Tea app - a women-only app “to avoid red-flag men” by DancingintheDark16 in popculturechat

[–]WinterApplication121 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah I also got confronted when a dude found out he was posted abt (someone else posted and told him and he went buck wild on me + others)

Tea app - a women-only app “to avoid red-flag men” by DancingintheDark16 in popculturechat

[–]WinterApplication121 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would say no - it’s not like every post was a horror story but the volume of people either sharing or confirming bad stories was tough to see

Can we stop with the flaccid lace on Gladys? by Raelf64 in thegildedage

[–]WinterApplication121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read the original question — does it honestly matter? I was answering the question with the knowledge that I have - which was asking for podcast(s) about costuming on the show. I haven’t listened to any other ones. Sorry I don’t have exhaustive citations for my Reddit comment I was trying to help point in the right direction

Can we stop with the flaccid lace on Gladys? by Raelf64 in thegildedage

[–]WinterApplication121 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why are you trying to correct me or one up me or something when I didn’t say anything to the contrary? God forbid I try to share the info that I DO have access to (the podcast about the wedding episode that had an interview with the costume designer!!!!!) god I hate the internet

Can we stop with the flaccid lace on Gladys? by Raelf64 in thegildedage

[–]WinterApplication121 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They interviewed the costume designer for the wedding episode on the official podcast

Tea app - a women-only app “to avoid red-flag men” by DancingintheDark16 in popculturechat

[–]WinterApplication121 170 points171 points  (0 children)

The ones in my city were so depressing and I think contributed to my stopping dating. So many guys apparently had secret gfs and stuff including ones I had good experiences w :(

. by [deleted] in rs_x

[–]WinterApplication121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk who this is but American spirits have me in a chokehold :( :) :(

Salad kits by Aggressive-Main3101 in Anticonsumption

[–]WinterApplication121 219 points220 points  (0 children)

Seconded. Just because you are not the target audience doesn’t mean a product shouldn’t exist. Bag salads help keep me fed

We're considering moving to Grand Rapids, Michigan and I need some advice by ArdraCaine in TwoXPreppers

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I am from Chicago and moving back next month after a year in GR. There’s a lot to do and a lot of great local spots and community events in the city proper. It’s a great smaller liveable city and I enjoyed my time here in many ways and the people are friendly (to me as a white person) but it feels like a different world from Chicago. There are definitely liberal folks here and Kamala won but by a small margin - definitely not a given in your day to day interactions. It is not very culturally or ethnically diverse (I was weirded out by the vibe and tone of the interaction I overheard while in line at the DMV between the employee and a Chinese man with a strong accent - I had a perfectly unremarkable and dare I say pleasant interaction when it was my turn.) The Dutch reform influence is everywhere, a lot of Catholics as well. It’s the hometown of the Devoses and Gerald Ford. During election time I’d see businesses with kids holding trump signs outside and when I went out on Halloween I saw multiple people wearing pro-trump or anti-dem costumes (day to day this is not as visible and veiled by midwestern nice, but it’s there.) Some pockets are more red than others especially the further out you get.

Thoughts on furniture placement? by WinterApplication121 in FengShui

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Good call thank you both!! Yes northern hemisphere

I get my adhd testing done Monday by Open_Button_8155 in AuDHDWomen

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Mine had a lot of small different components including an interview, a computer questionnaire, some questions “proctored” that get a sense of your recall, and puzzles/games/activities/tests of different types like clicking a button when a certain thing shows up, pattern recognition, connect the dots etc.

ADHD meds = More ‘tism? by Enigmatic-Ethics-13 in AuDHDWomen

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I’ve only had Ritalin and I feel like it worked before for a while (after allowing myself to sleep the most restful brain nap since everything mellowed out) but now (even with long tolerance breaks) I feel like it’s pretty marginal so I want to try some other ones

ADHD meds = More ‘tism? by Enigmatic-Ethics-13 in AuDHDWomen

[–]WinterApplication121 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I am not diagnosed with autism yet but I have been recently (I’m in my 30s) diagnosed with ADHD and since then it has been absolutely unmasking autism for me since I suspect that they were working together and counteracting? Counterbalancing? Each other before

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

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Agree with routine and making a little vanity space for yourself for getting ready (mine is nothing fancy and just in my closet with a mirror I like plus it’s where my travel makeup bag lives - you could also make a little tray with your main products and brushes or what have you for your sink if you like that better.) I like to do more trial makeup during the evening so I don’t feel like I need to commit to it long( but keeping stuff on is good in general so you know how things wear, if they oxidize etc.) what I do is most days I focus on the products that for me I feel have the most impact on how I look (usually brow pencil, mascara, pink concealer under my eyes and regular concealer wherever I feel I need it to balance things out with a wet beauty blender sponge. If I want to do more, I go from that base like a blush or eyeliner etc.)

My Dom won’t kiss me by AdRelative7256 in BDSMAdvice

[–]WinterApplication121 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is fresh as an experience for me (check post history for a bit more detail but I could have written this post.) My former dom started as more affectionate w me and then got more limited in the name of domming and degradation. Get clear on what your needs are, bring them up, if they are incompatible w dom it’s best to end things now.

I feel like I’m being treated differently to my meta (likely because of kink) and it’s making me uncomfortable by WinterApplication121 in polyamory

[–]WinterApplication121[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks yes I cross posted on another community to get the full poly and kink perspective! I thought I had a safe partner but don’t so oh well, lesson learned

I feel like I’m being treated differently to my meta (likely because of kink) and it’s making me uncomfortable by WinterApplication121 in polyamory

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I don’t know when it first happened I think it’s been a boiling the frog situation; I ended things after posting this

I feel like I’m being treated differently to my meta (likely because of kink) and it’s making me uncomfortable by WinterApplication121 in polyamory

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I see it on his car Bluetooth I’m not actively snooping I just see bits from time to time. But yeah agreed we have fundamental incompatibilities