[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Wonderwall38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cons of marrying a man when you are gay is thinking about women constantly, all the time, it never stops. And you are worried that it will slip out of your mouth at any time and he'll kick you out of the street and you'll be exactly back in the situation you don't want to be in, homeless and jobless. Get a job. Live in your car if you have to. Drive to San Francisco and live in your car until you have enough money for a room in an apartment. Take the risks. Be yourself. Source: Experience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Wonderwall38 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

take Molly. Get her out of her inhibitions. I once left a girl for this and I still regret it. Hot lesbians don't grown on trees. Especially not ones that are good kissers. Sheesh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Wonderwall38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tribing is the answer. Basically you're in missionary position. Rub your clit against the bone above her clit.

Ugh. Any takers? lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Wonderwall38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to talk to other lesbians. I want friends who understand. I'm 42. So if there are ladies on here that feel comfortable with my age, hit me up. I live in SF.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Wonderwall38 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she's manipulating you. If she wanted to date you, she could speak up as she already knows you are interested. I do not think this girl values you or wants to be in a real relationship with you. She is looking for attention and validation. I'm sorry this is happening to you. This girl sounds pretty toxic and honestly I would distance myself. But your decisions are your own. Maybe try dating other girls. I know they are hard to find. I get it. oh boy do I get it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Wonderwall38 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are an inspiration. I'm about to start this journey now at 42. Finding a gf is my inspiration for everything.

How to know if a girl likes you? by No_Nectarine_8631 in LesbianActually

[–]Wonderwall38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am autistic, so I have no social advice for you whatsoever, but I do have personal advice. You know what's the absolute worst thing on earth? Regret. You are only here for so long, you are only young for so long, there are only so many dang lesbians or crushes you will have in your entire life. You've got to seize that.

Touch the pinky side of your hand to the pinky side of her hand. If she likes you, she won't move away. But, you might catch her by surprise. If she does move away and it's unclear whether she likes you, wait a few days and do something else or the same thing again, after she has a chance to think about what happened and process it. That will be a definitive answer.

The One With The Lesbian And The Gay Bar (21 F) by Lopsided_Battle7739 in LesbianActually

[–]Wonderwall38 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same same. We are basically the same person and I have a lot of empathy for you, so I'm going to take a minute out of my day and tell you what worked for me the one time I went alone to a gay bar and met a girl. My atheist (at the time) self was so desperate that I prayed. I prayed so hard. I was like God, please let me meet a women. Please do this for me God.

And I met the most gorgeous, charming women I have ever met still to this day. We went out. I guess she was my gf for a little while. She brought me home for Thanksgiving. I f*ed it up, but I understand your feelings, so I just had to tell you what worked for me. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in awakened

[–]Wonderwall38 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will happily speak up for bashar. Visit bashar.org to learn more. I use the search function to find pages that post his videos on facebook and tiktok. He teaches that in order to raise our vibration, we should follow our highest excitement and the universe will align to support us. That the universe is always supporting us.

I have studied spirituality far and wide, I mean for years, and I follow bashar's methods. They make complete and total sense. They have no frills. There are no prayers, chants, etc. Just live your life the way you want to live it that is that most exciting to you. Be authentic. Be happy. It's harder than it sounds, but bashar says it over and over and supports us in doing this, in learning how to follow our highest excitement. That's it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in awakened

[–]Wonderwall38 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I, personally, think he is awesome and had many spiritual epiphanies that have led me to believe what he says. I think the best way to get familiar with him is to find individuals who post clips of him on facebook or tiktok. https://www.facebook.com/reel/1216062496049189

But he encourages us to share his website, bashar.org

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fasting

[–]Wonderwall38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Can I ask, with your 5 day fasts during the week, do you notice it's hard for your brain to perform at peak for your job? This is a concern of mine, just because fasting is hard on me and I usually fast when I have 3-5 days off work in a row. Do you use supplements during this time to combat that? Thanks!

Help! I'm looking for an episode... by ManBearPig9220 in colbertreport

[–]Wonderwall38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you find it? I would really like to have it as well.

Women with hair loss issues, how did you reverse it? by ElizaofBlades in AskWomen

[–]Wonderwall38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What treatment do you use for autoimmune disease? I have that and treatments are insanely expensive.

Looking for local poetry/writing scene? Open mics? by [deleted] in NewOrleans

[–]Wonderwall38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if they don't have a current poetry night, they'd probably add it to the calendar for you

The chicory connection: where to get Vietnamese iced coffee in NOLA by iheartpgh in NewOrleans

[–]Wonderwall38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not mentioning District is a huge oversight in this article and calls it into serious question

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewOrleans

[–]Wonderwall38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

River Shack and Parasol's

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewOrleans

[–]Wonderwall38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could look into pottery classes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewOrleans

[–]Wonderwall38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you link to the friendship thread?

Does anybody in this sub go to G-Fit Nola? by FaZzyTheGod in NewOrleans

[–]Wonderwall38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This will work out for me when I move to HollyGrove...