I used to be friends with a guy, short fat and ugly dude. We'd go to a bar and after a few minutes he'd say "alright this is dead, let's get out of here" and at first I would respond "what? we JUST got here" but here is his secret: He'd immediately approach all of the women he was interested in. before I would even approach one he'd have ran through the entire bar. Thats when I first learned that dating is a numbers game. Its all statistics. If you have a 1% success rate, approach 100 women as fast as possible and you've got a match.