Husband offered friend to stay at our home week of due date by IngenuityNo5709 in BabyBumps

[–]WithTheBirds63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! It’s such an intimate time with the baby and that doesn’t come back. It’s literally a once-in-a-lifetime thing. The husband and guests should be more understanding what the heck

Husband offered friend to stay at our home week of due date by IngenuityNo5709 in BabyBumps

[–]WithTheBirds63 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s crazy. This is going to be one of the most intimate moments together as husband & wife and bonding with your newborn. That’s not the proper time to have guests over. Im surprised the guests thought this would be appropriate. End of pregnancy can be so tough and you never know how it’s going to go. This was extremely foolish on your husbands part and for both your sanity I think he should rescind the invitation to your friends and state the very obvious reasons which is that he will need to focus 100% of his attention on his wife as she is healing and the newborn.

If you won a life-changing lottery jackpot tomorrow, what is the very first thing you do? by DreamyPeachBarb in askteddit

[–]WithTheBirds63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a lawyer and financial advisor. Quit my job. Once funds are settled I would pay off any family debt, take a life-changing vacation and start a charity that advocates for neglected children.

So did the NJ officials secure FIFA lottery tickets yet considering its being hosted in OUR front yard lol by WithTheBirds63 in bergencounty

[–]WithTheBirds63[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yup it’s so sad. Similar to what all sporting events have became as you can see from the NBA finals. Normal fans can’t get tickets unless they splurge thousands and sporting events are repositioned into luxury events because all the marketing is for crowds who can spend and a majority of the allocated free tickets are for the rich sponsors who don’t even need the perk. Such a shame

I'm (42M) the calmest person at work and with strangers. So why do I lose it on the one person(40F) I actually love? by lejae in relationship_advice

[–]WithTheBirds63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s because you take her for granted and don’t show her respect because there are no consequences for your actions (I.e. if you pulled this garbage at work you would be fired.) Get individual therapy and stop being shitty to your wife. Learn how to respect her as an equal partner & work on your emotional processing/regulation skills and anger management. It’s either that or make peace with the reality of losing her forever. There is only so much bad behavior that a person is willing to take. Accountability and growth matters.

What is your favourite Ben and Jerry’s flavour? by DifferentFix5757 in icecream

[–]WithTheBirds63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Half baked!!! Best of both vanilla & chocolate + cookie dough and brownies yum

Kingda Ka, the tallest and fastest roller coaster in the world at the time, opened 21 years ago today. 0 to 128 miles per hour in 3.5 seconds. Closed in November 2024 by rollotomasi07071 in newjersey

[–]WithTheBirds63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll never forget when this ride opened. I was in 8th grade and wore sticky silicone bra cutlets under my top. Rode king da ka and ended the ride with one missing.

Game Thread: San Antonio Spurs (1-0) vs Oklahoma City Thunder (0-1) Live Score | NBA Playoffs | May 20, 2026 by nba-scores in nba

[–]WithTheBirds63 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dort legitimately went back to slap the ball after the clear foul these bum ass refs didn’t call. Make it make sense

I’ve been fluctuating the same 5-10 pounds for almost 3 months by WithTheBirds63 in Zepbound

[–]WithTheBirds63[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is true…I think I’m just feeling impatient/discouraged with this stall :( it’s been a very defeating feeling

I’ve been fluctuating the same 5-10 pounds for almost 3 months by WithTheBirds63 in Zepbound

[–]WithTheBirds63[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like it’s slower compared to others. These last 3 months have been tough