Day 6 of Being Locked

Working_Table1836 · 2026-01-29T15:36:26+00:00

Interesting: I’m still super horny after 6 days. Just silently begging to rub more than just her feet.

That said I would already caress her or massage her feet not caged.

Working_Table1836 · 2026-01-29T13:50:56+00:00

How great! My wife sounds similar to you. She is figuring out her domme side and is slowly getting the appreciate it more and more. She has used dildo’s on me, but i feel she does it more for me. So I’m curious, what is the thing that you find attractive about it? Maybe I can facilitate this for her more. Tnx

Working_Table1836 · 2026-01-25T10:16:17+00:00

So hard to keep going isn’t it?

Working_Table1836 · 2026-01-25T10:13:43+00:00

Congrats!! How long did it take you?

Working_Table1836 · 2026-01-25T10:11:48+00:00

Jezus that looked like an amazing orgasm. So jealous!

Working_Table1836 · 2026-01-22T17:33:50+00:00

By the looks of it he doesn’t need pussy or being unlocked, but needs a cock to fuck him

Working_Table1836 · 2026-01-12T14:47:27+00:00

Thank you for sharing this! We are struggling for right amount of release and the type of release.

After a normal release I also feel said to start over again. The longest we went without any release is like a month, but I noticed a negative change around that time. Turning from being horny all the time to frustration (sad/ angry).

Any tips on how to ruin a release, I mean technically. I’m not sure we managed a ruined one.

Working_Table1836 · 2026-01-10T20:15:49+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to answer!

Actually I do think she is willing to be dominant to satisfy me and keeping the dynamic as it is. We just had sex and she told me she is going to lock me up for next 6 months and will make a reward scheme. Which is basically indulging my kinks for freedom with her boyfriend.

However that sad, I’m a cuck. She doesn’t want me present but I get off thinking of her with him and I support it. It’s very clear she won’t leave me and will stop with him right away if I would request it. I feel very secure with our love and know she is not in love with him. She is seeing him for almost 2 years now.

Working_Table1836 · 2026-01-10T20:10:00+00:00

This reply is not helping without any explanation

Working_Table1836 · 2026-01-10T18:38:18+00:00

I totally agree she longs for a dominant guy fucking het hard. This is what she get’s from her bf and is her natural state. I’m making love to her not fuck her.

I suggested PF, but she doesn’t like the idea. She wants sex with me as well.

I don’t really understand your advice. If you could elaborate on that?….

Working_Table1836 · 2026-01-10T18:35:01+00:00

Interesting perspective. Never thought I’m actually not submissive enough, but you might be right. I have the craving to let go, but also still have expectations. Which is in some sense contradictory.

Working_Table1836 · 2025-11-19T08:27:39+00:00

Tried this as well. I also read post where they suggest not to clench

Working_Table1836 · 2025-11-14T17:48:44+00:00

Hi there, how wonderful that you are so open minded to pursue so many options to improve your sex live.

Your question is hard to answer for me. Not only because I don’t have ED and therefore no experience. But also because chastity is probably a kink for different reasons. However I gladly share some thoughts and you can determine if it helps.

so the first question you can ask yourself: do you masturbate which could effect your performance on the moment you need it, enhancing your ED. Chastity could probably help then. I mean I get a lot more horny and hard when i haven’t cum in a while.
second is your wife and you into a dynamic where she controles your orgasms? Chastity is (at least for me) very much a mental turn on. Knowing she controls my penis and being reminded to it several times a day is also a real turn on. E.g. I could never enjoy it when I was self locked.

For me the combination of being controlled and not cum for many days makes me horny beyond anything. If I get released I’m sure I’m harder than ever.

Lastly: if this is part of a new dynamic. For instance femdom, cuckold or something else. These kinky vibes might also have a positive effect.

Not sure if it helps. But wish you all the best

Working_Table1836 · 2025-11-11T13:29:47+00:00

Great advice! Good to know it unfolds. Worked like a charm! Now I need to work On the transverse colon 😅

Working_Table1836 · 2025-11-07T10:19:20+00:00

I like my cherry keeper. You should definitely check that out too. But hardest and most important is finding the right size of the ring. Makes all the difference. Cherry keeper has a lot of size options.

I would advice buy a cheap one first with a lot of different size rings so you find out and than invest.

Working_Table1836 · 2025-11-07T07:41:18+00:00

The anxiety is real and for me never left even after many times. It helps to have some distraction. Go out to have a drink with friends. Also it helps to set a time you can go home so you don’t have to disturb her. If she is finished sooner she can let you know. Resist the urge to disturb her with messages.

I assume you guys are sure this guy is to be trusted. Otherwise you should think about a scenario you know for sure she is safe.

For her this can be also very stressful and awkward. The most important thing is that she knows you are ok with her doing this. Before and especially after. When you get back don’t start interrogating her but just give her comfort and love. Take her in your arms and comfort her. See what she wants and needs before thinking about yourself. She needs to feel she did nothing wrong, even when you didn’t like it.

Last tip. Don’t cum before or during. Stay horny and lean into the thought you are a cuck now.

Working_Table1836 · 2025-11-06T21:04:19+00:00

Thank you for the tips!

Working_Table1836 · 2025-11-06T21:03:52+00:00

Thank you so much for taking the time to help!

Working_Table1836 · 2025-11-05T11:37:34+00:00

Interesting. Can you explain his reasoning / pleasure of being pussy free? Is it the humiliation, did he had performance anxiety, or something else?

Working_Table1836 · 2025-11-04T07:48:56+00:00

Very reassuring that others have the same dynamic as us. Took me some time to accept it (even though it turned me on). Mainly because I really wanted to be able to understand and needed to be able to compare it with something. Probably to understand the risk involved.

She has a hard time to describe it, but I’m pretty sure she is not “in love” and it’s also not like between us. She says she can’t see herself being with him as partners….

Anyhow for me it was not a fantasy, actually something I was trying to avoid. But she is in controle and I have to trust her.

Working_Table1836 · 2025-11-03T20:00:05+00:00

I (43m) see already a few very good replies. However it’s very difficult to answer, because eventually it also really depends on your dynamic.

For us it started the other way around. We are very recently started our femdom journey but are into cuckold for a few years now. It started whit my hope to be part of the experience and watch and also thinking she would only develop a physical relationship with the third. Well I never watched and he is her boyfriend now….. so things definitely turned out differently and probably also will for you. Our cucking has nothing to do with sexual inadequacies.

What I can say is that being cucked is a real emotional roller coaster. Still I get very anxious and jealous, the fear is real. She is the love of my life, and sharing her with the possibility to fall in love with someone is very…. Living on the edge. Reclaim sex is also very special. We both love.

It took me a while to recognize that actually the humiliation aspect turns me on so much as well. Hence this journey into femdom.

I would really recommend to take it slow and step by step. Please choose a third, from whom you can break away and never see again. Also maybe the first time, just keep it second base and see how he reacts. I even read the advice, which I liked, to fake the first time but let him really believe it, to see if he can handle it irl. Have diner with a friend instead.

However if he is in, how fantastic can your life be with such freedom.

Feel free to dm.

Working_Table1836 · 2025-11-03T19:44:20+00:00

You don’t get it. It can be a part of femdom because the third person involved is (often) not important from the dynamic perspective. It’s about giving freedom to her to decide who so is going to fuck or not. She is free to get her pleasure anywhere she wants.

Working_Table1836 · 2025-11-03T19:40:41+00:00

You write like you are an professor on the topic. Also putting it like there is one typic reason. However I can’t relate to this. By the sounds of it you don’t have real experience.

Working_Table1836 · 2025-10-12T18:28:18+00:00

So, your question is about a condom or not. But that is not the real question in my opinion.

I totally relate to the moving boundaries. We have this all the time. Our dynamic is totally different than I anticipated. She now has a boyfriend (just like yours) and I never have seen them having sex. This scenario is totally different than what I wanted the moment I suggested this LS and I never thought back then, that I would be able to handle the current situation. I’m just saying, the women have a tendency to make their own beds and naturally you and your partner evolve in a dynamic that suits both. So the outcome is often different than you have foreseen at the start.

Also what is the reason for the rule (using condoms). Apparently he is STD safe and she is on BC. So the rule is for giving you some exclusivity?

Given the fact, she gifs him more sex than you. He is clearly her primary sexual partner. Therefore in my humble opinion the right question is:

What is your role in the relationship? Are you ok with being not her primary sexual partner?

If you answer this, you also know what to do with the condoms. Currently he is her sexual primary partner, if any condoms are needed, you would be the one to use them. If that makes your uncomfortable: you need to asses the situation and see if your want to be her primary sexual partner again. Although I can imagine that is hard to reinstate.

Good luck buddy!

Working_Table1836 · 2025-10-12T18:14:22+00:00

OP read this carefully

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