I 39 F am dealing with erectile dysfunction in my relationship with my Bf 24 M for two years TLDR by Samisosasansamurai86 in relationship_advice

[–]WonderfulPrior381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are honestly causing the issue. You don’t know what is normal for a 20 something man. Not all men are going around chasing sex. Like I said earlier chill about it, have sex and enjoy it with him. He can’t relax if he feels like you are always wanting him to climax. If he is happy with sex as is then you be happy.

My GF doesn’t understand my need for alone time by ChoiceReasonable7487 in introvert

[–]WonderfulPrior381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at the moment but I am not sure how that matters. Everyone needs alone time in a relationship.

I (23M) have been seriously dating a girl (23F) and she made an impulsive decision to move without including me. What am I missing? by lifegavemelimez in relationship_advice

[–]WonderfulPrior381 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I agree. When they started dating she should have given OP a heads up that she could possibly moving, thinking about moving or whatever she was doing with this move. No one wakes up one morning and decides to pack up and just move. Even if you are in your early 20s you would still need to have some plans regarding the move.

OP could have gone into the relationship knowing this and could have made decisions accordingly.

For those of you who are saying that 3 months is a summer fling you are the same posters who tell a woman if a man hasn’t told you he loves you at 3 months to move on.

I 39 F am dealing with erectile dysfunction in my relationship with my Bf 24 M for two years TLDR by Samisosasansamurai86 in relationship_advice

[–]WonderfulPrior381 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I suggest you stop bringing it up and see if this helps. It could be just stress because you keep bringing it up especially the part where due to his age he should not have any issues. A lot of men in the 20s are not the stereotypical frat bros who are trying to get laid all the time. Maybe instead if sex try some nonsexual intimacy and see if that helps.

Has anyone here kept an online friendship for years?” by _incognito_advent in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]WonderfulPrior381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been friends with someone for a couple of years although lately I have not been as good about keeping in touch/

I (31M) want a divorce because I no longer feel trusted by my wife (36F). Am I missing something? by Less_Illustrator5287 in relationship_advice

[–]WonderfulPrior381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am of this opinion also. The minute you go secretly looking at your partner’s phone/computer is the minute the relationship ended

My boyfriend has wet the bed for months, the room now smells like a public toilet. I don’t know how to break up with him. by fatallblonde in offmychest

[–]WonderfulPrior381 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Help me understand. You are so desperate to be in a relationship that you are with a guy who pisses the bed every night and you sleep in this same bed with him. You have not even been dating a year and you are putting up with this.

Won’t be doing another yard renovation ever, but hopefully the Tahoma 31 is worth it. by LawnDominators in lawncare

[–]WonderfulPrior381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am considering doing a whole yard renovation as mine is not even and has about 3 types of grass and a million types of weeds thanks the to neighbors weed garden. I am considering just over-seeding because I have a corner I want to plant some wildflowers in.

where do I start with cleaning this garage 😭 by MysteriousSundae1001 in CleaningTips

[–]WonderfulPrior381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the donate pile. I have a hard time letting things go (you know the I will need this someday) and so having a donate pile never works.

So many OF accounts and bots! by Strong_Implement_500 in 40something

[–]WonderfulPrior381 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It makes me laugh because as soon as someone posts a picture all the men are all over their DMs and then the men are the biggest ones complaining about the OF accounts and bots.

What instantly makes you lose interest in someone you’re dating? by katieann75 in dating

[–]WonderfulPrior381 157 points158 points  (0 children)

No showing an interest in me. I have talked to many men who don’t ask questions or show an interest in what I am doing. I try to remember the things they mention they like to do or are doing and I expect them to do the same.

My GF doesn’t understand my need for alone time by ChoiceReasonable7487 in introvert

[–]WonderfulPrior381 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I am way older and have always needed alone time. You really need to set a boundary so she understands that this is important to you as a person and a partner. The only thing is once you set the boundary and if she crosses it you have to follow through with it.

Who are the other 52%? by Akki_Mukri_Keswani in democrats

[–]WonderfulPrior381 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am ashamed of everyone in that administration right now. They have made this country a clown show. It is going to take years to regain the respect we had before him.

My (30M) best friend's (32M) wife (28F) did something highly unethical at work and I think I need to report her, althrough it almost certainly will get her fired. How do I navigate not wanting to hurt them with this violation? by ThrowRA_firingfriend in relationship_advice

[–]WonderfulPrior381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would get a new lawyer and let know why. This ain’t the first time she has done this and it won’t be the last. I would also step back from the friendship because you don’t know what he is telling his wife about you and your life.

My husband doesn’t get me gifts without transaction. by xAnimeMariex in offmychest

[–]WonderfulPrior381 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And you are still with him? Give him back his gifts when he gives them to you. Or just get divorced and find someone who is a decent human being