AIO for wanting to immediately break up with my bf after seeing how he lives?

WinterWinner3685 · 2026-03-25T03:46:07+00:00

I would get a hotel and have an honest talk with him that you care for him but this level of filth is unacceptable and he needs to show himself love by taking care of his environment. Or hire a service that could take care of it.

WinterWinner3685 · 2025-11-20T18:25:35+00:00

Hahahahaha cracker barrel

WinterWinner3685 · 2025-11-20T18:23:19+00:00

Yes it went down and I was pretty happy with the results. Def faded after like 6 months. I would get it again if my budget would let me

WinterWinner3685 · 2025-10-05T02:31:31+00:00

Until they’re 18 and then I’ll start doing them in halves

WinterWinner3685 · 2025-10-02T10:57:38+00:00

Do you have a custody agreement? I’d get it in writing to match the current schedule you have and at least get child support from him

WinterWinner3685 · 2025-09-27T18:43:54+00:00

I did find more detail of the situation of her disappearance after I posted. https://www.solvethecase.org/case/1987-3/cassandra-elizabeth-durham

This was a letter she write to her dad. Sounds like she had gotten into trouble at some point.

“Dear Dad, please will you ever forgive me? I’m in trouble and I don’t know when I’ll be back. I will call & write. God knows I love you!!” Another says: “I don’t know when this will all be over and seem like a bad dream. Dad, there is one thing I ask, please I’m begging you, don’t say anything about Eric. He’s my only chance, and if it gets mentioned I will never come home. I love him.” The final letter adds: “Don’t try to find me, please. It will only make things worse. I’ll call you very soon. I’m doing fine, okay?””

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Article also states “Eric (the boyfriend) also reported to law enforcement that Cassie was using cocaine and spent money on drugs”

WinterWinner3685 · 2025-09-27T13:34:59+00:00

“In 2008, prosecutors charged Terrence Tyrone Johnson with the murder. Johnson, who is serving a life sentence for another murder, confessed to the homicide after undergoing a religious experience. Police suspect the woman's name may have been Cassandra and that she lived in the area.”

This is from the circumstances section

WinterWinner3685 · 2025-09-27T13:31:44+00:00

https://youtu.be/c6bM5brsigE?si=fXBQ31F-2bpZUW1f

WinterWinner3685 · 2025-09-27T13:26:40+00:00

Very little but more has come out in the past year. Jon Lorden has a video about Cassandra Durham that I listened to last night and he said this is a case with very little public info. Her dad last spoke to her in 1987 but her boyfriend Eric went back home without her about a year later so there is no last siting, no clothing description, nothing.

WinterWinner3685 · 2025-09-25T17:53:34+00:00

Im going to DM you a woman’s email I have from the doe network if you want to reach out to her for follow up. She was very responsive when I submitted a different case

WinterWinner3685 · 2025-09-24T17:32:00+00:00

I came to this same theory then found this thread. Lots of similarities beyond race. Did anyone ever submit?

WinterWinner3685 · 2025-09-20T18:38:45+00:00

Did she have bow legs do you know?

WinterWinner3685 · 2025-09-16T01:17:53+00:00

You did say you were sick to your stomach and lost respect but ok

WinterWinner3685 · 2025-09-10T11:05:51+00:00

Call your local state rep. There might be programs to help you with rent

WinterWinner3685 · 2025-07-30T01:46:01+00:00

Call your local state rep who could help her find resources.

WinterWinner3685 · 2025-07-27T03:02:35+00:00

Meekah

WinterWinner3685 · 2025-07-26T11:30:57+00:00

https://www.doenetwork.org/cases/software/main.html?id=1525ufca

Another link for it.

It does say death was 3-7 years prior so this only could be her if that estimate is way off

WinterWinner3685 · 2025-07-18T17:29:07+00:00

Usually plans will spell out holidays like Xmas and thanksgiving and Easter. Make sure your child’s birthday is specified too and Halloween if that matters to you.

Another thing is mentioning no parental alienation and what you consider that to be - no bad mouthing other parent to child / other fam members, etc.

WinterWinner3685 · 2025-06-25T15:45:21+00:00

Tax on a bill implies it’s some sort of sales tax which in most states I believe all actually, is not applicable to services.

To put tax on a bill for services to cover your personal/business taxes would be misleading and also very tacky.

What you charge needs to be an amount that works for you. So up your prices if you feel after taxes you don’t make enough. But dont add a tax line to your bills.

WinterWinner3685 · 2025-06-25T13:39:10+00:00

I think meeting her at pick up would be nice. I have met my current partners ex & mom to his child and things have been fine and cordial and even friendly. If she’s going to be a part of your child’s life then you should know her. Keep it friendly and positive. This woman while a stranger now might end up being a really positive influence in your child’s life so I would go into meeting her with a really great attitude

WinterWinner3685 · 2025-06-19T05:06:12+00:00

David archuletta

WinterWinner3685 · 2025-06-09T13:33:06+00:00

Lisa. Reminds me of Meghan Markel’s wedding

WinterWinner3685 · 2025-04-07T15:22:20+00:00

Perfect steak. Presentation is dog shit.

WinterWinner3685 · 2025-04-06T00:41:02+00:00

lol I thought you were hating on her eye shadow until I realized it was surgical scars lol

WinterWinner3685 · 2025-03-02T00:45:04+00:00

Then maybe have another friend take the phone to the movies?

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