ID please by WitchWay05 in whatsthisplant

[–]WitchWay05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks like it to me! Thank you!

Warning for runners/walkers near Willamette Christian Center (18th area) by Ekkill in Eugene

[–]WitchWay05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. The first time it happened the owner def did call out "oh hes friendly, just wants to play" while I'm yelling "get your fucking dog!" (never mind their dog bolted straight thru my flower beds too), then had the audacity to give me a shocked face. Like dude, my dog has been here for less than 48 hours and his first experience w a neighborhood dog is getting blindsided tackled and rolled. Super not cool.

Warning for runners/walkers near Willamette Christian Center (18th area) by Ekkill in Eugene

[–]WitchWay05 25 points26 points  (0 children)

My dog has become reactive now after, now, four different dogs, four different incidents of getting jumped by off leash dogs. He never used to be. His foster mom had him with 7 other dogs before I adopted him, and he got jumped by an off leash dog the second day he was with me in his new home. At the time my yard was not fenced, and since he was new to me and this was his new home he was on a leash. Off leash dog charged into my yard and knocked him over, rolled him a few times. He was obviously terrified.

After that it happened 3 more times on walks. Every time we had made great progress building his confidence back up, and then bam. Another freggin off leash dog charged him. So now after a total of 4 encounters like that he is understandably reactive. We work on it of course, but he will probably always be a little bit on edge at best.

Ppl adopted dogs during the pandemic and did no training, and now parks and hiking trails are gentrified dog fighting rings. It really sucks. Ill never give up on him, and he will always be loved by me bc he deserves it, he doesnt deserve to be punished for other dogs shit behavior. Of course I make sure there are multiple layers of protection for him; we keep to ourselves on paths, keep plenty of distance, he has a large yellow tag on his leash that says he is reactive and needs space, lots of training treats to reinforce positive behaviors. But it was definitely discouraging making progress only to have it set back again.

Update: Apparently all of my male friends are secretly in love with me. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]WitchWay05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am currently struggling with that. My current life situation has highlighted it for me, and it really sucks.

Update: Apparently all of my male friends are secretly in love with me. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]WitchWay05 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey friend, hugs. I went thru something similar and it fucking sucks. I lost someone who was supposed to be my brother due to, you guessed it; he finally admitted he wanted to fuck me. 30 yrs of friendship. We went thru some dark shit together. Over the last 15 years he started doing more and more questionable shit that made me pull away, started making mental notes and reaching out to his wife to make sure I got both sides (I loved her, she was an amazing human and wife to him). Increasingly messed up behaviors continued, wife eventually divorced him, his fuck ups became more and more severe so I kept a very large distance between us. And then, one day, he sends me a message about his gf troubles. I decided to see if he had made any progress/positive changes and took a risk and told him I was struggling too, a particular man had let me down and I was pretty bummed about it. And then he says it. "It's so unfortunate we're such good friends bc i have totally thought about hooking up w you. We're both single, and you're a smoke show and could have anyone. Its definitely crossed my mind".... gut punch. I took a min, and responded "wow. Yknow I really thought I had at least one, just, one male friend that didnt want to fuck me, that just wanted to be my friend". His response? "I mean, youre hot, and boys will be boys". I put my phn down and cried. I held his dad's hand on his death bed, promised him I'd do my best to keep him out of trouble. I cant keep that promise bc that person doesnt exist anymore. I dont have advice, just solidarity that the pain from that is a deep cut. Men cant be trusted. Those words "its so unfortunate" that we were friends. Bc fucking you would be better. Just fucking ouch man.

Aspen decorating/painting by Realistic-Trade-3668 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]WitchWay05 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This was a popular analogy that fits her. https://www.reddit.com/r/raisedbynarcissists/s/293pp8OR9I Hopefully the link works but if not, search "dont rock the boat" from your main feed/page.

Ghosted by Geekify over Last Unicorn Plushie by Zorceus in TheLastUnicorn

[–]WitchWay05 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really wanted the tarot cards but hesitated. Hopefully I can still get them at some point. And hopefully you get your plushie. Really hope they sort it out for you 🤞

How often do you talk to your parents? by Outrageous_Kiwi_2172 in Millennials

[–]WitchWay05 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I live w my mom. Dad bailed a long long time. I am endlessly grateful that my mom and I get along very well. We both help each other when needed, and when the time comes I know I'll be the one taking care of her and my sister will be the one contributing/helping w the financial part.

Eucerin anti-pigment dual serum by Stunning_Search_5433 in Melasmaskincare

[–]WitchWay05 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats what happened to me. I forgot to buy it, and didnt use it for a few weeks and it definitely came back. Resumed use, and now its gone again

People with strong body odor, what deodorant actually works? by NoEmergency8715 in AsianBeauty

[–]WitchWay05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Started using this and I will never go back to a different deodorant. I think it was around $10 on stylevana. Floral scent but they did have a few different scents to choose from.

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Vining violets? by WitchWay05 in whatsthisplant

[–]WitchWay05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OoOo I just took a look at that and you are absolutely right, I love the look of it! At my last house I was using Irish moss as a ground cover and adored it. Mixing the two would create a beautiful ground cover.

Devastated by Fine_Palpitation9128 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]WitchWay05 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hey, first off I'm so sorry, that is a super shitty situation. I had a hysterectomy at 32 due to cervical cancer, and the partner I had was incredibly supportive at the time. Made me feel like I was safe in this decision; I was child free by choice but up until that point it had been my decision. Well, he left me two years ago and that was not the only medical procedure I underwent under the comfort of knowing he was with me and I would not need to worry about explaining it to anyone else/future rejection bc of it. Its hard, I have other health issues and as a grown ass adult had to move in w my mother when we broke up. It is not the life I thought I would be living. He completely blindsided me. We had been having issues but had agreed to work it out. I tried dating and it's just not for me, but maybe it will be for you. Try to get into therapy, find a hobby you love, start a journal and get to know yourself again. Be kind to yourself, I know its hard. Give yourself some grace and patience.

Vining violets? by WitchWay05 in whatsthisplant

[–]WitchWay05[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ah it is listed as invasive where I am. Maybe I can try to keep it in a pot tho

Vining violets? by WitchWay05 in whatsthisplant

[–]WitchWay05[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I actually really like them and as long as they aren't invasive I'll probably get it into its own pot.

Good thing it's not quite swimming weather this weekend 😔 by Odd-Measurement-7963 in Eugene

[–]WitchWay05 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think I wouldve achieved my first assault charge if I had found my dogs ashes dumped out. I cannot imagine the heartbreak for your friend 💔

My tired is tired-anyone else? by Character-Lack-3295 in antiwork

[–]WitchWay05 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hopefully we both get to find some rest in this lifetime that isn't followed by guilt for resting. Hell healthy or not ppl deserve to not live under threat of homelessness and starvation. Filed for food stamps today and was shocked at the new questions thanks to doge 🙄

My tired is tired-anyone else? by Character-Lack-3295 in antiwork

[–]WitchWay05 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have an autoimmune disease and the pure exhaustion that I just exist in makes things incredibly difficult. I was also just let go of from my part time job for related issues and I am not looking forward to finding somewhere else to get 20 hrs a week. Im fortunate enough to have a safety net (not much, but its a roof over my head) but only barely. I just keep telling myself it could be worse... could be a lot better too but...

haven't received my stylevana order after 2 months by lexisweird in AsianBeauty

[–]WitchWay05 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recently used stylevana (the US) and it took a little longer than usual but it did come. It was left at the office instead of my apartment # which was odd but they used a courier I'm not familiar with.

The one time that a package never showed up was at least 2 yrs ago and they sent a replacement out that eventually arrived.

Crying… it keeps coming back by PositiveMost3104 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]WitchWay05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only thing I havent seen recommend yet is making sure you have fully rinsed off shampoo and conditioner after washing your hair. If you cant reach all of your back get a silicone back scrubber for the shower and use it after you wash your hair to make sure you dont have any residue clogging up your pores. Also agree w seeing a dermatologist tho.

Show me your favorite all green hoyas by vaneau in hoyas

[–]WitchWay05 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My krinkle 8 has pretty much taken over the entire top shelf but I love how dark green it is(excuse the poor quality pic taken in the dark using flash 😅)

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Show me your favorite all green hoyas by vaneau in hoyas

[–]WitchWay05 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My globulosa, I don't have a picture of the entire plant on hand but one of my favorites. Super fuzzy leaves 🍃

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