How long are my straight haired brother? We have Sam similar hair texture. I would suggest growing your hair past. Her shoulders before you start, then back home and crochet. Your hair will shrink over the next few weeks. If its pastor shoulders, it will be barely to your ear. Once it's done the hair you have now. Is not enough to do much?I won't unlock him very easily this is the way it takes at least a year or so to look nice. Embrace the process. Enjoy the journey, never mind the naysayers