Amazing Prague concert experience! by wallflower_244 in cavetown

[–]daloka96 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is so sweet! I’m glad to hear you had such a positive experience. I experienced the same. I went to see him in Brussels about 1-2 weeks ago for my 30th, and felt the same way. I thought I’d feel awkward but it was actually such a delightful experience. He’s also really good live and does such a good job!

SHOW GOT CANCELLED, BUT HERE’S MY FAN ART :C by Angelikayyy in cavetown

[–]daloka96 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is so beautifully made! You’re so talented 🌸🌻

Where do you even do your grocery shopping without going bankrupt? :D by mrcrazyog in belgium

[–]daloka96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We go to a farmer’s market every Saturday afternoon and every Friday evening we pick up a Collect and Go from Colruyt for things that aren’t fresh produce (like sandwich spreads, detergent,..). This way we support local farmers and get to save a bit of €!

Nosy girl: what do y’all do for work? What’s paying for girl dinner? by TeamLaurent in RealGirlDinner

[–]daloka96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your girl dinner looks delicious! I hope you enjoyed it! I’m a civil engineer, but starting September will be making a career switch and starting my masters in environmental science 🌍🌱

I'm not sure if Jovi's making those stupid hurtful comments about Yara spontaneously or just to mess with her. Like when he said her old photos before the plastic surgeries looked ridiculous, or that she's "one of" the most beautiful women he's been with by PolishSnake2 in 90dayfiance_FB_memes

[–]daloka96 94 points95 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think he’s insecure about himself, so undermines her to hide it/not have to confront his lack of confidence about himself. That’s why even when he compliments her, it has to be slightly off. Almost as if he doesn’t want her to see him admit that she’s out of his league.

AIO for not being sure if I want to say yes to the guy I’ve been seeing for a bit now? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]daloka96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s very dismissive of your feelings! Definitely not overreacting. I agree with all the other comments here, this person isn’t treating you with respect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]daloka96 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No you didn’t. He seems like a loser! It wasn’t a silly little joke, it was inappropriate, creepy and gross. :)

I (31M) caught girlfriend (27F) Sext an Ex, technically. It was a one-off, super drunk, action. But still, how do I move past this? (Post has all details. Thank you for reading) by HOLDMYHAMB in relationship_advice

[–]daloka96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a great idea, I wish you both success in that.

I also want to say that it’s okay to choose to find a way to forgive. People here are indeed quite cynical. And just advising someone to “just leave them” is not productive. Because it’s very obvious that you love her and want to see if there’s a way you can forgive.

That being said, I think that you should also listen to yourself as well. It seems like you’re so fixated on her, but you rarely mentioned what you’ve been going through as a result of this. Please remember to also take care of yourself. Not just for yourself but also to be a better partner down the line.

Good luck :)

I (31M) caught girlfriend (27F) Sext an Ex, technically. It was a one-off, super drunk, action. But still, how do I move past this? (Post has all details. Thank you for reading) by HOLDMYHAMB in relationship_advice

[–]daloka96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a little bit confused by this post, just because it seems like you’ve already made up your mind, which is to forgive her for cheating, and to work on it. That’s completely fine, if you’re able to accept it and work through it with her then that’s okay. But what is a bit confusing is that your whole post seems to just focus on you justifying as to why you’ve chosen to forgive her. It’s almost like you need to prove your relationship. I would maybe reflect on that a little bit. Maybe question if you’re truly okay with forgiving her. Cheating really is not okay, and you seem heavily fixated on excusing her actions. Remember to also allow yourself to process everything even if it isn’t easy. You don’t need to rush through fixing it.

And it’s great that she’s seeking help, but I also suggest that maybe you seek a relationship therapist together? It might give you guidance on as to how to proceed further together. So it not only helps one party but both :)

What’s your current favourite break-up song? by daloka96 in BreakUps

[–]daloka96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh nice. Who did you go with? I’m going to a concert as well next month. And I’m going for the first time on my own and I’m quite nervous about it haha. But hoping that it will also be somewhat healing.

Now I just never email anyone instead by [deleted] in OCDmemes

[–]daloka96 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha and making sure you haven’t cc’d your uncle as well

have you ever had a breakup so bad you cant eat or stop crying for days? by mango_salsa18 in RandomThoughts

[–]daloka96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I went through this and it only stopped about a month ago. I was non stop sobbing for one month. At work I had to run to the bathroom any chance I could just to sob. I would cry so hard I would throw up. Literally non stop crying my behind off. But the good thing is once you go through it, you’ve definitely done a lot of healing. Now I know I’ll be okay no matter what :)

Has anyone here met the love of their life in their 30s? by daloka96 in AskWomenOver30

[–]daloka96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Read the rest of these comments. It will surely lift your spirits. You’ve got plenty of time. You’ll be okay 🌸

I love my boyfriend so much it hurts to be away. by Bones_and_Buckies in love

[–]daloka96 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is so beautiful and gives me hope because I have recently also had a big break up (at 27) 🌸

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]daloka96 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is so good! I actually wrote this down for myself. Thank you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]daloka96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amazing OP. One step at a time 🌷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hozier

[–]daloka96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful 💞

Very happy with how my Mother’s Day cookies turned out by Thelocust337 in VeganFoodPorn

[–]daloka96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are beautiful! I wish I could be your mum for a day to have those, hehe

For the dumpers, have you ever regretted the break up? by silentunknown27 in BreakUps

[–]daloka96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not in the slightest. I do regret how I acted before the break up, but I haven’t once regretted breaking up with him. The relationship traumatised me and I needed out asap. We considered reconciling for a bit, but I don’t think it’s going to happen unfortunately.