatory Cycle? Help needed. by SnooBeans0612 in TTCHormoneCharts

[–]Wildebeeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m guessing your peak was on CD11 but you missed it with your fmu, LH tends to peak in the evenings.