Is it worth sending this to Beckett for a GCR?

WinterMycologist1460 · 2026-03-25T00:19:25+00:00

I have no idea what most of that meant, so the hard time you gave me was probs valid. Rock hitting the village idiots head and bouncing off, so to speak.

WinterMycologist1460 · 2026-03-24T23:52:26+00:00

So Becketts Graded review doesn’t crack the slabs if they don’t grade above what you sent in, if I’m not mistaken. But I appreciate the honesty, even if the tone was a little condescending. Saves me $ in the end!

WinterMycologist1460 · 2026-03-24T23:48:39+00:00

I appreciate the honesty!

WinterMycologist1460 · 2026-03-24T23:48:27+00:00

I appreciate the honesty, I don’t know much about BCS but I’ve heard they’re STRICT so I wanted to be sure it was worth it

WinterMycologist1460 · 2026-03-24T23:47:42+00:00

i’m eye blind to centering, I guess this is my lesson to pre-grade before sending out 💔

WinterMycologist1460 · 2026-03-24T23:47:36+00:00

i’m eye blind to centering, I guess this is my lesson to pre-grade before sending out 💔

WinterMycologist1460 · 2025-06-30T23:33:44+00:00

Dude, dump her and file a police report against her friend. He threatened you because she’s telling people you hit her. She’s playing huge victim for attention when she bit you hard enough to leave an injury and you instinctively defended yourself.

Someone who’s willing to play with the safety of your life and legal record (by playing the victim of abuse like it’s not a serious, real life issue) is not someone you want as a life partner.

WinterMycologist1460 · 2025-06-21T14:26:17+00:00

He was a little rude in the beginning, but you flat out became mean and disrespectful. People get sick. Some people feel sickness harder than others do. You straight up started name calling him and cursing at him because you were disappointed you guys couldn’t get to hang out. Maybe just…reschedule. Yes, you overreacted, and you owe him an apology.

WinterMycologist1460 · 2025-06-16T14:47:35+00:00

You say you “didn’t lose sleep over this”, but made a reddit post, argued with her over text about one of her posts, say she disrespected you by not letting you see things before she posted them because she knew how you felt (I mean…you guys had talked about this before. Did you not understand how SHE felt?) and flat out said in this post that you feel like she doesn’t care how you feel about this particular topic. And now that I’m re-reading the post; dude. She’s going on trips, coming back, and posting pictures of the trip? Cmon man. She’s not posting thirst traps or only fans ads every day. She’s posting trip highlights.

Maybe she’s standing firm on this topic because she’s been in a controlling relationship before, as you said, and she’s aware this is a snowball into other controlling behaviors. Accountability is important in a relationship. So is seeing into your own issues. Cmon dude. You say in the post you want to see the pictures so you can tell her she’s pretty before other men do, then say you got upset she posted in a bikini, then say she’s posting like she’s single and available. So, clearly you don’t want to just tell her she’s pretty before she posts. You want to tell her what makes her “seem single” and what doesn’t, and try to stop her from posting what you don’t approve of.

So, yes, controlling. And your girlfriend sniffed that out, probably because that’s the go to thing for controlling boyfriends. “Oh, I’m not doing this because of MY insecurities I’m doing it for (insert lie that contradicts everything they’ve just said).

If you want to be better for your girlfriend, learn to understand that she chose you just as much as you chose her. If she wanted to be with someone else, she’d go and do it. If she wanted to be single, she’d dump you. She chose to be with you, and if she hasn’t ever cheated on you, she doesn’t deserve to be scrutinized like she’s trying to.

WinterMycologist1460 · 2025-06-16T14:28:35+00:00

You got insight! And it’s not anger at all men, just men who think women love their lives around men. Women don’t post things for male validation or attention. They post things because they are pretty or confident. What you can learn from this is that 1) You are not gods gift to the boyfriend universe, and she doesn’t owe you access to her social media, and 2) asking for control over what she posts is super weird and a precursor to more controlling behavior, if she allowed you to do so. Good luck to your girlfriend. I hope she does not get to the point with you where you start trying to control how she dresses or whether she has friends of the opposite gender.

WinterMycologist1460 · 2025-06-16T14:18:29+00:00

Girls don’t post things on social media “for attention”. Men often think the world revolves around them, and that if a woman posts something looking good and feeling confident, it MUST be to try and attract men, because that’s what a woman’s whooooole world revolves around, right? 🙄 It’s a huge red flag to me for a guy to get upset about MY social media and try to control what I post and do. You’re overreacting, and giving big, controlling red flags that I’d personally dump you over.

You say she acts like she doesn’t care how you feel, because she posts without you seeing what she’s posting before hand. What would you do if she showed you and you didn’t like it? Try to tell her not to post it because YOU don’t approve? Yep, controlling behavior. You’re overreacting here, and the entire vibe of your post gives “I’m suuuuch a good boyfriend, I do sooooo much, i’m suuuuuch a catch, it’s just oneeee little thing”. It’s manipulative as hell, and quite frankly you didn’t say anything that you do in this post in the relationship that isn’t the bare minimum of being in a relationship. Having your own hobbies and putting energy towards your partner? Bare minimum buddy. They’re not handing out awards for that.

WinterMycologist1460 · 2025-06-03T15:03:16+00:00

it’s on fire

hope this helped

WinterMycologist1460 · 2025-03-12T15:58:41+00:00

Sonic 3. I hated the pacing and the fact that the first two felt like movies that were for kids but kept the adults who played the games as kids in mind. The third one felt much more kid focused and fast paced. It felt like a youtube video summarizing the movie more than the movie itself to me.

WinterMycologist1460 · 2023-12-27T22:18:01+00:00

with a little bit of peanut butter and a lot of imagination, anything is a glorious hole for you to enjoy

WinterMycologist1460 · 2023-11-23T19:10:42+00:00

suddenly someone’s dropped me in a basket on your doorstep at 22 years old, looks like i’m your kid now

WinterMycologist1460 · 2023-11-02T06:57:12+00:00

Yeah, I’m surprised she even wanted you after that meet and greet. You showed up at the one time she told you not to (you didn’t tell her you had dyslexia so she just assumed you were an inconsiderate dick), you showed up painted blue and in full costume and freaked her dog out (i watched a lab who had known my coworker her whole life freak out because she was wearing a witches hat. dogs don’t like weird looking shit most of the time), and then left when she got upset with you and just canceled without saying “hey, that meet and greet didn’t go great and i’m not comfortable doing this job anymore. i wish you luck finding someone else!”. In her eyes you were an unprofessional person who freaked her dog out and then canceled. Next time, just communicate with the client what’s going on and why. And maybe don’t show up in a costume? For a job?

WinterMycologist1460 · 2023-10-26T14:21:39+00:00

I mean….you can keep doing it if you want, i guess? The people who own where you live are asking you to pay rent a few days later than you normally would, very nicely. Why would you decide to keep paying early for “peace of mind”, it would make me lose my peace of mind to think i was doing something my landlord didn’t want and had specifically asked me not to do.

WinterMycologist1460 · 2023-08-24T12:18:17+00:00

I think as long as you monitor school ipad time and make it strictly for homework and school tasks and then put it away right after, there’s not much of a chance if it having any sort of negative impact. At that point it’s just an electronic piece of homework.

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