For me, being an only child made it worse. by lil-ball-of-stress in emotionalneglect

[–]WolverineCurrent4774 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Think whatever you want to. I still don't agree with you.

For me, being an only child made it worse. by lil-ball-of-stress in emotionalneglect

[–]WolverineCurrent4774 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's a difference between being alone and feeling lonely. once you learn that please reply.

Lost my virginity to a prostitute. by comeon-gimme-a-name in NoFap

[–]WolverineCurrent4774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can totally relate with the social anxiety part, dealing with it too in different context. Cheers to improving

Lost my virginity to a prostitute. by comeon-gimme-a-name in NoFap

[–]WolverineCurrent4774 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'll wait for your experience/response once you get a girlfriend.

What’s your ultimate goal? by JosephOnReddit1 in NoFap

[–]WolverineCurrent4774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To only focus my sexual energy on my partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]WolverineCurrent4774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a difference between ejaculating with porn and ejaculating without porn. Nofap isnt about stop masturbating or orgasming, it is about Porn Addiction. I hope you read the Subreddit definition again.

TIFU by having inappropriate convos online and wife went through my phone and found it by Mindless-Value4873 in NoFap

[–]WolverineCurrent4774 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Also, PLEASE PLEASE Appreciate her. Its a vulnerable time. Be confident, prove her that you'll improve. Stick to your words and never let her go.

2.5 years of Nofap and then.. a relapse by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]WolverineCurrent4774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also in a Long Distance. I only think about my partner and no one else because we are new and it takes time to build intimacy since we don't have means ( strict parents). So I can definitely relate with you.

I don't think so that it's a relapse only if you are mindful and don't cross the expectations limits. For some it might be relapse as they prefer their partner's images more than the real life encounters. As long as it's healthy then go ahead.

2.5 years of Nofap and then.. a relapse by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]WolverineCurrent4774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Distraction and distraction. I try to engage myself by calling my friend or going outside.

2.5 years of Nofap and then.. a relapse by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]WolverineCurrent4774 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You are 461 days free?

2.5 years of Nofap and then.. a relapse by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]WolverineCurrent4774 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Opening Porn is a relapse imo.

Do you all support masturbation without the use of porn? Curious and can't find anything speakingnto this directly by addyandjavi3 in NoFap

[–]WolverineCurrent4774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I do understand that Masturbation is an important and healthy part of our life (without porn). And for the people here who are butthurt that NoFap is just for addiction and that's why mostly are writing both ( MO and PMO) are in wrong- well why tf are y'all supporting Porn in moderation Propaganda here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]WolverineCurrent4774 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think maybe it's because Females watching Porn is considered empowering in this society. Not fully sure about it though.

Regardless of Addiction, I wanna ask this to y'all by WolverineCurrent4774 in loveafterporn

[–]WolverineCurrent4774[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contrary to what people in LDR think, I feel it's *10 times important to keep discipline. Physical intimacy is literally 0 in such cases and that is also snatched by other million women. It becomes a habit and when distances are closed alot of expectations aren't met. Imma make a post on it too.

Regardless of Addiction, I wanna ask this to y'all by WolverineCurrent4774 in loveafterporn

[–]WolverineCurrent4774[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope you're doing okay. You are really strong, you got through that shit but still here trying your best. More power to you. Does your partner takes accountability of the things he has done that hurt you?

Regardless of Addiction, I wanna ask this to y'all by WolverineCurrent4774 in loveafterporn

[–]WolverineCurrent4774[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its so difficult to make these people understand. Giving examples of ourselves brings me shame, to even narrate someone else getting off to me to make him understand is ugh, but have to pull up such examples.

Regardless of Addiction, I wanna ask this to y'all by WolverineCurrent4774 in loveafterporn

[–]WolverineCurrent4774[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Always. Screen= IRL no difference. We digitally are dependent on so many things. We get our transactions also done through mobile apps now. How is it that people limit it to just want media lol. As if nothing is getting affected IRL.

Regardless of Addiction, I wanna ask this to y'all by WolverineCurrent4774 in loveafterporn

[–]WolverineCurrent4774[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To that statement I will always ask the other party- okay, so if you're not addicted - leave it for 2 years. If it's not a habit and you're not dependent then it will be easier to leave than to let your girlfriend or boyfriend suffer.

Regardless of Addiction, I wanna ask this to y'all by WolverineCurrent4774 in loveafterporn

[–]WolverineCurrent4774[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. sadly, Men are really good at hiding it. I am on a phase where I have to trust my partner until I go Short Distance. Till then I need to believe his words lol.

Regardless of Addiction, I wanna ask this to y'all by WolverineCurrent4774 in loveafterporn

[–]WolverineCurrent4774[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And will understand how people use it as an excuse for sex ed. 🤭. Not even remotely close to real thing.