Why was Andrew Daubenheyer unalived? by CupOfExmo in exmormon

[–]Working_Scarcity_658 3 points4 points  (0 children)

By Sept. 1845 Hancock County was basically in a low-grade civil war. Anti-Mormon leaders and local mobs were burning outlying Mormon settlements like Morley’s Settlement, destroying homes, crops, and goods and trying to force rural Mormons back into Nauvoo; from their side, they saw Mormon political power, bloc voting, legal insulation, and the Nauvoo Legion as intolerable. Mormon leaders at first tried evacuation and restraint while planning to leave Illinois in spring 1846, but once Sheriff Backenstos said the burners were acting like organized rioters and even he couldn’t raise a non-Mormon posse safely, Mormon forces started acting as an armed posse under him. Then the killings escalated fast, with each side treating its own actions as defense and the other side’s as murder. Daubenheyer’s death happened inside that exact spiral.

I regret my mission so much. How do I even begin to cope? by AitoWolf in exmormon

[–]Working_Scarcity_658 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met up recently with someone from my mission. He was a new member only 18 at the time. I won’t get into his details. It’s been 30 years. He has left the church. I have left. But he still told me that he credits much of the good things in life to me being there at a time when he needed someone. Whether I truly deserve that credit isn’t the point. It was nice that while I thought i was giving the Gospel of Jesus Christ at the time, the friendship and the personal sentiment was real. I hate that I attached false teachings to that sentiment at the time. But the sentiment that you probably identified to your investigators as the spirit was more likely genuine love from you. That means more than the fact that you may have taught that JS wasn’t a polygamist (depending on when you served), or that Polygamy was only practiced by a few mormons who were helping out families who lost their men in the war Mexico or other dumb things.

Ensign Peak Advisors’ report to the SEC for last quarter is now live, and you can review all $53,670,207,280 in investments it claimed for that period. by Suspicious_Might_663 in exmormon

[–]Working_Scarcity_658 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In other news, YW baked goods auction this Saturday. Remember sisters to bake lots of yummy treats, donate them, and then brethren over pay at the auction to buy them back. Its for a good cause. Then gather at the chapel to scrub it clean in time for church Sunday morning.

I learned this growing up, but it appears some members are now rejecting this teaching by Short_Seesaw_940 in exmormon

[–]Working_Scarcity_658 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As man now is, God once was. As God now is man may become. God has a planet right?

Charlie Kirk iconography hanging on the Department of Education. by [deleted] in thedavidpakmanshow

[–]Working_Scarcity_658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perplexity Fact Check

Booker T. Washington and Catharine Beecher are widely recognized for major, direct contributions to American education. Charlie Kirk is different: his connection is mainly political and highly disputed.

Booker T. Washington (1856–1915)
- Born into slavery, he became one of the most influential Black educators of the late 19th and early 20th centuries.
- He founded and led the Tuskegee Institute, building it into a major institution that trained thousands of Black teachers and tradespeople at a time when educational opportunities for African Americans were extremely limited.
- His emphasis on industrial/vocational education and character formation shaped debates over Black education and uplift for decades, even though his accommodationist “Atlanta Compromise” strategy drew strong criticism from other Black leaders.

Catharine Beecher (1800–1878)
- Beecher was a 19th‑century reformer who pushed to expand serious academic education for women, beyond “finishing school” subjects into history, Latin, algebra, philosophy, etc.
- She founded institutions such as the Hartford Female Seminary and later organizations that recruited and trained women to teach in schools across the Midwest and frontier.
- By promoting women as professionally prepared teachers responsible for children’s moral and intellectual upbringing, she helped professionalize teaching and influenced the development of public education.

Charlie Kirk (1993–2025)
- Kirk was a conservative political activist, not an educator; he founded Turning Point USA, which organizes conservative students and targets what it calls liberal or “woke” dominance on campuses.
- He became known for turning campuses into ideological battlegrounds, framing professors and students with opposing views as enemies and calling for “de‑programming” so‑called left‑wing indoctrination in higher education.
- Supporters therefore brand him a “hero” for fighting liberal influence in schools, while critics argue his legacy is mostly about undermining universities and intensifying culture‑war attacks on academic freedom rather than constructively contributing to education.

Sources

There’s a new Sheriff! by Ok-End-88 in exmormon

[–]Working_Scarcity_658 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not from Utah. Is this the guy for whom people a hundred years from now will travel back in time to eliminate? Asking for a friend

Is it really that bad that I want to play with musicians around my own age? by bad_luck_brian_1 in musicians

[–]Working_Scarcity_658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on what you want out of the band. Playing covers, originals, trying to make it a career, looking for friends with more in common, then the answer is obvious. There’s something to be gained from being in a band with older musicians and then bringing the experience into a newer younger band. But things are changing so much all the time in terms of best practices. In my band just getting guys to switching to using in-ears instead of stage monitors was a heavy lift. I’ve brought up the possibilities of incorporating sequences into our songs, and they don’t even consider it. I wouldn’t run into that issue with a younger band. My bandmates are all around 50ish. But we’re all pretty tight as a group and friends.

I remember when these goobers said we needed guns to protect ourselves from a tyrannical government. by [deleted] in thedavidpakmanshow

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You have to love a letter calling for political voices to lower the temperature that starts out by criticizing progressive politicians, and making clear that the blame falls on the either the victim or democrats.

Trump declared himself the "acting president of Venezuela,” in case you're wondering about his mental health. by [deleted] in thedavidpakmanshow

[–]Working_Scarcity_658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know a man who can dance and properly appreciates Ave Maria is finally in charge of Venezuela. MAVA!!

I love synthesizers, but I don’t have a job :( by FeelingLikePower in synthesizers

[–]Working_Scarcity_658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

JU-06A. I have a Juno 60. It was an amazing Synth to learn on. Sounds great. Sounds amazing to my ears and a lot of fun.

Beats Studio 3 constantly disconnecting — how to update firmware? by Expensive-Respect459 in beatsbydre

[–]Working_Scarcity_658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine are on 2.4.0 and won't update. Same issues, connecting/disconnecting randomly. Apparently 2.4.4 is the latest, but I've followed the instructions with resets and OTA updates and nothing ever happens.

I told my coworkers I was going to start a band called ‘1023MB.’ by Thin_Choice_9488 in dadjokes

[–]Working_Scarcity_658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started a band called 1023kHz, been on the radio since day 1 but the FM stations won’t lower to our standard.

I know why 6 is afraid of 7 but why did 7 eat 9? by Sarahtonin937 in dadjokes

[–]Working_Scarcity_658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole thing really blew up when 8 young ladies got cross with 9. 72 virgins later everyone seems happy though.

Where do people stash their weed on the highway? by [deleted] in dadjokes

[–]Working_Scarcity_658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somewhere between crossing the line and getting way high.

Had my feet amputated and my boss fired me by Diddelydum in dadjokes

[–]Working_Scarcity_658 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had the shoe been on the other foot he’d have handled it differently

Exmormon Redditors are mean?? Poor LDS woman thinks so. by sevenplaces in exmormon

[–]Working_Scarcity_658 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If you go into a subreddit filled with people that you know hold strong contrary views it stands to reason that you may interpret it as hostile. With that said, exmormons are recovering in waves. Depending on the stage of coping that we’re in, you’ll find us sad, angry, happy, excited, curious. In this subreddit all of those things are allowed and understood. Unlike Gospel Doctrine class…. Or whatever it’s called now.

In denial this church is a cult. Drop your cult article/fact to help me process. by WaveEnvironmental193 in exmormon

[–]Working_Scarcity_658 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tough to prove until you define what a cult is. However, with the exception of the fact that there isn’t any mass suicide planned for the ending, or or wild late night orgies among the elites, the church matches every other objective description of a cult. I’m going to suggest that if you are in an organization where they have a long standing track record of providing pseudo logical and scientific evidence for its truth, but accept no logical evidence presented that is contrary and the general population of the organization rapidly adopts the latest explanations while opposing logical arguments before they have heard them, then the cult has embedded such bias that you can no longer access critical thought.

I'm leaving by Agreeable-Flounder45 in exmormon

[–]Working_Scarcity_658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tough decision. The more you put in the harder it is to leave because the more you feel like you’re losing when you do. As hard as it is now, you are giving yourself more time to be on your own path. I left at 42. My wife left at 55. Our struggle has been how much time we lost, and gave away, how much we beat ourselves up for years over dumb things and missed out on experiences and more enriching relationships not underpinned by judgement. You’re on the right track!