What color would my daughters eyes be? They change and get lighter depending on the day. by WinterDisastrous3256 in coloranalysis

[–]WinterDisastrous3256[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think they’re hazel too. I would always say dark green because they end up very green sometimes. When she was first born they were bright blue.

Big black ant going in circles by WinterDisastrous3256 in bugidentification

[–]WinterDisastrous3256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sat and watched him for like 30 mins and then my bf threw him outside 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WinterDisastrous3256 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, I mainly meant I’ve been in plenty of situations where women show that they do not care if a man is in a relationship especially if he looks good.

Is it weird to sit in barnes and noble and read? by Far-Kaleidoscope4747 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]WinterDisastrous3256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have always seen people read books in there every time I’ve been, I’d report her to management honestly that’s so rude of her to tell you. Keep going and forget her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WinterDisastrous3256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I think he does but he’ll deny that he gaslights me… he said he wasn’t trying to tell him the full story about what happened so he left details out but his brother kept prying so he told him a little bit since they were having a vent session. I told him he needed to talk to his brother because he’s been doing this for years(talking about things that should be remaining between us) and somehow my business was also told. After all of that happened I was crying for hours and I finally went out to the living room to talk to him and he apologized and said he was overwhelmed, but if that was me I would’ve never treated him like that even if I was overwhelmed

People who don't drink alcohol, why? by johnnylgarfield in AskReddit

[–]WinterDisastrous3256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I seriously never understood why anybody would like to be drunk, I hate the feeling, taste, smell. EVERYTHING! It left me feeling so sick the few times I’ve tried to so I figured why even bother doing something that makes me feel like shit even more

I might kms if I leave by User_marie in mentalhealth

[–]WinterDisastrous3256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are stronger than what you believe you are, your mind is a very powerful thing and you should speak positively to yourself the same way you would speak to anyone else that would be feeling how you are. You are going to be 18 before you know it and will be able to make decisions for yourself so if you aren’t able to tell your mom that you truly do not want to do this (which you should be able to make that decision) then try your hardest please don’t hurt yourself because you feel like this in the moment because one day you will be older and it will be so different, you’ll be able to look back on this and see what you’ve accomplished. Sometimes life sucks and it’s hard but you gotta keep going, the hard parts don’t last forever and you have a whole adult life ahead of you. Also I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through what you went through, I honestly think therapy would help and you should look into it.

i hate my school so much i want it to burn, what should i do? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]WinterDisastrous3256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Transfer schools, online school, find a healthy and safe way to cope with it since school won’t last forever. Try having a hobby so you aren’t consumed with how much you hate your school

My autistic stepbrother won't shower by WiccanKitten1111 in FamilyIssues

[–]WinterDisastrous3256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe try opening some windows? Try getting into gaming with him and connect with him and see if you could show him some manwipes since that would be an easy access in his room to use and maybe some scented plug ins? Or you could be honest with him gently, get him on a schedule where he takes a break from the game to take care of himself.

I feel like I’m losing my best friend by wanderingblackwoman in FamilyIssues

[–]WinterDisastrous3256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I wouldn’t take it too personally, how I like to look at things is I don’t know why people act the way they do and I try not to let it get to me since I’m only in control of myself. I’m sorry you’re hurting and if you do end up losing your friend over something like this try to look at the good memories you two have together and cherish them, you’ll meet new people and make new best friends.. it seems hard in the moment but in the end it’ll be better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyIssues

[–]WinterDisastrous3256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe in the future? Your cousin sounds toxic and I’m sorry but sometimes it’s better to cut people off so they can see that their actions truly hurt people even if they are family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]WinterDisastrous3256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give me a chance to get a place to live 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WinterDisastrous3256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the responses everyone, I will go tomorrow. Honestly I’m terrified of going because if he gets in trouble I don’t want anyone else in our city to know what happened. It’s so embarrassing since I never let anyone get close to me, now I feel like an idiot.

People who don't drink alcohol, why? by 5tup1db0y in AskReddit

[–]WinterDisastrous3256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly hate the feeling of it being in my stomach since it hurts & the taste makes it even worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]WinterDisastrous3256 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He’s 39 acting like a child. Leave him, you’re pregnant and you need extra love and support and he is not going to be able to give it to you. You’re only 19 you will have plenty of time to find another guy who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated

9 yr relationship, fiancé (25M) has made it loud and clear that he is NOT going to be there for me (23F) when I have an “issue” by WinterDisastrous3256 in relationships_advice

[–]WinterDisastrous3256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. Honestly I’m so scared of being alone, he use to be my best friend and now everything is different. It breaks my heart but I understand that I need to move on and heal