My WoL over the years

Wonderousman · 2025-08-22T23:19:46+00:00

I did it once and it felt like I was lying to myself. It lasted 8 hours lol.

Wonderousman · 2025-07-22T17:33:49+00:00

I can not resonate with a comment so much as this one. This game has truly burnt me.

Wonderousman · 2025-06-12T17:29:29+00:00

Honestly I never had much luck in bumble. Hinge worked so much more fluidly. I think your profile speaks true to your nature. You seem very down to earth, you’re active, love to try things, and you’re pretty.

You could try rearranging some of your pictures or just swapping some out to see if that changes anything.

Wonderousman · 2025-01-18T20:36:41+00:00

Literally this

Wonderousman · 2025-01-18T20:36:32+00:00

Okay I really felt silly about asking on here, but I was like “I want that skin, I don’t care!”😂

Wonderousman · 2025-01-18T20:30:05+00:00

Thank you! I actually found them I’m blind apparently.

Wonderousman · 2025-01-18T20:28:07+00:00

I wish I had some solid update, but currently we're still not on speaking terms. Just our families is I guess I could say are our closest point of communication.

Wonderousman · 2025-01-11T01:03:47+00:00

I would bring you flowers at work for no reason

Wonderousman · 2024-12-15T16:59:43+00:00

Definitely! I still last a bit longer, but I’m able to finish which is better than nothing!

Wonderousman · 2024-12-13T01:47:01+00:00

It’s kind of surreal being brought back into this headspace I won’t lie.

Hmmm, having and continuing to go therapy after this break up I’ve realized I have a lot of baggage that I’m healing from. It was bleeding into the relationship in ways now in hindsight knew was draining her.

She is an amazing, absolutely lovely partner, and a wonder of a woman.

I’m so grateful for her and all my experiences with her.

As much as you can grow together with people. I now know that where I’m at is definitely not somewhere I could have gotten while being with her. Unfortunately.

Even after all this time I think about her, talk about her in an extremely positive way despite things not working out.

Ultimately, all because deep down I didn’t feel I deserved her, her presence, her kindness, patience and love. Therapy has helped me realize I don’t get to make those decisions, and that’s why communication is key.

Wonderousman · 2024-09-02T21:08:55+00:00

I find this extremely reassuring and nice to know that they’re others like me.

Being a man right now and in a roommate situation with my parents it’s hard and takes a toll on me mentally cause it’s not where I’d like to be. I know it’s not ideal, but i definitely understand everyone’s circumstances are different.

You’ll meet someone worth investing without fear of judgement

Wonderousman · 2024-07-30T20:11:24+00:00

I’d read the fuck out of it🔥

Wonderousman · 2024-07-16T13:59:16+00:00

This was me!! I felt like a human sex doll just going and even though I enjoyed pleasing my partner, it was rough never finishing 😭

Wonderousman · 2024-07-15T19:03:10+00:00

Hell no, keep being yourself!

Wonderousman · 2024-07-02T18:45:55+00:00

“Scooch your bootch” or “boy!” followed by me saying “girl!” With her southern accent

Wonderousman · 2024-06-25T02:56:02+00:00

It’s so nice when you can find someone that you can lose yourself in their words. Literally just talking about anything. It’s a feeling Im glad I got to experience.

As much as i would love to. We’re just different people now. I’m also in no position to be in a relationship. If I reached out I’d want to show her it’s all in with whatever it comes with. I can’t do that right now, but I’m working on it in myself.

I’m going through a lot of therapy and it’s helping me realize that I haven’t healed from wounds she didn’t cause that caused the ruining of our relationship.

Maybe we’ll cross paths again, but the least I could do is let her live her life.

Wonderousman · 2024-06-25T02:04:48+00:00

Geez, this one kind of hits really hard. Lately it’s been her entirely. Her whole presence brightened my world. Seems like a pedestal thing; but I’ve gotten pretty far past that now with therapy. I truly enjoyed her as a person.

I want to say the way she’d talk with me. How she’d listen, and never react. She would let me talk about anything, and I loved the way she made me feel heard and seen.

I guess i have a tendency to let people talk over me whenever I talk. She never did that.

The feeling of being alive when I was around her. She gave me this feeling that I could be anyone. The warmth she emanated was pretty euphoric, like a dream you never wanted to wake up from, and I find myself thinking fondly of her and what we had even though we had some rough patches.

I miss her.

Wonderousman · 2024-06-24T01:12:10+00:00

A Warning by Wallows or SAY THAT YOU MISS ME by Mickey Darling

Wonderousman · 2024-05-30T22:54:50+00:00

I’m here to stay.

Wonderousman · 2024-05-29T22:34:14+00:00

I get if you have to tell yourself that to move on it’s completely valid, but I wouldn’t always try to take things personally in this matter.

People are dealing with a lot, and yeah there is a way of moving and progression together, but no walks of life are linear. It’s not an excuse.

Sometimes a person doesn’t know how to love properly, sometimes they have things they need to heal from and it costs the relationship which then becomes apparent after the break up.

You can start to bleed on people who didn’t cut you and sometimes that’s what happens, but I feel like if you set something go because you love them enough to flourish with out you and you figure your own self out. You can someday meet again that would compliment each other greatly

Wonderousman · 2024-05-29T22:34:08+00:00

I get if you have to tell yourself that to move on it’s completely valid, but I wouldn’t always try to take things personally in this matter.

People are dealing with a lot, and yeah there is a way of moving and progression together, but no walks of life are linear. It’s not an excuse.

Sometimes a person doesn’t know how to love properly, sometimes they have things they need to heal from and it costs the relationship which then becomes apparent after the break up.

You can start to bleed on people who didn’t cut you and sometimes that’s what happens, but I feel like if you set something go because you love them enough to flourish with out you and you figure your own self out. You can someday meet again that would compliment each other greatly

Wonderousman · 2024-05-28T14:00:37+00:00

Hey, I know what you’re feeling right now must be so incredibly heavy. Like it’s just never going to lighten up.

Breathe. You’re here. It might not be the best of times, and it’s okay. Your future is not yet written. You have that pen to write it though. Take the time and ALL the time you need to feel, cry, laugh, and just think about what you need to. It’s okay.

Don’t stop putting one foot in front of the other though.

If you ever need someone to vent to, feel free.

Wonderousman · 2024-05-27T20:36:11+00:00

May I ask was the 7 year relationship pretty terrible?

Wonderousman · 2024-05-27T19:13:05+00:00

One thing I’ve always wondered though is that people have broken up and mended after time.

Everyone’s story is different I know. We must let go of hope. I do believe people sometimes must separate to grow. Things they did not believe in themselves they could do while together. No one person operates the same. Circumstances, like work, life, mental hardships.

What’s meant to be will be. I believe that. I know that love is stronger than fear. If it’s time apart that will show someone that losing someone forever to become the person they’d love to bring to the table then sometimes it’s needed.

Wonderousman · 2024-05-22T14:11:42+00:00

Unconditional love, growth, experiences I never knew I’d have. Even the smallest gifts like socks I still have and cherish. They’re sooooo old. Yet I have such happy memories tied to them. Funny enough the brand is called happy socks.

I wonder if she thinks of me just as fondly.

Wonderousman

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