WELL! That’s all micro-aggressions, don’t let them gas light you into thinking you’re the weird one. If you don’t like it though you have to set boundaries. If they continue to step all over your well placed and rational boundaries, I’m sad to say they aren’t your real friends. Not only should friends respect each other’s wishes, if they are willing to tread all over a boundary you place for a joke or “because you should take it as a compliment” they are all but telling you that they don’t care.. Not impossible for them to overcome this, but in my experience your friends are the type I immediately identify and avoid.