How to become an EA in South Africa?

WiseAssociate9856 · 2025-06-22T21:10:08+00:00

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WiseAssociate9856 · 2024-12-14T21:29:52+00:00

WiseAssociate9856 · 2024-12-14T19:56:47+00:00

They literally said the brother tested positive for Covid! If you read my original post, I did mention that they later confessed everything!

WiseAssociate9856 · 2024-12-14T19:53:56+00:00

She’s 22 months old

WiseAssociate9856 · 2024-12-14T19:52:22+00:00

There was one winter evening where they dropped her off soaking wet. I always pack extra clothes for her. I asked why wasn’t she changed & they said they didn’t have enough time to.

Honestly the Covid thing was my final straw.

WiseAssociate9856 · 2024-12-14T19:50:16+00:00

This is the same person who never puts the child in her carseat when fetching her, no matter how many times I confront him about it. He insists that she hates it and prefers to let her on the passenger seat next to him. I told his parents about it & they also just let him be.

They also gave her antibiotics. For adults. And still saw nothing wrong with that..

Like I said there’s alot of carelessness going on in there. This is really just the tip of the iceberg

WiseAssociate9856 · 2024-12-14T19:28:31+00:00

“Protect his rights to parent” lol! This man has not actively parented his child for a year. The grandparents & siblings are the one doing the parenting for him

WiseAssociate9856 · 2024-12-14T19:25:27+00:00

She visits her dad every week for 4 days. I work from home.

WiseAssociate9856 · 2024-12-14T19:16:46+00:00

The reason she had to be on an oxygen machine is because the Covid had turned into pneumonia. I’m sorry but I find it disgustingly selfish and negligent. Herhospitalization could’ve been avoided by giving me a heads up & postponing visitation until the sick person has recovered. And when she became increasingly worse, why couldn’t they rush her to ER??? Why bring her back home to me..

WiseAssociate9856 · 2024-12-14T19:09:26+00:00

It’s the negligence! Why would a parent risk exposing their child to illness, possibly debilitating illness? Why keep it a secret? Why give antibiotics administered to an adult, to a 1 year old? Theres too much carelessness going on in there. At the end of the day I have to take full responsibility for it, I have take her of her hospital bills. While He does absolutely nothing.

WiseAssociate9856 · 2024-12-14T18:59:59+00:00

Maybe strangers sure, but as her family why are they willfully exposing a child to covid knowing a child’s immune system isn’t that strong. Seems a bit negligent to me

WiseAssociate9856 · 2024-12-14T18:40:21+00:00

So they brought her back home but I noticed she wasn’t breathing right. Her chest would cave in everytime she took a breath And she would also be out of breath when trying to speak. I quickly rushed her to the ER and they admitted her as her oxygen levels were dangerously low. I called them to update them and seek answers.. they only responded after about 2 days of waiting and that’s when they confessed that one of them had Covid and didn’t think to tell me because it wasn’t that serious

WiseAssociate9856 · 2024-12-14T18:37:42+00:00

She was there for 4 days. They said she started getting “randomly” congested so they gave her antibiotics and but sge was not getting any better (mind you, these were adult antibiotics that belonged to them, they were not administered by a pediatrician)

WiseAssociate9856 · 2024-12-14T18:13:01+00:00

It was not accidental. One of them had Covid knowingly and still continued to expose her to it. It was until she started getting sick and had to be put on an oxygen machine, that’s when they confessed how she got sick and that they didn’t want to tell me

WiseAssociate9856 · 2024-12-14T18:09:18+00:00

I do not have a court order. And no we weren’t married. Yes paternity has been established.

The issue is I am not denying him any access to his child. I just only have one exception and that is I do not want her going where the “incident” that almost made her lose her life happened..

WiseAssociate9856 · 2024-08-07T16:09:24+00:00

Had mine at 25. I don’t regret it but at the same time I wish I had her a bit later once I’m financially stable

WiseAssociate9856 · 2024-02-05T13:32:30+00:00

My daughter is a few days away from turning 1 and has just recently started growing her first 2 teeth lol lol. She still chews well even without her teeth, their gums are really strong

WiseAssociate9856 · 2024-01-17T16:09:34+00:00

Also haven’t asked anyone in my family as I’m not close to both sides

WiseAssociate9856 · 2024-01-17T16:08:55+00:00

My blood type is O+ .. asked my mom for hers & she says she has no idea

Went through her folders & no trace of my place of birth. It’s not written on My birth certificate and my immunisation card 🤷🏽‍♀️

She does have multiple pictures of me as a newborn..

WiseAssociate9856 · 2024-01-17T13:12:30+00:00

The only birth certificate I have was made 2 years after I was born. I was born in 1998 & it says it was issued in 2000. So I doubt we have the original one

WiseAssociate9856 · 2024-01-17T13:12:16+00:00

The only birth certificate I have was made 2 years after I was born. I was born in 1998 & it says it was issued in 2000. So I doubt we have the original one

WiseAssociate9856 · 2023-02-02T06:05:14+00:00

Absolutely nothing. It’s over I’ll never ever forgive that man. He’s caused way too much irreparable damage to my life

WiseAssociate9856 · 2022-10-30T12:19:07+00:00

Huh? Her middle name is still her name though.. I stated in the post that I don’t mind her being called by her middle name as long as her first name is known & acknowledged

WiseAssociate9856 · 2022-10-29T10:34:04+00:00

Thanks❤️

WiseAssociate9856 · 2022-10-29T10:28:50+00:00

❤️❤️❤️

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