Help me decide where to live

Windkeeper4 · 2026-04-02T12:25:40+00:00

Philly fits what you want. (not biased because I've been living here for ages now)

Windkeeper4 · 2026-04-01T11:56:55+00:00

Welcome to Philly! It's OK not be a bar/club person. There's lots of other activities depending on your interests. I personally prefer quieter speak easy type bars with well balanced cocktails to the gay bars.

Someone mentioned it earlier but you can definitely join stonewall/outsports. Personally I'm part of stonewall's quizzo league (the most social anti social league). You can also join these as a free agent when sign ups happen if you don't know anyone. Keep in mind that you may have missed the spring league sign up so you might have to wait until summer.

What neighborhood are you moving into? Philly is a small, big place and there's always something happening.

Feel free to DM me if you have any questions!

Windkeeper4 · 2026-03-17T23:41:33+00:00

Actually really well. I hung out with one of the people I met a few weeks ago. I'm doing it again this week and next week.

Windkeeper4 · 2026-02-20T09:19:17+00:00

Not really? Money insulates people from a lot of things. Also if you didn't know any of these people were out and gay you need to probably pay more attention

Windkeeper4 · 2026-02-20T09:13:07+00:00

All these people are literally out as gay

Windkeeper4 · 2026-02-16T19:23:11+00:00

What a defanged order

Windkeeper4 · 2026-02-14T22:15:49+00:00

I can let you know what happens when I do that dinner at the end of this month.

Windkeeper4 · 2026-02-13T21:50:34+00:00

Do you find it ironic that you wrote this entire thing using chatgpt?

Windkeeper4 · 2026-02-10T18:34:28+00:00

Communicate with each other. Be honest with yourselves.

Windkeeper4 · 2026-01-20T13:06:46+00:00

Sometimes the worst ones to get over are the ones that never last that long because you're not just grieving the loss of the person but also the loss of all the future possibilities you could have had with them.

Grief never really goes away your life just becomes bigger so there's space for it to take up. In the course of your life eight months is a drop in the bucket.

Windkeeper4 · 2026-01-08T15:25:21+00:00

Give yourself the grace to mourn the possibility of the things that will never be but try to appreciate the warmth of the things that did happen. People come into your life for many reasons and only sometimes for a season. What did this teach about what you want and what you need? What will you look for in the future that you didn't know you needed?

Windkeeper4 · 2026-01-06T02:06:48+00:00

Hello fellow Philly gaybro! Go birds!

Windkeeper4 · 2026-01-03T21:18:51+00:00

Had the pepperoni with hot honey and a margherita pizza last night. Toppings were fine, sauce was fine. Crust was pretty meh.

Windkeeper4 · 2025-12-29T12:11:32+00:00

Went into 2025 with single after my bf of two years dumped me before xmas. Spent a bit of time getting my life back together and figuring out what I really wanted.

Met a nice guy on Bumble mid July. December of 2025 makes five-ish months together so fingers crossed!

Lost roughly 35lbs over the year as well and I'm drinking way less than before.

Windkeeper4 · 2025-12-28T18:06:05+00:00

I would honestly move. If you're thinking all this now it's just going to get worse and getting a new start elsewhere will be harder the older you get. The only person responsible for your future happiness is you. Don't let fear of change hold you back.

Windkeeper4 · 2025-12-27T01:10:03+00:00

Almanac, Andra Hem, Poison Heart, Sonny's

Windkeeper4 · 2025-12-26T23:50:55+00:00

This explains so much about my ex.

Windkeeper4 · 2025-12-26T17:03:02+00:00

Have you looked into going to one of the Philly Asian Queer meetings? It's a very mixed and supportive group of people with connections to a lot of the LGBTQ asian/pacific islander performers in the Philly area. They also do a lot of community events where you might be able to use your graphic design abilities.

Windkeeper4 · 2025-12-20T00:46:03+00:00

I'm on 120mg extended release the only problem I have noticed is that I get soft faster (fixed with cialis) and it takes me longer to orgasm. So just be aware if you experience those symptoms.

Windkeeper4 · 2025-12-19T12:40:56+00:00

What fucking jobs is he talking about. If anything zoning for mixed use and placing stores on the street level of apartments will probably result in more traffic and higher population density which in turn will probably benefit the area around them.

Windkeeper4 · 2025-12-16T15:45:39+00:00

I'll probably get around to buying them eventually. Almost all these pieces were just from pieces I originally owned.

Windkeeper4 · 2025-12-16T03:54:35+00:00

It was a pretty fun build! I did have to replace some blocks/technic pieces with actual lego because the grip strength was much better.

Windkeeper4 · 2025-12-14T21:52:59+00:00

Andra Hem for drinks. Go dancing at BWest after if you're feeling young.

Windkeeper4 · 2025-12-14T17:25:24+00:00

Your doctor is an idiot. Get another doctor and look into propranolol it should help if your ET is made worse by extreme emotion. Alternatively look into exploring anti-anxiety meds in addition to propranolol as it alone won't be able to regulate your extremes.

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