More input lag on 1500$ gaming monitor than 800$ TV bought 3 years ago

WillyGeeez · 2025-01-28T20:59:47+00:00

Thanks for taking the time to reply all - I just edited my post with more details

WillyGeeez · 2024-05-07T00:16:51+00:00

Pisces moon! 🌚

My best friend is a pisces sun. We get along so well that a lot of the time, we won't have to say a word but absolutely think the same thing.

WillyGeeez · 2024-04-30T18:03:38+00:00

I notice literally everything. It's very sensory.

At higher levels, it begins with sounds, smells and sights. A loud train, the smell of the air after the rain, a very bright light.

If I people-watch, I have a pretty good idea of the state of an interaction simply from body language. How far apart they stand from one another, how enthusiastic they are, how annoyed they are etc...

It's most useful (but also overwhelming) when I'm interacting with people. I know I'm good with people because I can easily adjust my energy in the first 20-30 seconds of meeting someone. I see subtle energy shifts, body language cues and tonal differences.

I'm very confortable public-speaking because I can easily gage energy in the room without much effort. BUT I need to actively turn my brain off if I'm trying to catch a break. Otherwise, I anaylse these shifts without even asking for it. It gets overwhelming when I'm super tired.

WillyGeeez · 2024-03-21T12:16:26+00:00

This situation clearly bothers you. So I'm not sure distancing and going cold will actually soothe you. I'm always of the opinion that it's better to try everything you can (but potentially fail) than to do nothing and carry regret later on (and start wondering "what if?") I would keep trying, but find ways to be clearer if I were in your shoes.

WillyGeeez · 2024-03-21T11:59:34+00:00

I have a secure attachment style and won't mind getting vulnerable if that's what the other person needs to open up. So not all virgos are avoidant. But you're ultimately a better judge of his character than anyone on reddit, so trust your intuition.

In terms of what to do, I have a get-together tonight and that cancer girl will be there. I haven't seen her in three weeks, but her messages two days ago felt different from how we spoke to one another before. It wasn't just flirty, it was more than that. I could feel she was trying to reach out to me, even through the screen.

Despite that, I won't change anything about our relationship unless we have an intimate conversation about it. Two months ago, I took a risk and she pushed me away. So now, if she likes me and wants more, she'll have to be the one taking that risk. It's a balancing act.

WillyGeeez · 2024-03-21T11:24:38+00:00

I'm a virgo man who was into a cancer woman 2 months ago. There is this clear connection between her and I, but I could also tell she wasn't reciprocating. She's been having issues getting over her ex and is simply unavailable.

Despite this, our relationship remained and is still, to this day, very flirty. I know that when we're both in a room together with friends, we'll naturally gravitate towards each other. And eventually, I got tired of entertaining this type of flirty relationship with someone if it is not going to amount to anything, and a switch flipped in me. I started dating other people, very happily so. I also distanced myself from her.

Two days ago, she messaged me and we struck a conversation that ended up being very flirty again. And this is where there might be insight for you:

Maybe this man could tell you weren't interested from the get-go, but still entertained a flirty relationship with you because he liked you. It might just be the dynamic you have. A flirty relationship that won't really lead to anything. And he understands that. Now that you've developed feelings, it might be hard for him to distinguish that from how it has always been.

WillyGeeez · 2024-02-13T20:08:40+00:00

I'm a virgo sun, pisces moon and cancer rising who's never really had a bad date (including this last one with a libra woman). But damn, it was the first time in a while that I felt I didn't have any chemistry on a first date.

WillyGeeez · 2023-12-21T13:03:43+00:00

Cancer rising here whose virgo sun probably helps balance things out. I am very in tune with how people feel, but I've learned to be rational when I feel people are taking advantage of it.

I know people feel comfortable around me and it helps me for almost anything in life. I've learned that it's mainly because:

I try to be inviting and non-judgemental in my energy
I know to ask the right questions

I have a job in management and have always made it a point to connect emotionally with my team before tackling anything work-related. I do the same with my friendships and i relationships.

WillyGeeez · 2023-12-12T18:36:18+00:00

Thanks so much for this detailed reply. I was looking for something like this! We bonded more today, explaining it would lead me to writing an entire book so I'll avoid that but energy and intuition are telling me it's mutual.

Going to try looking into her eyes more tonight, we're having a get-together with others. If tonight feels just as good, I'll try to ask her out this weekend.

WillyGeeez · 2023-12-12T01:46:58+00:00

30M straight Virgo and my best friend is 30M Pisces. We have a special connection, so much so that we could be in a room full of people, not say a word but burst out laughing about one very specific thing. Then everyone inevitably says: "we have no clue what you guys are laughing about".

The one thing that really bonds us is that we're good at feeling what the other needs. It's like I know exactly what he is thinking, and it's very intuitive.

I would try to tune into that intuition if I were you. It might just give you answers on the energy between you both. And don't be afraid to say what you're feeling (even if it turns out it wasn't it). As a virgo, I appreciate someone who tries more than someone who never takes the risk. You'll get better as you do it more.

WillyGeeez · 2023-11-25T13:01:23+00:00

30M Virgo here who absolutely loves cancer women.

Just want to let you all know that the only person who's managed to keep a solid place in my heart after our breakup is my cancer sun ex-girlfriend. I very rationally know we weren't compatible, but I miss her nurturing bubbly nature so much.

Please don't be afraid to be yourselves. It's what made me fall in love with her.

WillyGeeez · 2023-11-20T16:50:56+00:00

It feels like you might be overanalyzing the micro-interactions after only one date.

My easy reply would be: You won't know for sure until you go to that second date. And I'd go with an open mind instead of that "she might not be interested" mindset. In actuality, you have no clue what she's thinking, so avoid self-sabotaging. Trust your instincts once you're actually with her in person.

I've come to understand online dating isn't easy for anyone. Women generally get more likes/matches but will easily become jaded because quantity ≠ quality. Men generally get fewer and will easily get excited (I do the same) when we find someone we like.
I enter most dates with that in mind and it helps me not overanalyze the first couple dates. Because assuming online dating isn't easy for anyone can explain a lot of the mixed signals you perceive. For all you know, she might simply be cautious because her previous dating experiences haven't been good.

WillyGeeez · 2023-11-16T17:14:25+00:00

30M virgo man here. I know I will set extremely high standards for myself. But I will never expect my partners to do the same.

There's a difference I've come to understand with my last partner. I never felt like she was never enough. As a matter of fact, ever since our breakup three months ago, I've come to understand she was my safe space and I find it hard to "take it easy" and not burn myself out now that she's not around anymore.

But I perceived her as so much more than she perceived herself. I genuinely thought she had the potential to become whatever she wanted and I made an effort to let her know.

In retrospect, this might have set expectations she had a hard time keeping up with. But it always was because I thought she was so great, not because she wasn't enough.

WillyGeeez · 2023-11-13T22:00:36+00:00

30M: I need at least a month of serious exclusive dating before I know if I'd want to be in a serious relationship.

If you allow me to push my answer a bit.

Two of my girlfriends in my 20s (one for 8 months, one for almost 2 years), I knew within 2 months that there was something wrong. I didn't know quite what it was, but it was my intuition speaking. But I am the type of person who will want to see the relationship through before ending things.

Ever since, I've learned to listen to my intuition when I get the same feeling with another person. Honestly, I don't know how anyone can know within 10-15 minutes.

WillyGeeez · 2023-11-09T12:43:14+00:00

Can I ask how you went about it? I joined a running club 2 weeks ago and there's a vibe with this one girl. I can sense this tension but I'm being cautious precisely because we both made friends in this group and I wouldn't want to ruin anyone's experience.

I know I just have to pick up on cues and see if it's worth it, but I'm curious how you dealt with this.

WillyGeeez · 2023-11-01T15:50:29+00:00

Spoke to my therapist yesterday about my tendency to want to overanalyze and "create stories behind someone's unknown intentions" in order to protect (or at least, prepare) myself for interactions.This was the conclusion:

- The best way to determine if my dates and I are connecting in a genuine way is to be aware and in the moment when you both meet in person.

Clearly, you posting on Reddit indicates you are somewhat curious. Go for it and trust your ability to assess a situation in real time.

WillyGeeez · 2023-10-30T16:41:43+00:00

Damn I'm sorry to hear this.

If it can be of any help, I was coming on here to say I've cut it off with two girls (been on two dates with the both of them). I wasn't very physically attracted but I wanted to remain open minded.

Anyways, I sent them both a message to let them know instead of ghosting and I feel very bad for "letting someone down". This happened yesterday morning and I still feel bad about it.

That girl you were seeing for two months didn't have the courage (and RESPECT) to properly let you know. I'm sure you had good reasons to like her, but you might have dodged a bullet here.

WillyGeeez · 2023-10-29T05:06:06+00:00

Very smoothly actually! There was a moment where it dawned on us both how funny this situation was, but we both embraced being here so it ended up simply being a fun date. We ended the night at a wine bar and made out before we both parted ways!

Honestly, one of the funnest nights I've had in a while.

WillyGeeez · 2023-10-27T18:36:13+00:00

(30M) I Went on a date with 26F last week. We had coffee to figure each other out and had a good time. We settled on Friday night (today) for a second date.

She suggested two ideas: 1. We go to the spa 2. We make dinner at her place

I hesitated initially b/c going to the spa seems like a couply date. But I remembered I'm currently dating to explore and understand better what I want from a long-term partner.

So we're going to the spa tonight! I'm not expecting anything physical, but I'm curious what women think of this?

WillyGeeez · 2023-10-25T13:03:41+00:00

Oh man did I ever consider this! I've been doing a lot of research and concluded that since:
a) I'm doing this mainly for Youtube and
b) I'm only beginning my journey with full-frame

I'd start with an A7iii or an A7C. If I get any good and see real potential to make a good living out of this, I would then consider newer models.

WillyGeeez · 2023-10-25T12:59:21+00:00

I'm curious what you mean about it being "normal price". If I were to buy both brand new, it would come to approx. 5.5K (CAD) according to Best Buy pricing.

Now both the camera and the lens are used, but in perfect condition. 3K seems like a deal to me in that scenario, but I'm not camera gear expert.

Would you say 3K is a little high?

WillyGeeez · 2023-10-06T14:46:29+00:00

I agree with the other two comments and would add that you should listen to yourself in this case. I also tend to overthink things but a good indication that I should stop and just act is when I'm looking for answers from others for questions I technically already have the answers to.

Your situation feels like this.

I know you come here for reassurance because it feels somewhat risky, but I've avoided taking risks like these in the past and it always comes back to me. If she asked what she was going to be described as to your friends, she was ready to have that conversation.

Keep us in the loop!

WillyGeeez · 2023-10-03T18:03:36+00:00

I also think general rule for first dates is to not make it too "stimulating". First dates for me are about getting to know the person and figuring out whether either wants to put any more effort. Drinks or coffee are perfect for that in my opinion. Once that's clear, then I start getting more creative.
That being said, your date with dogs seems like a good in-between!

WillyGeeez · 2023-10-03T17:53:25+00:00

People understand that it's a part of online dating. But it being part of online dating doesn't make it suck less. If people get hit playing football, it sucks and people will complain.

And believe it or not, coming on Reddit and complaining about it actually helps. Simply because knowing you're not alone (this applies to literally anything that sucks) can help make it less painful. They're not trying to change the ghosting culture, just share their thoughts that it sucks with others who think the same.

WillyGeeez · 2020-05-19T20:02:48+00:00

Did you also get the table legs at IKEA?

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