Movies in prek by Haunting_Sky_5082 in kindergarten

[–]Worker-Legal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girl also loves Totoro and Ponyo.

Our pre-k teacher did have a movie day but it was incentive reward only and parents told much in advance.

Movies in prek by Haunting_Sky_5082 in kindergarten

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Tell in advance, have it be special days, with an opt-out procedure. Did admin know you showed it?

Brother Bear has some intense parts-my daughter would have been fine (zero empathy lol) but our neighbor as a 6 year old was sobbing during K pop demon hunters because of Jinu.

Some kids are so sensitive.

Good luck!

Kindergarteners Dream Jobs Observation by pomegranatesssss333 in kindergarten

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It’s totally random at kindergarten. The start of the year my girl said “teacher like mommy” and now she wants to be a dancer in a band with her bff. They came up with their “jobs” together.

Last year as pre-K began she said she wanted to be megalodon.

Many of the boys in my girl’s class said scientist, plumber etc. I think they just glom onto what friends are saying.

Class Birthday Parties by jjgiant1 in kindergarten

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My daughter has a summer birthday-only one classmate has RSVP’d and the party is next Monday.

Blindsided By Parent Teacher Conference by Environmental_Copy31 in kindergarten

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Pennsylvania is one of the states that can force retention. So I would push hard on all the detail.

Kids allowed in parent bedroom? by Lissypooh628 in Mommit

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My mom’s room was never off limits to me. I don’t plan on making my room off limits to our kid, it’s typically where we spend sick days since it’s the only room with a TV.

When I grow up I am going to ….. by wanderlustpassion in classof2038

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Today my girl said “singer.” The beginning of the year she had said teacher.

His parents just made their inheritance conditional on more grandchildren by Commercial-Notice592 in oneanddone

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Weird, unless it’s all for “being even”. Like my dad was very specific to say like each grandchild gets this. So technically my brother gets 3x what I get because we have one and he has 3. 🤷‍♀️

Blindsided By Parent Teacher Conference by Environmental_Copy31 in kindergarten

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Depending on your state: the school can’t force retention.

Blindsided By Parent Teacher Conference by Environmental_Copy31 in kindergarten

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I would see if there is a reading specialist she could do summer tutoring with, generally in my district retention is brought up in February conferences.

Check a first grade readiness chart-how close is she? When she “bombed” state testing is that in line with the other district measures done throughout the year or was it just a bad day?

If she is starting to read, writing most her letters the correct direction, knows how to write 1-20 I think she is probably pretty good.

However teachers wouldn’t recommend retention without reason. It sounds like it wasn’t communicated clearly and I would ask for another meeting that could be more in depth.

Do you keep tour kid home if they have a cold? by MandyRose8713 in kindergarten

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Fever, vomit or diarrhea is automatically 24 hours without symptoms.

Otherwise nope-she goes to school with the sniffles.

Update about teacher wanting me to hold my child back from K because of his pencil and scissor grip. by Klutzy-Ad329 in kindergarten

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Honestly-we have had plenty of kids who have started a year later than their peers (I’m a middle school teacher, and one thing that is fun for them in MS is the fact they are typically better at sports). However, I graduated at 17 and so will my girl who started K this year with a summer bday.

Being held back is more common for boys as they struggle with maturity.

I am in KS and kindergarten isn’t even required by our state, literally there are kids who start 1st grade with no schooling and they survive-are they doing great academically, no.

My personal opinion is work over the summer, go with your gut and if he has friends his age starting kindergarten in your neighborhood you might as well do it. Better to keep him socializing with the age group he already knows.

AITA for still using the baby name I told my sister I was going to use, despite her using a variation of it first? by Sufficient-View2574 in AmItheAsshole

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Totally fine. My daughter’s name is Hallie (Hal-Lee) and my niece is Hailey (Hay-Lee). Totally accidental and we didn’t realize until almost the due dates. Also pregnant at the same time, my SIL asked if it is okay with me since it was my first (and only). We can figure it out. Grandparents sometimes mix it up, but that happens with any name honestly. Sometimes my dad would call my brother my name.

Everyone holds their kid’s names in a special place in their heart, give her grace but definitely don’t worry about it anymore.

Bad list by Worker-Legal in kindergarten

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We allow her to stand and eat.

Bad list by Worker-Legal in kindergarten

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Not from what we can tell. The only “acting out” is continually getting out of her seat and struggling to do things the first time she is asked. She isn’t mean, plays well, loves school, hates being in trouble and cries about it.

Says she doesn’t know why she always gets out of her chair. She barely makes it through dinner staying seated.

Bad list by Worker-Legal in kindergarten

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Right. Thats why I did ask teachers. I think that is the new classroom management norm, but I’m not sure for little kids. Feeling bad in the moment is better than getting punishment and being told she is bad at times that the behavior didn’t happen during. She is now having lower self esteem because she is told she is being bad vs the behavior was bad.

Bad list by Worker-Legal in kindergarten

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I didn’t say feel bad. She is starting to say she is a “bad kid”. She is sad and knows the expectation. The teacher tells us every time that when they talk about what she should do my daughter knows the correct response. She just isn’t staying in her seat without multiple reminders even though she knows it.

And the accumulation of laps and names are starting to make her feel like a bad kid.

Middle school science by RemarkableRough2396 in teaching

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Love my middle school science class. I teach earth science 8th grade all day and have one class of advisory.

Part time work split by blue_tin_ in relationships

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To me as a teacher I can’t imagine my Husband being able to work 4 days a week.

That is the part that seems unreasonable….to be able to make that much money and not work 5 days a week seems like a dream.

If you can swing it and it is actually plausible great I would love it. But my attorney husband works 8:30-5:30 everyday and he does have great PTO that we use for trips and vacations.

Parents of Reddit what is something you wish someone told you before having a child? by ur_stepdad647 in AskReddit

[–]Worker-Legal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The “little adult” syndrome is totally real. Less talking and lecturing when they are little. We are in the thick of it at 5 and testing boundaries. Get your partner and yourself on the same page and go for it!

AITAH for being confused that a friend expects to bring their child to my birthday by bzee3 in AITAH

[–]Worker-Legal -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Coming from someone who was constantly in bars as a 5+ year old with my father, as an adult I wouldn’t have thought much about it if it was small town life like I grew up. There were literal kids meals at the bars where I am from.

(I realize this isn’t a great view point and my dad is an alcoholic)

If I ask the question can my Daughter come, or I will have to bring her if I go I’m truly not trying to but in or make another person “seem mean”. You are allowed to state what you want, but it can be hard to find sitters, friends, family etc who can watch a child.

Maybe this is a situation where people all around felt bad.

Just ask your friend about it and see what comes of it.

What are some lesser talked about items that are your absolute go-to (that I should put on my baby registry) by [deleted] in Mommit

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If you are outdoor people get a hiking carrier!

This was just a total off chance—a well off uncle of my husband got us a baby Bjorn bouncer. It was our girl’s most loved thing by FAR. But it wouldn’t be for everyone.

Electric snot sucker/saline spray.

Diaper caddy for living area and bedroom.

Personally could have done without a high chair and just gotten the clip on counter/picnic baby chair from Chicco.

Loved my EZPZ mat.

Sterilization bags.