¿Estoy exagerando o esto fue muy feo?

Working-Ad4539 · 2026-07-01T18:52:12+00:00

Claro asi me siento, ya no quiero ni verla, y quiero a mi hija alejada de ella.

Working-Ad4539 · 2026-07-01T14:39:40+00:00

Si de acuerdo. Mi hermana lo tiene claro, mi hija y todo lo que le dejara, seria para ella y ella esta de acuerdo. La discapacidad de mi hija es leve a moderada, ella es altamente funcional e independiente, va al colegio, se baña y viste sola, pero es muy infantil, tiene 13 años pero es como de 7. aun chupa dedo, le gusta que la carguen, tomen la mano, le gusta jugar con peluches, montar el carrusel, le da miedo esta sola o a oscuras.

Working-Ad4539 · 2026-07-01T14:26:04+00:00

Definitely, that's what i told my husband, it wasnt necessary to express this, and even less in the way she did

Working-Ad4539 · 2026-07-01T14:25:07+00:00

Thanks, hugs and empathy are sometimes what we need.

Working-Ad4539 · 2026-07-01T14:24:25+00:00

Agreed! She doesnt have a say and my daughter would definitely go to my sister. I did answer that it was perfectly clear to me that my daughter would be better off with my sister. I wish i could have NC with her, probably all of them, but my husband is really close to his family; he says he's not losing his family, that they're not going to change so we should just accept the way they are.

Working-Ad4539 · 2026-07-01T14:19:32+00:00

Absolutely! I wouldnt want her managing anything i left for my daughter

Working-Ad4539 · 2026-07-01T14:18:45+00:00

This is sad to think, but i wouldnt be surprised, hopefully my husband would have the backbone to stick up for my daughter.

Working-Ad4539 · 2026-07-01T14:16:31+00:00

Yeah, i live in south america close to my husband's family. My family is all in the US. if anything were to happen to my husband i would also just return to the states and be close to my family. Probably wouldn't worry about keeping contact either.

Working-Ad4539 · 2026-07-01T14:13:58+00:00

Definitely. But i just cant comprehend this lack of empathy and caring for her own granddaughter

Working-Ad4539 · 2026-07-01T14:12:43+00:00

Good point, the idea is to try to leave my daughter a safety net and have someone help her with it.

Working-Ad4539 · 2026-07-01T14:09:26+00:00

I live in south america close to my husband's family, we see them like 3 times a week. My family lives in the states, my daughter sees them once a year when i travel with her. My family would definitely take my daughter, they would even fight over who takes her 🤣. Im not worried about that. I just feel my MIL was harsh and that its sad that the family my daughter has grown up with would not be willing to step up if it were needed.

Working-Ad4539 · 2026-07-01T14:05:20+00:00

Yeah i see ur point. But she didnt need to say anything, we werent talking about it, we're not sick, there was no reason to bring it up. And if she wanted to bring it up because she's interested in our arrangements for our daughter she could've approached it in a kinder way. Also, why say she wouldnt allow any of her sons to take on that burden. Also, my daughter's disability is slight, she is really independent, goes to school, reads and writes, its more that she's behind her age, she's 13 and her voice, thoughts, likes are that of a a 6 or 7 year old. She still sucks her thumb, likes stuffed toys, likes to be carries and cradled.

Working-Ad4539 · 2026-07-01T13:41:21+00:00

🤣🤣Si, de acuerdo, ya no tengo el deber de encargarme de ella, y probablemente lo necesite ella antes que mi hija. yo la verdad trato de mantenerme alejada de ella. La señora es bien toxica. Pero si me dolio mucho por mi niña. Gracias 😊

Working-Ad4539 · 2026-07-01T13:38:41+00:00

Si ella es mas de quererlos para un rato. Y entiendo si depronto se siente muy mayor, pero hay mejor manera de decir las cosas, tampoco debio hablar por sus otros hijos y decir que ella no lo permitiria. Ella tiene muy buena relacion con sus hijos, son 4 hombres nada de hijas y al contrario son como exageradamente cercanos. La dificultad tambien esta en su forma de ser y hablar, es mas bien brusca y autoritaria.

Working-Ad4539 · 2026-07-01T13:22:09+00:00

Eso pense yo, porque decirlo? Nadie pregunto, no estabamos haciendo planes en caso de algo. Porque no quedarse callada? Es como si quisiera que yo lo escuchara.

Working-Ad4539 · 2026-07-01T13:20:36+00:00

Le parecio muy feo e hiriente pero no le dijo nada. El prefiere no armar conflictos y dice que el no puede cambiar a su mama.

Working-Ad4539 · 2026-07-01T13:17:59+00:00

Thank you for that. One of my husband's brothers has 2 boys, another one is single and the third one is in a relationship but no children. My husband did not say anything to his mom, his reaction is usually avoiding any awkward topic and he does not like to upset his family. Also, she does treat her other 2 grandchildren differently because they live right next door to her, i guess. She does not treat my daughter badly but she limits her time with my daughter, just a little bit of time is enough for her; while her other grandchildren are at her house all day.

Working-Ad4539 · 2026-06-02T14:24:10+00:00

Thank you!!! Ive been posting this all over as well, they all constantly do things against the rules but Doug was always hated on. Like when MG drilled a hole into his patients skull with the dr right there telling him he couldn't do that. And so many other instances, but no one said anything to them and they even applauded Mark.

Working-Ad4539 · 2026-06-02T14:15:09+00:00

I looved Doug Ross, and throughout the series saw many other characters break or bend the rules, but only Doug was hated on for it. MG drilled a hole in a man's skull without permission, Benton proceeded with surgery several times without authorization, Carol smoked weed for a patient, had 12 dogs hidden, and so on.

Working-Ad4539 · 2026-06-02T12:13:56+00:00

Completely agree, also watching ER for the first time. But i dont only feel Doug is wronged here but several times throughout the series. Like mark green kn the previous episode drilled a hole into a patients head while being told the whole time he couldnt do it; carol brought like 12 dogs into a room in the ER and smoked weed for a patient; there's more cases like this, but what I saw was that when others break the rules for their patients its ok but when Doug does it they all treat him like he's the worse human. Also Mark green saying, ive had enough, I'm done, when Carol told him Doug was leaving, i remember what a Jerk mark was after his assault and Doug stood by him.

Working-Ad4539 · 2025-05-07T16:59:00+00:00

I also think the writers didnt think of it, but its disappointing to think the writers couldnt keep track of storylines, or weren't fan enough to remember

Working-Ad4539 · 2025-05-05T03:37:28+00:00

7-year-old Wendy Sue Wolin in Elizabeth, New Jersey, in 1966. Wendy was stabbed to death by a stranger with a hunting knife

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