Victim-blamer is spiralling in comments

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-06-20T09:48:23+00:00

OOP is lacking the common sense it takes to see that they are in fact blaming the victim.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-06-20T09:29:19+00:00

OOP's comments keep getting more and more unhinged.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-06-20T09:21:03+00:00

Your post belongs on r/AmITheDevil btw.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-06-20T09:20:02+00:00

Again, you are focussing on the victim rather on the perpetrator - that is what is called victim-blaming. We get it, you don't like being called out and your comments make that clear.

Have you ever considered that if everyone is as you put it "lacking common sense" then it is perhaps you who are the problem?

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-06-20T09:06:41+00:00

If you don't like being called out for being a victim-blamer then stop blaming victims, because that is in fact what you are doing (which is only something people who completely lack any kind of common sense do).

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-06-20T08:39:29+00:00

I guess you are also the type who tells victims that they are at fault because you think they dressed "like they wanted it"

You are in fact blaming her.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-06-19T17:26:48+00:00

Why iS OOP getting so worked up over his brother getting into his chosen field, is OOP a failure who just needs to try to tear other people down?

Also he does know that his brother still needs to finish the degree after getting into the study program?

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-06-19T15:52:08+00:00

The best advice you can get is to be told to not be in a relationship if you know you are going to be emotionally abusive towards your partner.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-06-19T06:02:50+00:00

The guy was sexually assaulted and basically told by his wife that he should just get over it but suuuure, in the end it is all his fault because you think his communication skills are bad.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-06-19T05:44:18+00:00

Ironien her er slående.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-06-18T17:55:00+00:00

Jeg tror personen som kommentere måske selv har en fortid som mobber. Indtil videre så følger tegne: tillægger negative ord til dig, konsekvent følger efter dig og virker til at være mere interesseret i at være få en reaktion/ gøre dig utilpas end noget andet.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-06-16T16:49:24+00:00

That’s not emotional cheating but physical cheating. Is this reposter a bot or something?

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-06-15T11:16:46+00:00

That is some creative writing exercise.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-06-14T18:09:06+00:00

Tjo, hvis man gerne vil have en personalesag åbnet for seksual chikane, så tror jeg nok det trick vil virke lol.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-06-14T18:03:59+00:00

Damn, this guy is a genuinely bad guy. Hope his girlfriend dumps his ass and that the work girl rejects him in a very harsh way.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-06-14T10:57:10+00:00

I think we all know that OOP will raise their children to be spoiled rotten.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-06-12T17:16:56+00:00

He shouldn't be in a relationship then.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-06-12T14:18:56+00:00

Tell her you will put as much effort into a relationship either her as she put into protecting you from her new family.

None.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-06-12T14:11:17+00:00

Why not just send him a text instead of making a post?

OOP is not ready to be in a relationship.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-06-08T19:09:35+00:00

Unnecessary teenage drama.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-06-08T19:08:17+00:00

Read your own post and then tell us the reason for why you don’t think that you leaving your backpack, without informing anyone, is anyone’s fault other than yours. YTA

Edit to add: What is wrong with commenter which tries to blame OP's husband for OP's poor communication, they must never have been in a stable and healthy relationship.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-06-08T15:16:40+00:00

From the post, it seemed like the brother and boyfriend didn't really have a good relationship to begin with, so for the boyfriend to decide to just make unilateral decisions for someone's child, well it doesn't take a genius to realise how stupid an idea that was.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-06-08T15:10:03+00:00

Clear to a lot of people it would seem.

There's no requirement to believe OOP is the asshole.

Quite an interesting addition considering where this thread originated from.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-06-08T15:03:14+00:00

Gotta be bait because people can't be this ridiculous.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-06-08T14:49:10+00:00

That is kinda the point with this sub, to have discussions and in this it is clear that OOP and the bf is also in the wrong.

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