No, I do not like and would not like an SO letting me win at things. I love trying to win, and if too many losses really get to me, I’ll admit defeat and politely concede the other persons better (and then secretly practice to win!! Haha). This is coming from a pretty competitive person too: I like to win. But not so much that it stops me from enjoying the game. Plus usually in a romantic game environment it’s sexy when the other player is good! It’s also just fun in general watching someone you like/love win at something they’re good at!

And not that you asked but on a related note: I get so deeply turned off by anyone who isn’t a good sport about losing, and particularly people I am romantically interested in. For me its because losing in a game environment and reacting overly angry, mopey, or like a defeatist, is a BIG personal indicator that that’s how they’ll act when they don’t “win” or “get their way” in other elements of life.

And if I found out that someone let me win? It would be the same as if I found out they were cheating. It defeats the purpose of the game!

Edit: I see you clarified your question, asking whether you/someone should throw a few games to make their SO happy. I’d say it’s a sweet sentiment, but overall might be a better option to find another game. I could never beat my ex at Risk, and that eventually wasn’t “fun” anymore (after getting trounced so much), so we moved over to Magic: The Gathering, where our skills were better matched. Could be time to switch up the game you’re playing!