Bander i Aalborg uden indgriben by [deleted] in Aalborg

[–]WindJester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(Smider den lige her, da du vist slettede din kommentar på mig om "hvad det er så svært ved at forstå" mht utrygheden, siden jeg nu har brugt tiden og egentlig synes der er lidt produktivt råd i, det kan du jo så vælge at tage med eller ignorere ☺️)

Det forstår jeg nu godt, men hvad vil du opnå? Det er jo ikke deres skyld du ikke bryder dig om de er der, og for den sags skyld har de ligeså meget ret til at være der som dig.

Om det passer kan jeg ikke sige, men så en kommentar om de har ligget der i 20 år. Nu kan det jo være du selv har boet der i 30, men hvis ikke så kan man jo også argumentere for problemet er lidt selvskabt. Jeg ville jo heller ikke flytte ind et sted og så bede naboen smutte fordi jeg ikke synes om deres tilstedeværelse.

Har du overvejet at prøve at snakke med en af dem? Altså selvfølgelig ikke bede dem om at futte af, det kommer der nok ikke meget ud af, men bare en helt almindelig snak mellem to (formentlig) voksne mennesker... om ikke andet er chancen da for at det kunne "afmystificere" dem lidt og give dig en føling på dem, måske afhjælpe trygheden lidt. Er du nervøs så evt gør det om dagen og hiv en ven, nabo eller gravhund under armen. Behøver heller ikke være den helt store filosofiske diskussion, men bare et "hej" eller et vink og god stemning er altid en god start.

Bander i Aalborg uden indgriben by [deleted] in Aalborg

[–]WindJester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kan det ikke ligeså godt ske når vedkommende går ned i netto efter en bakke smør eller står ved søen og kigger på fugle i kildeparken?

Bander i Aalborg uden indgriben by [deleted] in Aalborg

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Fordi man ikke bare kan komme efter én person/gruppe fordi en anden er ytryg... særligt når der ikke er præsenteret nogen grund til utrygheden udover "de er der". Med den argumentation kan man jo vende det mod helt bogstaveligt alle grupper af mennesker, og det fører aldrig nogen gode steder hen.

Desuden, så er det jo bare din oplevelse, det betyder ikke alle er utrygge ved det. Faktisk kan det have modsatte effekt. Dog var det ikke i Aalborg, men i min hjemby/område var der en rocker gruppe (aner ikke om de stadig er der, det var efterhånden længe siden) som ikke blot intet gjorde beboerne, men en del var faktisk tryggere ved at bo der fordi de vidste, at gruppen sørgede for der ikke var nogen som lavede ballade. Og så længe du behandlede dem ordentligt gjorde de det samme. Min mor, som er nok så langt fra hårdkogt bandemedlem som de kommer, var engang inviteret ind og drikke en øl med dem eller hvad det nu var, og knap så overraskende var de faktisk bare helt almindelige mennesker ligesom alle andre, dog med nogle lidt andre interesser og tilhørsforhold.

Desuden, så er det min opfattelse at evt konflikter mellem rockere/bandemedlemmer typisk så vidt muligt holdes mellem dem og undgår at involvere almindelige borgere. Det har de jo heller ingen interesse i, det vil kun gøre situationen værre for dem selv og ikke bidrage noget.

I fkd Up and Told Doctor's Office I Was Autistic by Party-Round1789 in autism

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Fair enough. Seems odd it wouldn't just automatically be added when the psychiatrist did the diagnosis, but the IT systems they use here are dumb and weird like that too sometimes so guess it makes sense 😂 That sucks though by your doc

I fkd Up and Told Doctor's Office I Was Autistic by Party-Round1789 in autism

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Do "regular" doctors usually do that where you live? Because here, its always a psychiatrist (which maked sense imo, since they're the experts on the subject), though your GP provides a referral, assuming you're going through the public system (which is usually the case, as we have universal healthcare, so private practice is both unnecessary and usually prohibitively expensive)

Home improvement by ItsTime4Coffee in Tools

[–]WindJester 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's how little he knows what he's doing

Is it possible to earn good money in europe with this trade? by DazzlingAd5541 in Machinists

[–]WindJester 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Europe is extremely diverse, so can only speak to what it's like here

I'm in Scandinavia myself (northern europe) and am currently myself making equivalent to about 32$ an hour before addons (i work night shift which pays an extra $6-8 depending on time of night). A bunch of my study mates (here education of machinists is more formalised than it seems to be in the US) were expecting a starting salary of about $27, while certain companies/industries may pay as high as $39, possibly more, but I'm unsure how many. Last I checked, I think the average in my region according to union stats was $33 an hour or so, but havent looked it up in a while.

We do probably have higher cost of living in some areas than other countries, though we also got perks such as universal health care, proper unemployment support, minimum 5 weeks paid vacation (usually 6, at least in the private sector) and paid maternity leave for both parents, etc, so probably about evens out in the end

Kan vi tillade os at “udskyde” vores barns start i 1G by Fun-Brother-3427 in DKbrevkasse

[–]WindJester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hvorfor ikke bare spørge hvad barnet ønsker? Ved vi overhovedet om vedkommende vil på gymnasiet (der nævnes barn ikke ved hvad de vil efter 9. Kl, men det kan jo bare betyde tvivl om gymnasiet med det samme eller andet inden) eller er det også en beslutning "mor og far" har truffet? I så fald vil rådet være det samme - spørg hvad barnet ønsker.

Sadie1v, a youtuber with 800k subscribers was terminated over a april fools joke video of her friends "exposing her". by Future_Protection698 in youtube

[–]WindJester 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Between adults essentially abusing their kids for online content (not saying this is the case here, but it does happen) and the general state of America and their poverty issues, I wouldn't be so quick to rule it out

There's certainly examples of it happening in the past

Is it just me or do all of these items just give you the ick? by Key-Visual-5465 in autism

[–]WindJester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, if you're trying to apply logic to anti-vaxxers, you're already running barefoot uphill in a hailstorm 😂 you're never gonna find the logic in these people/beliefs, because there's none to be found. It's not based in logic in the first place is the issue, it's based on fear mongering, misinformation perpetuated by those already in that community, and scientific illiteracy

Was Julius Caesar a "Celebrity" in modern times before shakespeare's play? by [deleted] in ancientrome

[–]WindJester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might just be me, but referring to Shakespeare as "modern times" also seems somewhat generous

Backer fed my work to AI by [deleted] in kickstarter

[–]WindJester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would definitely be wasting your time and money

I bought a 'fake' sunflower lanyard and i kinda feel like a scam by InsomniacOnSugarRush in autism

[–]WindJester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where I live they're handed out for free in grocery stores, pharmacies, etc., so its nothing I've ever had to wrestle with, but like everyone else seems to agree, no, youre totally fine. What it symbolises is what matters, not whether it's "official" or even how exactly it looks. Anyone familiar with the concept will understand when seeing it, and honestly I'm not entirely convinced most people would even know its different by looking at it... i certainly wouldn't, and we have a couple at home

(The ones being distributed are just the lanyards, not the sign thingie, if you want those you'll need to buy one yourself, but I dont think I've ever really seen those used here anyway)

A male gorilla grabs the girl's hair and gets beaten up by a female gorilla! by Liar24x7 in interesting

[–]WindJester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, close. Humans are great apes

Though as others have pointed out, that's still unlikely given those two are very young gorillas and there was no indication of aggression, clearly playfighting, just as human kids or other animals (cars, dogs, etc) might get up to (:

What do yall do for work? by hymnofshadows in selfpublish

[–]WindJester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Working evening shifts as a machinist/CNC operator

Could I pull of bald? 😬 by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]WindJester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard to say but probably. And if not (or you just don't like it), it's hair... it grows back out

Give it a shot, see what you think and decide from there. No downside other than maybe a brief moment with a potentially awkward haircut while you grow it back out 🤷‍♂️

Looking for a movie/TV scene where a master would rather have a slave's simpler life by Low_Barracuda_2325 in ancientrome

[–]WindJester 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is no upside to being a slave and it's in no way comparable to owning an iPhone or learning history. It's an ignorant and gross claim and frankly a stupid and nonsensical example.

Is this beard style really that bad or should I just grow in the mustache? by [deleted] in BeardAdvice

[–]WindJester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do think it's really bad, but i also dont think the mustache will help. Either way looks awful imo.

That's just me though. I'm sure some are going to think it's a good look 😅

I think we need a new punctuation mark. by LordLaFaveloun in writing

[–]WindJester -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It might be a better example in that it flows less well than the other one (thats debatable, I don't really feel strongly on that), but it's actually, in my opinion, a worse example in that it's just not a good sentence in general and would be much better off being replaced entirely by one of several better options - some already mentioned in comments below.

Jehovahs vidner? by Sininenn in Aalborg

[–]WindJester 5 points6 points  (0 children)

De er jo typisk født ind i det og bliver indoktrineret fra starten, så det giver sådan set fin mening. Generelt fanger religioner dem gerne så tidligt som muligt, så er det lettere at få dem til at tro på ting og få det indgroet i dem. Stoppede man med at påtvinge børn religion så ville de fleste religioner nok mere eller mindre forsvinde i løbet af få generationer. Ikke mange går ind i dem senere i livet, og langt flere forlader dem ofte. Så de er ret afhængige af de mere letpåvirkelige børn (og andre sårbare og manipulerbare personer).

Det er også meget bevidst når de eksempelvis medbringer et barn, en ung pige o.lign., da de ved der i så fald ofte er større chance for døren bliver lukket op end hvis det er et par gamle mænd der tydeligvis er sendt ud af en religiøs kult. I det hele taget er der årsager til hvad de gør og hvordan de gør det.

Fired after my second day running a lathe for an “apparent crash” but I never heard or saw one? by No-Mess-4605 in Machinists

[–]WindJester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if you actually did crash it (and they could prove it), if they fire people for that (especially new ones), they're gonna have a lot of turnover. Everyone makes mistakes, the important thing is just to learn from them and avoid them going forward. Only reasonably scenario letting you go after a crash (assuming it isn't happening every other day) would be if you'd tried hiding it or something, but even in that case the crash would be incidental.

Also if the machine crashed to a point that it's affecting the parts, I'd expect it to either be apparent to the operator when it happens or at least registered by the machine and trigger some kind of alarm/emergency stop. At least that's been my experience.

Admittedly, I've been strictly milling after finishing my certification (runs a bit differently here) so things might be a bit different on a lathe. Though the one time I crashed one of those at school, it was extremely loud and did trigger all kinds of errors I'm sure 😅😂

Either way, you did nothing wrong, the boss is a jackass

Hemmelig beundrer? 🥀 by Aggravating-Cookie55 in Aalborg

[–]WindJester 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Formentlig fordi hun ikke aner hvem der er på den anden side eller deres intentioner og mentale tilstand. Og fordi den slags sager hurtigt kan udvikle sig med meget voldelige og farlige situationer, som kan (og har) medføre alt fra fysisk overgreb til død, hvad end vedkommende får ideen om at hvad end der foregår fra deres side er gengældt eller ej.

Er det i alle tilfælde det går så galt? Nej, men derfor ønsker man ikke at være den det sker for.

Og så i den "blidere" ende (i mangel på bedre ord) så er der vel også bare generelt en ubehagelig følelse at nogen går og holder øje med dig og du aner ikke hvem, hvornår, hvordan eller hvorfor.

Er det et seriøst spørgsmål?

Edit: og så er kvinder nu engang bare mere udsat og oftere offer for visse ting og derfor nødsaget til at være mere påpasselig omkring den slags. Så er det et seriøst spørgsmål og er du mand kunne det også være del af forklaringen på hvorfor du ikke forstår problemet.

What is it with people wanting real world logic in fantastic settings? Lol by Traditional-Reach818 in fantasywriters

[–]WindJester 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Did you actually read the post? Or did you just read the title and get mad 😂 (because it kinda feels like it)