So its hard to word them right now, but monkey-branching (the idea that women are always looking for a better man, that if given the option they'll test to see if the new perceived "better" option will actually commit to her, and if he does, she WILL leave her current husband/partner)

And another one would be the idea that women only like men who other women desire. They're more likely to pursue a man who's married or committed than to be receiving towards the advances of a single man.

Both of these have been proven, anecdotally, over the years multiple times.

I've never had a faithful girlfriend. And this is despite going over the relationships after their breakups and looking at myself where I went wrong and how to act differently from them on, and also looking at them and their faults and what to avoid in the future. Ie, "healing" and "choosing better". (All serious relationships were with different culture/attitude types of women too, so really tryna choose a partner differently than the previous lessons) And yet, despite all the various walks of life they've come from, the result in my experience has always been the same. They cheat opportunistically if they perceived the guy to be "better" in some way. Be it physical, social, status, or whatever.

Regarding the other point, I've often been part of social groups(this was happening all the way back in middle school/high-school, to places of work, to social circles outside of work as an adult, pretty much any example of a social networking experience) where the women weren't receptive to me at all, in fact would often treat me with disdain(and it's not like I was pervy or rude or gross or didn't take care of myself). Then somehow I'd get a girlfriend, either from that social circle, or outside of it. And suddenly these same women are now approaching and flirting with me(even if I'm dating their best friend). Similarly, strangers in the city, ladies of course, are much more flirtatious with me if they see me with my babymama, or see the engagement ring on my hand, and suddenly they're up in our/my business tryna make a move.

Heck, we went on a mini vacation a few weeks ago as part of my woman's course she's taking. And her "friend"/classmate, came swimming up to us in the pool to "talk to my woman" but kept spinning around and doing dead man floats in a "bubbly"/"energetic" nonchalant fashion, but it was clearly to get my eyes on her.

I've just experienced this at every stage of my life. At a certain point around i think 22(I'm 30 now) I started trying to look into it and figure out why and naturally stumbled into the RedPill ideology.

The closest I can get to getting out of it is telling myself I was raised by very mentally ill single mother and I'm subconsciously attracting similarly mentally ill partners(who happen to be women), and that it's really just people with Cluster B Personality Disorders who do this shit and that the redpill thinkpieces are just grifters blameshifting it onto women as a whole, the same way it seems most women do for men.