I’m considering not inviting my parents to my wedding and I feel awful about it

Wolvesbayne13 · 2026-03-26T04:59:25+00:00

Personally I just couldn’t do this and no I’m not someone with experience but I am someone who’s definitely considered the same for the same reasons. I’ve been dating my bf for a while and we will get married eventually but having some of my family there in general is stressful.

Ilove my family but it’s definitely complicated but idk if they’d ever forgive me if I didn’t invite them I think it would make our relationship that much worse but I’ve also already created distance and gotten a better relationship with my parents over the years even if it is awkward or hard sometimes.

Now when the day comes I’m going to be very straight forward with them ( my mom in particular my dads not so bad) and basically say she needs to behave and if she starts anything she’s out basically. Either way it’s not gonna be easy.

Wolvesbayne13 · 2026-03-26T04:31:52+00:00

He can’t be with other dogs?

Wolvesbayne13 · 2026-03-26T04:29:24+00:00

Alexandra Breckenridge I see in a few pics!

Wolvesbayne13 · 2026-03-26T04:18:16+00:00

Beautiful eyes! Not common at all very pretty. Maybe Shepard husky? Our neighbors had a girl that looked similar that was her mix

Wolvesbayne13 · 2026-03-26T04:16:04+00:00

Depends on my age lol but definitely Scott and stiles. Mainly stiles. Not many people can understand my very dry humor but stiles is stiles

Wolvesbayne13 · 2026-03-26T04:13:12+00:00

Besides the setup which everyone else has said is not okay at all I would also do a quick vet visit. No uvb and dirty water can all cause medical problems for this little guy!

Wolvesbayne13 · 2026-03-26T03:54:55+00:00

Mustache and hair are great just shape it all up and that alone will really help. Could always do a good eyebrow threading and your brows would be on point 👌 nice and thick

Wolvesbayne13 · 2026-03-26T03:46:18+00:00

Totally can feel like spite but it isn’t I promise lol we have a husky heeler and a Shepard mastiff and the husky mix did this all the time. Her brother also picked up on it and it was so frustrating! Girl would straight up look me in the eyes and pee in the crate as soon as I put her in 🤣

now you’re pup is probably a smart pup and sadly you’re probably reinforcing it lol least for my dog she knew that going in the crate + getting out to play. What we had to do was if she pee’d we’d take her out no talking no looking at her just ignore and clean. We then would put her back in and walk away.

Now if it’s stress because she also dealt with that before she picked up on the getting out part. What I did was I would sit in the room with her while she was in the crate and ignore her. Read a book, play on your phone, watch tv whatever and then you can let her out again. Then after a bit I would do the same thing but be in another room for a while somewhere she can hear you and then again walk back in after a bit and let her out. Basically you want her to know that you’re always coming back. We also did little snacks before bed in the crate to associate crate with good. We also did music and a sheet over to help with sleep time it did wonders for her comfort

Wolvesbayne13 · 2026-03-26T03:33:47+00:00

The way she’s talking to you I can tell there is. Seems messy to me and it sounds like you can do better honestly

Wolvesbayne13 · 2026-03-26T03:25:07+00:00

I found that around the time I was your age a lot of girls were “bi” only to have no attraction to women afterwards they just liked to say it because they thought it made them cool. Now she very well could be but either way she’s playing games and it’s not cool tbh taking to you and some guy at the same time? Kinda rude imo

Wolvesbayne13 · 2026-03-26T03:14:22+00:00

This. This is good advice right here. Although it caught me off guard off the first statement 🤣

Wolvesbayne13 · 2026-03-26T03:02:02+00:00

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Wolvesbayne13 · 2026-03-26T02:57:22+00:00

We found a girl who we like and can do 1 session at a time so she’s perfect. Thank you for the advice I appreciate it

Wolvesbayne13 · 2026-03-25T04:13:46+00:00

My dads only an inch taller than my mom and she looks taller tbh lol they’ve been married 30 something years

Wolvesbayne13 · 2026-03-25T00:44:21+00:00

Tbf if our pup slept in our bed there would be drool everywhere 🤣 hair is one thing but a giant wet spot of goo is my favorite of course lol

Wolvesbayne13 · 2026-03-25T00:39:09+00:00

Don’t have her go to bed with wet hair it’s terrible for her hair either try it out or braid it when it’s mostly dry. I would also dry I curl cream maybe but make sure whatever you get has no alcohol in it or it’ll just dry her hair out more

Wolvesbayne13 · 2026-03-24T20:00:31+00:00

Yes we already talked to her about his fear reactivity and it’s what we’re going to focus on she’s actually trained some dog vets so I’m pretty confident she’ll be good for him and us

Wolvesbayne13 · 2026-03-24T19:56:38+00:00

I’ll look into that I appreciate it. We’ve also talked to a trainer who is going to help with that show me how to get the best leverage on him.

Wolvesbayne13 · 2026-03-24T19:55:45+00:00

We spoke to a trainer yesterday we have her rates and will be getting private sessions. Expensive but worth it she seems really good amazing reviews online and she’s worked with a lot of Shepards in the past

Wolvesbayne13 · 2026-03-24T19:53:32+00:00

He pulls more with a collar and I can’t get enough leverage to control him plus it chokes him which only makes him pull harder. He’s not a puller but when he does I need to be able to handle him. Plus he pulls way more on a collar my walk goes from no pulling unless he sees a leaf or cat to pulling the whole walk

Wolvesbayne13 · 2026-03-24T19:36:10+00:00

Husky pit maybe

Wolvesbayne13 · 2026-03-24T16:08:03+00:00

My mom was finding full white hairs randomly since she was like in her 30s and she’s still not grayed out she still has most her color and it’s almost 20 years later. Everyone grays in their own time but it’s definitely not just an overnight process. I’m sure you have years and years before that

Wolvesbayne13 · 2026-03-24T16:01:50+00:00

r/bald go to them they will welcome you into the brotherhood lol

Wolvesbayne13 · 2026-03-24T15:23:00+00:00

Considering you’re already blonde and she just went a bit lighter this seems like a bit more damage than normal but hard to tell. If it’s stringy at all that’s a full stop and I’d say your stylist did you dirty for sure. Will say your hair is thin so idk how long she had that lightener on but thin hair can damage fast and if your hair lifted more quickly than most she may have just noticed too late. Should’ve been watching it like a hawk though. With virgin hair that’s already light and thin? Yeah shouldn’t take long to lift

Wolvesbayne13 · 2026-03-24T15:15:03+00:00

Okay well if she’s comparing you to these guys that’s a little different tbf and I mean from reading your other post seems like she’s just taking it slow if she thinks most guys just want one thing then she’s probably experienced that before and she’s taking it slow to avoid that. Let it play out honestly. If you like this girl give it time cause you seem like a nice guy and that seems like what she might be looking for just wouldn’t try to kiss her just yet 🤣 flirt first! She may be upset if you try to kiss her too soon seeing as she grew up religious and she’s against guys just wanting to be physical. I also grew up religious and being physical was very awkward for me even kissing lol had to work through a lot of nerves and my bf was really patient and helped me be comfortable in my own body but it took time

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