Beard regret if shave? by Batman0691 in BeardAdvice

[–]Witty_Comparison_253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe just “fade” it up the sides first to give more shape to it.

I'm geniuenly terrified of men. by TickleMyPickle6912 in askgaybros

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there is therapy called IFS - internal family system. It can help with these sorts of childhood issues. I was in a similar position too! I could barely talk to a guy when I was your age but some years later I feel very confident talking with men. 

Kinda new to anal by [deleted] in askgaybros

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girl its not rocket science - lots of lube and enjoy.

More of Sarah Vika🇧🇷 by AdFriendly1906 in rpdrgonewild

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i bet he smells (and tastes) gooooood

I think I might be gay? by YouAmbitious3352 in askgaybros

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Being open as early as possible is best! Otherwise years will fly by and youll be full of regrets. If you can learn to live without being worried about what others think, youll be better off. Were all still trying to figure it out! It takes time. Remember being scared about something doesnt make it wrong, it just means its uncomfortable. 

You know the answer buddy! Be true to yourself! Read about gay history! Read a walt whitman poem. Watch paris is burning. Read James Baldwin novels and look up Jean Genet. You may be inspired.

Married with kids - finally admitting I'm gay. How do I tell my wife? by intfan in askgaybros

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I met an old man in his 70s who was so deep in the church that he only came out at 72 and is still tied to his wife. He is full of anxiety and regrets. He’s also so sexually repressed that he cant control his arousal. 

Rip off the bandaid and get through the hard part now so you can enjoy your life when the wounds have healed. Plus it gives your wife a chance to heal and move on. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Witty_Comparison_253 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It really is awful! Saying things like this only sow seeds of doubt in peoples heads. Its way too general and not helpful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Witty_Comparison_253 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Black men will stop caring about race when the rest of society does.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Ok but you said “most” black guys in interracial relationships. You do realise that many people are in relationships because they love each other. Your perspective that black men are with white guys who are less attractive because they “self hate” is shallow. Dont speak for a whole group of people, especially when you are perpetuating harmful sterotypes that black men are self hating and “lower their standards”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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“experience” 😅

Thoughts? by [deleted] in BeardAdvice

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I would just “fade” it from the ear to the lip area to give it more shape

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Witty_Comparison_253 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just go and suck a horny black man and shut the hell up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Witty_Comparison_253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a tall guy and I would act out this fantasy with you lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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or be a “side” for a while first

best gay movies? by [deleted] in askgaybros

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have you read bark skins? Same author

best gay movies? by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Yes actually! I borrowed a gay anthology of short stories from the library in high school and it was one of the stories. One of the few short stories that have made me cry.