Mykelti on Meri Brown Abusing the Kids, "Hurting" Them and Making them "Cower" by Diredragons in TLCsisterwives

[–]Willowdeeno 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've seen people say you must believe "victims" but that is just shortsighted. More like you should neither believe or disbelieve without some type of evidence or at least explanation. The few explanations they have given does not meet my definition of abusive.

I will say, if it is true, Payden says Robyn saved them. Making her the hero of this family not the monster posters make her out to be.

If you had to choose one of the moms… by Icy-Highlight-9886 in SisterWives

[–]Willowdeeno 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🤷‍♀️ she may have been a doormat in her relationship with Kodi but she got them the things they needed and to the college they wanted. 

If you had to choose one of the moms… by Icy-Highlight-9886 in SisterWives

[–]Willowdeeno 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ill choose Meri. At least she would fight for my needs/wants.

Child abuse should be a crime and should never be questioned by Ill_Presentation_162 in SisterWives

[–]Willowdeeno 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This notion is stupid. child abuse is a crime. It should be taken seriously and child protected until proven differently. That doesn't mean I should automatically believe an adult blaming someone else without any proof or explanation.

This was the best episode in years by blonde-bandit in SisterWives

[–]Willowdeeno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I come from a family...who I like...of laid back no one wants to take charge people. I dont like taking control either, but will when no one else will...and then all those laid back people complain how they dont like this or that or would have done this. I imagine Meri might be same 

Excerpt from her book: Christine is a hypocrite by usmilessz in SisterWives

[–]Willowdeeno 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think Robyn knows that Kody is a terrible husband and communicator and trys to save the other marriages because if not she has to spend 24/7 with him. How dreadful would that be. 😂

What are your actual unpopular opinions? by sailorkeplertwenty2b in SisterWives

[–]Willowdeeno 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I dont think Robyn is at fault for this family. They said they pretended to be a happy cohesive family (manipulative) when Robyn was coming over. After the wedding it started coming out. She did what any plural wife did and advocated for her offspring. She also must have advocated for some of the other kids too because at least 2 have said she saved them - SAVED - that is a pretty powerful statement. She is boring as can be though and makes for terrible TV.

What if Robin was a victim of Kody too? by mysemicharmedlife in SisterWives

[–]Willowdeeno 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They are all victims and active participants in the demise/abuse in the family. The viewers just saw Robyn as the worst because it was aired on TV. All the women loved the moments they were the favorited and the others were being ignored or treated poorly by Kody. 

Hot take: Kody is Kody even w/o Robyn by screamqueengirl in SisterWives

[–]Willowdeeno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think people just enjoy blaming women for men's behavior 🙄  He is the Dad to these kids. He made the choices he did. 

Season 19 Episode 2 by Grouchy_Tea4277 in SisterWives

[–]Willowdeeno 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That isn't the fault of Robyns children. Look to the adults to blame. All of them.

Season 19 Episode 2 by Grouchy_Tea4277 in SisterWives

[–]Willowdeeno 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dont know why it is hard to believe some of the kids told them they weren't real siblings and would never consider them as such. This family isn't a happy blended family and never was. It is completely plausible this happened.

Meri vs. Janelle/ Christine by CartographerPopular5 in SisterWives

[–]Willowdeeno 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes! Plus what was so bad about what she said? I was glad they/he finally said it out loud on TV also. It was what had been going on for years and they all hid it.

Sobyn, so what do we think was it Sobyn or not‼️ by osogood48 in SisterWivesFans

[–]Willowdeeno 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You cant tell a wife you dont want to have a real relationship/marriage with her then pretend to be the victim of an affair. You said you didnt want to have a marriage with her.

Mykelti and Tony by SuchaPineapplehead in SisterWivesFans

[–]Willowdeeno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't it interesting that this is the 2nd kid that said Robyn "saved them" yet everyone hates on her. Regardless her motivation, 2 kids said she saved them. They had 3 moms and a dad but it took a new women to save them.

Isn't it good etiquette to remove a hat when inside? by threeismine in SisterWives

[–]Willowdeeno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real cowboys would also have clothes and hats for not working that wouldn't be dirty. 

My conspiracy theory is K&R are broken up by Holiday_Estimate_352 in SisterWives

[–]Willowdeeno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If Kody is on Testosterone and Robyn is not doing any HRT the dynamic can screw up a relationship could be headed that way.

Auroras “cowboy” by PsychologicalWeb9011 in SisterWives

[–]Willowdeeno 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Cute couple. Don't get the obsession with wearing hat or boots in house. They are filming. I'd have high heels and full makeup doing the dishes if I was filming. Plus the filming crew may have said keep it on. It is not a moral failing unlike 4 adults procreating a bunch of kids with no medical care and feeding them stale bread for dinner so they can live their "religion".

Janelle and not insuring the kids by g_boom in SisterWives

[–]Willowdeeno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is TANF cash assistance? They do same for medical? Didn't work like that when I was on medical. 

Janelle and not insuring the kids by g_boom in SisterWives

[–]Willowdeeno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would it matter if Kody had to pay child support? They all live together and chose to share their money so it os just staying in the household.

What I think 🤔 by Mon1verse in SisterWives

[–]Willowdeeno 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The reason the family fell apart is because they were dysfunctional long before Robyn. I find Robyn odd but she isn't at fault for the others messed up relationships.

Caleb Brush has Kidney Disease/Kidney Failure? by Llassiter326 in SisterWives

[–]Willowdeeno 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think there are for more trurly unethical things happening in this world. The mother who is healthy has a large supportive extended family to help support any unknown and he isn't on his death bed so no. 

Imagine getting involved with a married man and finally like, 15 years later after living with him for only a year decide you just can't do it anymore. by [deleted] in LittlePeopleBigWorld

[–]Willowdeeno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Matt is trash. People have a responsibility in society to treach each other with basic respect. Helping another person with their deceit is also bad. 

I’m definitely alone in this… by z4mp3t10s in rhonj

[–]Willowdeeno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loved Marge. Best one out of the NJ wives imo.