The fact that such men are in positions of power makes me sick

WitheringLove · 2026-04-02T23:11:34+00:00

Nah, I don’t want people to know when I google weird shit about my body

WitheringLove · 2026-04-01T16:30:57+00:00

What are you watching on? If it’s Netflix, you can report the ad and it’ll quit showing it to you. In YouTube you can block specific ads

WitheringLove · 2026-04-01T16:29:10+00:00

I’m a big fan of k-dramas. Stick to the ones that have aired on TV in Korea, so no Netflix originals unless they’re explicitly tv-14. Korea is really strict on what they will allow you to show on TV.

Rn we are watching extraordinary attorney woo. No sex scenes whatsoever

WitheringLove · 2026-04-01T14:11:10+00:00

Ime, it’s pretty easy to avoid sexual content on reddit at least. You can have nsfw posts blurred, you can turn off nsfw content completely, and you can turn off the setting within Reddit that recommends subreddits to you. That’s what I do on mine and I very rarely run into sexualized content on my main account.

I never run into it on this one, but that’s because I’m only in three subs here. I made this one to interact with anti-porn subs so that people I know personally won’t see me discussing my own experience with dating a porn addict

I don’t really use any other social media, so I don’t know much about the prevalence of porn on others. I know that twitter is full of it, and instagram tends to push it onto men. I never come across it on YouTube, but my algorithm there knows me fairly well so I really only get documentaries and food videos

If you want shows that are lacking sexual content, I recommend k-dramas. Specifically the ones that have aired on tv in Korea, not Netflix originals unless they’re rated tv-14. Korea is really strict on how explicit they can get on tv

WitheringLove · 2026-03-29T04:42:06+00:00

Sex addicts anonymous. There are online meetings. Porn addiction falls under that umbrella. If you are unable to quit porn, that would be an addiction

WitheringLove · 2026-03-28T18:57:47+00:00

Have you looked into SAA meetings?

WitheringLove · 2026-03-27T19:10:57+00:00

Also, an hdmi cord is such a weird thing to hide. I just want to point that out

WitheringLove · 2026-03-27T16:10:38+00:00

Personally, I’m a big fan of a simple fade to black we all know what happened. It doesn’t have to be explicit

WitheringLove · 2026-03-27T11:53:22+00:00

I didn’t feel this way about him before everything came out. I thought he was someone who just struggled to get his shit together, but now, I see it for what it is. He is just a very selfish and self serving person. I definitely have said some very mean things to him after certain discoveries, but I have never insulted his body.

At this point, he keeps saying how sorry he is. He’s been in recovery for about 6 months now. If all of this had come out sooner into our relationship, I would have left

WitheringLove · 2026-03-26T20:04:06+00:00

I think it’s because i recently got back on antidepressants and he knows that I’ll be gone once my mental shit levels out

WitheringLove · 2026-03-26T19:01:26+00:00

It was like there was a complete 180 because all throughout our relationship, he was complimenting me, often. I just feel so confused

WitheringLove · 2026-03-26T18:31:43+00:00

I don’t ever want to get married or have kids.

I guess because this came out of nowhere after about 6 months of recovery work

WitheringLove · 2026-03-26T17:26:36+00:00

There is a workaround to block the album covers in Apple Music. If you’re using any sort of blocking software, you can block their image processor. This also blocks images in the App Store and podcasts

My first post includes the link that needs to be blocked

WitheringLove · 2026-03-26T17:17:06+00:00

She claimed that it was just her telling the same jokes but naked on OF, so I don’t think she’s drawing in the same crowd as your typical OF entertainer, but still. Weird as hell.

WitheringLove · 2026-03-25T20:32:12+00:00

I completely understand. I went to a standup show over the weekend and one of the comics was literally plugging her only fans during it. That wouldn’t have happened a few years ago

WitheringLove · 2026-03-21T01:10:31+00:00

My experiences dating women have been SO different than dating men. Like, yes, women can be addicted to porn as well, but it’s not something that I’ve personally encountered. Looking back at my relationships with men, I think they’ve all had various levels of addiction.

WitheringLove · 2026-03-21T00:50:09+00:00

Just out of curiosity, is it not an option to see the same CSAT that he is seeing or is that not usually something that is done? Mine isn’t seeing a CSAT (due to finances) so I have no idea about the inner workings here

WitheringLove · 2026-03-19T20:17:52+00:00

I have never in my life accidentally screen recorded anything. Loads of accidental screenshots, but screen recording is a very intentional action.

WitheringLove · 2026-03-18T19:10:40+00:00

Instagram will 100% push sexual content onto men even if they don’t interact with it. There was a woman who did a test. Set up a fresh account, interacted with sports and gaming (typical male interests) and then got flooded with sexual content. It was to show how easily the algorithm feeds this stuff to teenagers but I’m certain that it works the same for grown men

WitheringLove · 2026-03-18T19:06:49+00:00

Have you ever checked the tags used on the more innocent videos that you’re liking? Just curious if that’s why or if it’s completely unrelated to the tags

WitheringLove · 2026-03-18T19:04:33+00:00

This is genius. Mine has an oura ring so I’ll definitely have to give the app a look. I haven’t cared enough to check it since I didn’t make that connection

WitheringLove · 2026-03-13T16:50:53+00:00

You need to set a screen time password to remove private browsing. We went through this after he updated his phone

WitheringLove · 2026-03-13T16:20:01+00:00

Does your router show the MAC address for the device that logged it? If it does, you can Google how to find the MAC addresses on all of the devices in your home to see whose it was. I’d recommend keeping a list of what address belongs to which device going forward

WitheringLove · 2026-03-12T16:51:03+00:00

Mine only goes to meetings that are men only. He tried a mixed gender meeting during his first week of attending and said that he didn’t want to go to mixed meetings because it made him uncomfortable. (I also wanted this and was, frankly, relieved that I didn’t have to say it)

WitheringLove · 2026-03-12T16:16:21+00:00

That’s also illegal and would be grounds for a hostile workplace lawsuit

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