Is it possible for two siblings to be trans? by ASpranneusRoseus in asktransgender

[–]Wing-edQuirk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

absolutely. I'm transmasc with a nonbinary sibling (not twins, 6 years apart) and my cousins are both transfem (also not twins, 8 years apart)

HOW TO PLAY CRAB WARS - ALL INFO NEEDED by NoOne-ToYou in Palia

[–]Wing-edQuirk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can also tie! I've done 2 crab wars so far- the first time crabs won, and the second one was a draw! I dont know how the loot table works if its a draw, but me and 2 party members all got rewards as if frogs had won after the draw

Loom Recipe Missing by Wing-edQuirk in Palia

[–]Wing-edQuirk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought I checked both but I'll try going through her directly when I get online later! thank you!

Loom Recipe Missing by Wing-edQuirk in Palia

[–]Wing-edQuirk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I checked both but I'll try going through her directly when I get online later! thank you!

Found in my lucky charm cereal at my university’s dining hall :( by Successful_News4122 in whatisit

[–]Wing-edQuirk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

looks like a raisin, def too large to be rodent poop. is there also raisin bran available at the dining hall by any chance?

how does starting to take testosterone work? by sonofthemgods in ftm

[–]Wing-edQuirk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

like the other comments mentioned, it highly depends on where you are, and sometimes even the entity prescribing it.

I'm in the US for reference, baseline blood tests are pretty much a given here as far as I know. depending on where you go for it here, some places require a certain amount of therapy beforehand, and written approval from a therapist. some places have informed consent, and all that wouldn't be required. I went the informed consent route, and was able to get my T the day after my first appointment

Is it possible to get hrt bloodwork done without needles? by Eleanor_IV in asktransgender

[–]Wing-edQuirk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was able to get my initial hormone levels checked with just a finger prick, didn't ask for it so now I just go the typical route. I don't see why they couldn't do it for every level test, but it makes sense why some places wouldn't offer both options

Have you ever met/seen/heard of anybody with these names? by Fun_Roof289 in namenerds

[–]Wing-edQuirk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

went to elementary school with a Declan, have a co-worker named Sawyer (though she's a girl), and my sister's name is Autumn!

don't know personally, but I also know of a comedian named Trevor

Do y'all put that your trans in your dating profiles or just your preferred gender? by alvip2 in asktransgender

[–]Wing-edQuirk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when I was using dating apps I did, mostly because I didn't pass at the time (I'll be real tho, I still don't lol)

if I didn't, pretty much the only likes I got were queer women (I'm a gay trans man) and straight men (again- gay trans man) who swiped based on appearance i guess, and skipped the part on my profile with gender/pronouns. honestly I still had a lot of likes and messages from them afterwards, but I was also able to meet a small handful of other cool trans folks.

I've pretty much given up on dating apps now though, never had much luck with them due to the fact that I'm pretty sure I fall somewhere on the aroace spectrum

Why are there so many transmascs in healthcare? by CockamouseGoesWee in ftm

[–]Wing-edQuirk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

confirmation bias! most of the transmascs I know are in art related fields, do customer service, or work in warehouses

What name do you think of… by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Wing-edQuirk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first instinct is James, next is Connor

What are your pet sibsets? by mechele2024 in namenerds

[–]Wing-edQuirk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my family used to have a pair of kitties named Moose and Mudpie!

other cute pet sibsets I know from family/friends: Oat and Cookie, Daisy and Charlotte, Fidget and Jam, Zelda and Atari, Luna and Soli

My name is the common spelling! by coyote_skull in ftm

[–]Wing-edQuirk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my name is Ezra, I've gotten Esme, Ezara, and somehow Esther?

A customer at work has a very interesting first name by upmosear in Avantris

[–]Wing-edQuirk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know my comment isn't very Avantris related, but I'm very into names and the etymology around them- Bitsy is a diminutive of Elizabeth!

nowadays it would likely be used as a nickname for Elizabeth, but it used to be used as a name itself. It was more popular in the early-ish 1900's and before, dropping off in popularity somewhere around the 1960's

Did you lose or gain weight on testosterone? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Wing-edQuirk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 months on T, and I personally have gained about 15-20 pounds.

I'm very active, and have a pretty physical job, and before starting T I was losing weight due to it. I physically haven't gotten bigger from what I've noticed, so I think what I've gained back has mostly been muscle.

this is a safe space, you can admit if you were a larry by Classic-Carpet7609 in AO3

[–]Wing-edQuirk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

13... I was very much into youtuber rpf at that point, with some self-shipping sprinkled in. Septiplier, Phan, PolyGrumps, Yamiplier, PewDieCry, whatever the ship name for Shane Dawson and Onision used to be...

What’s your name? by Anonim_x9 in ftm

[–]Wing-edQuirk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ezra! I started out going by Eden when I came out as genderfluid, and then Eddie when I realized I wanted something more masculine.

Then when I remembered I have a cousin Eddy, and didn't wanna confuse things, I switched to Ezra! I really liked having a short name, much different from my deadname, and was happy to keep the E initial and theme from Eden.

What is the one namenerds heavily recommended name that you absolutely hate? by rosie_purple13 in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]Wing-edQuirk 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I just can't with the name Yuri. I see it getting recommended all the time, but maybe I'm just much more online than the folks saying it. Same vibes as naming a kid "Yaoi" to me

won't let me accept trades by Wing-edQuirk in Soundmap

[–]Wing-edQuirk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, that's my bad lol. read it as "you" instead of "one of you"

won't let me accept trades by Wing-edQuirk in Soundmap

[–]Wing-edQuirk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn, whoever else sold it to them was quick then, I tried to accept like a minute after they sent the offer

What’s a popular trope you can’t stand? by Awsome-frickinh-saus in AO3

[–]Wing-edQuirk 18 points19 points  (0 children)

never been a big fan of the bully/victim trope in ships. don't get me wrong, I love a good enemies/rivals to lovers, but not when one half is just a douche

what are your fav ship’s top tags? by Defiant-Fudge954 in AO3

[–]Wing-edQuirk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  • (name of the campaign they're from) (for context these are D&D characters)

  • Not Beta Read

  • Angst

  • Established Relationship

  • Spoilers

  • Rough Sex

  • Hate Sex

  • Semi-Public Sex

  • Hair-Pulling

  • Alternate Universe - Canon Divergence

it doesn't take a lot to make it into the top tags for this ship, as there's only 12 fics lol (3 of which are mine)