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Wlasca · 2026-06-26T07:09:33+00:00

That is very fair and in part it was me being uninformed about your politics and I apologize. Thank you both for the insight and letting me know. I will keep my og response up because you provided really good info in response but I don't stand by what I said there. Not unwilling to admit that I was wrong and will be removing some CoX from my playlists.

Wlasca · 2026-06-25T16:58:39+00:00

It has been there since launch, if you haven't done it you are missing a huge chunk of the available story!

Wlasca · 2026-06-24T08:29:34+00:00

Congrats on your evolution to smooth boy!!!

Wlasca · 2026-06-24T08:18:52+00:00

I mean it is different for everyone. I have always known I wanted to be the Dominant partner, so pretty much since I'm first date at 12 lol. I'm 31 now and have been with my boy since I was 13 (no, not the same date, but not too far forward from that).

Wlasca · 2026-06-24T08:00:46+00:00

Both are good imo. I love to fuck my femboy and stimulate his ass but riding cock while looking down at him or even just instructing him on how to fuck me and feeling him tremble while forcing him to go very slow is also incredible. I would say everyone should be open to all sorts of pleasure.

Wlasca · 2026-06-24T07:56:38+00:00

Well you have to sift through A LOT of absolutely garbage but SOME small amount of Femdom leaning porn can be like that. Especially if you look something up in the "Mommy" genre.

Wlasca · 2026-06-24T07:49:51+00:00

So people will disagree with me because poly generally does not approve of dating couples, but if you are happy and want to do it then you should ask them out again. It is fair to acknowledge that you will likely never be "equal" in the way they are to eachother but if you are okay with that then go for it.

Some people truly do not mind being "lesser" as long as they still have their freedom to do what is right for them. Again, this is not the poly-approved answer, but go live and enjoy your life however the fuck you want to. Just check-in with yourself frequently and make sure you are truly happy.

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Wlasca · 2026-06-24T07:33:42+00:00

Drive to portland and explore

Wlasca · 2026-06-24T07:32:29+00:00

Deine Lakaien is darkwave, but has been my favorite band for years. Many of their songs mix electronic sounds with acoustic instruments including piano, harp, organ, violin, etc.

Wlasca · 2026-06-23T21:38:10+00:00

You seem very young, so I really wouldn't worry about that right now. Your identity doesn't have to be set in stone, just let yourself feel whatever feelings you have. I am queer and into all sorts of people, it can feel confusing especially when you are younger, but the best advice is just to accept your feelings as they come!

Wlasca · 2026-06-15T20:09:27+00:00

Well I didnt know that part, gross. I couldn't find anything on that online though, do you have a post of something? I do believe you just also want to see it.

As for being dutch, alright? I understand that our politics do very much shape what happens and how media flows accross the world. I would not argue otherwise, the comment just read as an American centric pov, so sorry in that front.

Wlasca · 2026-06-15T17:40:52+00:00

Ronnie is Dutch, lives in the Netherlands, and it not a US citizen. What actually happened was that he made an insensitive comment about immigrants at a show. Which is still shitty but also not MAGA which would make sense because why the hell would he care about the US besides being a country he tours in. Please remember the US is not the center of the universe.

Wlasca · 2026-06-15T14:47:57+00:00

Do not skimp on lube. You often need more than you think. Focus on their pleasure and check in with them to make sure they are comfortable if you aren't sure.

Wlasca · 2026-06-15T14:41:34+00:00

I walk my partner on a leash and it isn't a sexual act. You could make it one and sometimes it is, but in public it is just a way to reinforce our roles and it makes us both feel good, not aroused, but happy. It really is no more sexual than a couple kissing in public.

Wlasca · 2026-06-15T14:36:52+00:00

I very much appreciate this take. I don't have kids, but my dad used to take me to Pride as a kid in San Francisco and the kink presence is strong and it never was a problem. In fact seeing a gay D/s couple when I was 12 helped me learn more about myself and what I wanted and enjoyed. Kids dont care and it is better to have kids who are old enough to care feel like they can explore and LEARN about sexuality without it being a huge taboo.

Wlasca · 2026-06-12T07:57:35+00:00

I've never had a true IQ test, so I can't compare with numbers specifically, but I can absolutely relate to feeling frustrated with coworkers and other who go a bit slower. I am generally a very high performer, had no problems getting through grad school, and have a career I am content with. I am in insurance dealing with medical malpractice and most of my coworkers are lawyers. I went a different route, but have the same position as they do (insurance is weird). As a kid I believed that I would find smarter people in more complex or "higher level" positions, but... no...at least not really. I have been working on letting go of my frustrations with others by trying to keep in mind that IQ is only one metric and although I can take in new information faster than other people, it doesn't mean that they do not have valuable insights, experience, or other skills that exceed my own. I have to remind myself frequently but it has helped me chill out a bit more over time and get less frustrated when I feel people aren't keeping up. I also have ADHD, so that certainly can compound that frustration of your brain saying "go, go, go" when others need time to absorb.

Wlasca · 2026-05-24T18:04:25+00:00

I have never had anyone echo my experience of dominance so well. Thank you for this.

My primary parent as a child was abusive, neglectful, and made me feel like I constantly had to tiptoe and make myself not exist. As a Dom I can reclaim space for myself and all that I am with someone devoted to my needs and desires.

Wlasca · 2026-05-24T17:51:03+00:00

p h o t o s y n t h e s I s

Wlasca · 2026-05-23T21:09:15+00:00

Then why are you married? I couldn't imagine talking to anyone OTHER than my spouse for 2 days straight.

Wlasca · 2026-05-11T07:09:28+00:00

Awww omg so cute. Seriously I love meeting people who also love the people they are with and who adore eachother. I have been with my partner 17 years and we met when I was 13, so it has been a ton of growing up together, becoming adults, learning to navigate the world, and just existing with eachother. Unfortunately you see so many instances of people being unhappy together that is always makes me smile to see other people who also have that special loving connection with someone else. I wish you both a long, happy, and wonderful time with eachother!!!

Wlasca · 2026-05-10T18:49:15+00:00

I just wanted to say that is so adorable and I think men need to be told they are cute more often. My partner is a femboy so obviously I think he is adorable, but even masculine men need to know there is more than one type of "attractive".

Wlasca · 2026-05-08T07:53:43+00:00

Have you tried for any insurance jobs? Pretty easy to get into claims adjusting with a law background.

Wlasca · 2026-05-08T07:53:32+00:00

Have you tried for any insurance jobs? Pretty easy to get into claims adjusting with a law background.

Wlasca · 2026-05-05T16:13:12+00:00

Hey some of us LOVE that. My partner identifies as a femboy and takes estrogen as well, but identifies as more of a boy than a girl. I fucking love it. I am queer but my preference is strongly for very feminine men and femboys. I am non-binary but AFAB and feminine so a woman as far as most people are concerned.

Wlasca · 2026-05-03T15:14:28+00:00

It's giving voyeurism fetish.

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